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haha.. Look at that dude!.. I'm happy for you..

And here I was sitting here bored on my day off of work with a bottle of lotion and a piece of paper towel by my laptop lol.. You just inspired me to lotion up my dry knee caps and blow my nose with this paper towel instead..;)

How are the rest of you guys doing?

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hell yeah....I'm not going to question the ridiculousness going on here.. But it is quite a strange, yet rather funny coincidence lol.



I wonder if I would have beat off when I woke up, like I wanted to..very badly after having a dream where one girl was sitting on my dick, and one on my face...If I still would have gotten the phone call lol
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There is no way to really no bro, but I think your odds are a lot better if you don't.. Similar to my article its all about making positive decisions in your life, more positive things just flow in all directions.. With a negative choice the exact opposite happens

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So its been about a week....AND I JUST GOT A JOB!!!! After months of searching, applying, and interviews...I finally got a job when I quit masturbating!!!

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I actually did the same thing last year. I was applying to a bunch of places and got 1 call back and had a terrible nerve-racking interview that ruined my chances. Then I stopped masturbating for a good 2 months or so and I got a call from another job and the interview was a breeze.

I'm A LOT less anxious/nervous/shy when I abstain. I'm pretty sure it has to do with body chemicals and such.
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Fuze i feel you man, ive been wondering about this for a long time aswell and decided to actually fill out a survey about myself everyday and graph the results to see if there was any significant factors that affected how my days went.

ive been keeping track of my hours slept, calories eaten, amount of physical activity/cardio, whether i was horny, confident, happy, funny, etc etc and its actually been very entertaining and fun.

heres a brief summary of how i think masturbation helps/hurts me.

after masterbating the following 2 - 3 days i seem to be more needy, more out come dependant even talking to my friends, less confident, less talkative in general, less witty and generally have much higher standards for what i find attractive.

after not masturbating for 3 days i notice i have more mental energy, i enjoy talking to everyone more, evn people im not trying to fuck, i feel more attracted to lower quality women (not uglies though) i dont care about reactions as much and i am much less in my head throughout the day.

i had a similar story to u a couple times, women were texting me left right and center, sleeping with a couple of them, then i got needy for sex, figured i needed a jerk and the next day everything went down hill. dnno what it is, but i certainly feel like a have more of a glow around me when im all full of cum. people respond to me better, talk to me more and i feel much more confident.

my verdict, dont jerk.

btw ive heard that the orgasm after sex releases chemicals in the brain that promote confidence/ good feelings where as the orgasm from masturbation is usually too weak to give this benefit so it simply sucks energy out of u as well as nutrients produced by your load.

ive also heard that after a week of no masturbation your testosterone levels raise by 16%

dnno if theres truth behind it or not, just thought u might think its interesting.
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Fuze i feel you man, ive been wondering about this for a long time aswell and decided to actually fill out a survey about myself everyday and graph the results to see if there was any significant factors that affected how my days went.

ive been keeping track of my hours slept, calories eaten, amount of physical activity/cardio, whether i was horny, confident, happy, funny, etc etc and its actually been very entertaining and fun.

heres a brief summary of how i think masturbation helps/hurts me.

after masterbating the following 2 - 3 days i seem to be more needy, more out come dependant even talking to my friends, less confident, less talkative in general, less witty and generally have much higher standards for what i find attractive.

after not masturbating for 3 days i notice i have more mental energy, i enjoy talking to everyone more, evn people im not trying to fuck, i feel more attracted to lower quality women (not uglies though) i dont care about reactions as much and i am much less in my head throughout the day.

i had a similar story to u a couple times, women were texting me left right and center, sleeping with a couple of them, then i got needy for sex, figured i needed a jerk and the next day everything went down hill. dnno what it is, but i certainly feel like a have more of a glow around me when im all full of cum. people respond to me better, talk to me more and i feel much more confident.

my verdict, dont jerk.

btw ive heard that the orgasm after sex releases chemicals in the brain that promote confidence/ good feelings where as the orgasm from masturbation is usually too weak to give this benefit so it simply sucks energy out of u as well as nutrients produced by your load.

ive also heard that after a week of no masturbation your testosterone levels raise by 16%

dnno if theres truth behind it or not, just thought u might think its interesting.
I guess im not crazy after all lol

I think thats dope bro.. I actually started talking to 2 new girls since my last jerk, I had one over last night, she was texting me the entire night after she went home and the entire morning. I decided to give it one last try and see what happens, I jerked and neither girl has responded to my text since.. I swear on my soul

But it looks like I've started a little movement, just a little one. lol

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I'm telling you guys all sexual frustration is mindbody. If your having problems its due to 2 reasons. Your blaming it on something like watching too much porn or another reason other that that your unconscious mind affecting your body. And you need to say that your excuse is not true. The second thing you need to do is find what is stressing you and what emotions you are repressing in your unconscious that you don't realize. this knowledge and therapy will cure you. google dr john Sarno for more info. I can't help you, but I can give you what you need to help yourself. Also personally I say masturbate only if you can't have a girl do it for you. But please don't torture yourself by doing nothing.
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also the reason you guys feel this shit works is cause of the placebo effect. It'll work for a while but not for the long run. If you think something works, it will work for a bit because your mind expects it to work. The only way to solve the problem is to find the cause
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So its been about a week....AND I JUST GOT A JOB!!!! After months of searching, applying, and interviews...I finally got a job when I quit masturbating!!!

/True Story
I actually did the same thing last year. I was applying to a bunch of places and got 1 call back and had a terrible nerve-racking interview that ruined my chances. Then I stopped masturbating for a good 2 months or so and I got a call from another job and the interview was a breeze.

I'm A LOT less anxious/nervous/shy when I abstain. I'm pretty sure it has to do with body chemicals and such.
For me it has nothing to do anxious/nervous/shy behaviors... The amount of people seeking work, versus the amount of work...is ridiculous around here (and everywhere pretty much), so its real hard to find a job where the employer is willing to give you a chance and train you when there are hundreds of people who applied who have degrees in the field.

Its more to do with...my decision to stop masturbating made the universe change direction and throw a job in my lap :) lol
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So its been about a week....AND I JUST GOT A JOB!!!! After months of searching, applying, and interviews...I finally got a job when I quit masturbating!!!

/True Story
I actually did the same thing last year. I was applying to a bunch of places and got 1 call back and had a terrible nerve-racking interview that ruined my chances. Then I stopped masturbating for a good 2 months or so and I got a call from another job and the interview was a breeze.

I'm A LOT less anxious/nervous/shy when I abstain. I'm pretty sure it has to do with body chemicals and such.
For me it has nothing to do anxious/nervous/shy behaviors... The amount of people seeking work, versus the amount of work...is ridiculous around here (and everywhere pretty much), so its real hard to find a job where the employer is willing to give you a chance and train you when there are hundreds of people who applied who have degrees in the field.

Its more to do with...my decision to stop masturbating made the universe change direction and throw a job in my lap :) lol
That works too haha. I'm a big believer of The Universe.
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So its been about a week....AND I JUST GOT A JOB!!!! After months of searching, applying, and interviews...I finally got a job when I quit masturbating!!!

/True Story
I actually did the same thing last year. I was applying to a bunch of places and got 1 call back and had a terrible nerve-racking interview that ruined my chances. Then I stopped masturbating for a good 2 months or so and I got a call from another job and the interview was a breeze.

I'm A LOT less anxious/nervous/shy when I abstain. I'm pretty sure it has to do with body chemicals and such.
For me it has nothing to do anxious/nervous/shy behaviors... The amount of people seeking work, versus the amount of work...is ridiculous around here (and everywhere pretty much), so its real hard to find a job where the employer is willing to give you a chance and train you when there are hundreds of people who applied who have degrees in the field.

Its more to do with...my decision to stop masturbating made the universe change direction and throw a job in my lap :) lol
I don't know if you believe this or if your kidding lol, I too am a firm believer in the universe.

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I have my challenge posted here on MPUAF:

anti-masturbation-galaxys-challenge-vt8 ... highlight=


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I have mz challenge posted here on MPUAF:

anti-masturbation-galaxys-challenge-vt8 ... highlight=
Great post dude.. here this is for anyone else that wants an understanding of what porn does to you.
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If anybody's interested, Google "Your Brain on Porn" and take a read through the website with the same name. It discusses the affects of how porn overstimulates the release of dopamine (chemical associated with the highs of addictions such as gambling). Eventually the dopamine receptors become desensitized and one needs more extreme porn to get excited.
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So I had read and article a few months back about masturbation, It stated that when you masturbate your brain releases these chemical(Can't remember the name) that make women subconsciously less attracted to you. I did a ton of extra research and came to the conclusion that I was never going to masturbate again. It make me feel weak, lethargic, and not confident anyway.

Shortly after I stopped, I began meditation regularly, just keeping my brain alert and as sharp as possible.. I picked up on my exercise and began to eat better..

Since two weeks ago, I had 4 girls that were calling me every night and that I was having sex with regularly. Just two nights ago, I had one of the girls over my place real late.. She didn't tell me until she had came over that she was on her period and that it was really heavy.. Long story short that meant I wasn't getting any sex. I was horny as hell. The blow job just didn't help, after a few hours she left and I was still feeling the same. I called each one of the other chicks but im guessing they were all sleep...

I'm horny so im like fuck it... www dot porn hub dot com... I gave myself two good schwackings and went to bed. Woke up feeling like a tired lifeless loser. I hated the feeling and grew angry with myself for even doing it in the first place. Like an idiot I felt them temptation to do it again, and I gave into it once more.. Felt like banging my head into a wall..

From that point on, the 4 chicks I was talking to, that were calling me with consistency, and asking me if they could come over constantly, have not called me or texted me.. I texted a few of them but the conversations were just unusually boring. I just couldn't text how I used to. They just seemed to lose all interest.

I'm writing this to say, masturbation killed my game. Once I stopped I was in and out of girls like dirty underwear. From the moment I gave into it again, the girls I had already just didn't want me anymore..

So now i'm back at ground zero, I have to work my way back up to where I was..

Here goes nothing :)

I'm interested in hearing if anyone has had any similar experiences or any thoughts you may have.

Thanks for reading

This is the most ignorant post ever, no often fuze... there is NO CORRELATION between masturbation and pick up, that makes no sense...


some dudes(skills) masturbate and get hornier..
some dudes masturbate and they lose sex drive
some dudes masturbate and does not make a different(skills again)


is all in your head, another limiting belief... there is NO CORRELATION what soever in you masturbating and losing the 4 girls, but i have a theory of what really happened, you with your stupid ass obsession of being horny and no masturbating started harassing, and calling the 4 girls and acting needy in order for them to come to your crip that is why you probably lost them... But that is my guess...The only masturbation you should avoid is the MENTAL masturbation of the community... omg! out!
I second Skills360.

It's just a mental thing, placebo if you wish. I'm a wanker. I love wanking and porn so much. I'm proud of it. Scientists even argue that it's healthy. So why coming up with these limiting believes that masturbating is bad?

I am less horny when I don't masturbate and more horny when I jerk everyday. Thus, I want to fuck girls badly when I masturbate much, and I have a cooler laidback attitude when I don't do it that often. Or that's how I think it is. It's all arguable. Maybe you put the wrong links. Sure that you just were not simple in the mood or were too tired the days after because of other reasons?

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So I had read and article a few months back about masturbation, It stated that when you masturbate your brain releases these chemical(Can't remember the name) that make women subconsciously less attracted to you. I did a ton of extra research and came to the conclusion that I was never going to masturbate again. It make me feel weak, lethargic, and not confident anyway.

Shortly after I stopped, I began meditation regularly, just keeping my brain alert and as sharp as possible.. I picked up on my exercise and began to eat better..

Since two weeks ago, I had 4 girls that were calling me every night and that I was having sex with regularly. Just two nights ago, I had one of the girls over my place real late.. She didn't tell me until she had came over that she was on her period and that it was really heavy.. Long story short that meant I wasn't getting any sex. I was horny as hell. The blow job just didn't help, after a few hours she left and I was still feeling the same. I called each one of the other chicks but im guessing they were all sleep...

I'm horny so im like fuck it... www dot porn hub dot com... I gave myself two good schwackings and went to bed. Woke up feeling like a tired lifeless loser. I hated the feeling and grew angry with myself for even doing it in the first place. Like an idiot I felt them temptation to do it again, and I gave into it once more.. Felt like banging my head into a wall..

From that point on, the 4 chicks I was talking to, that were calling me with consistency, and asking me if they could come over constantly, have not called me or texted me.. I texted a few of them but the conversations were just unusually boring. I just couldn't text how I used to. They just seemed to lose all interest.

I'm writing this to say, masturbation killed my game. Once I stopped I was in and out of girls like dirty underwear. From the moment I gave into it again, the girls I had already just didn't want me anymore..

So now i'm back at ground zero, I have to work my way back up to where I was..

Here goes nothing :)

I'm interested in hearing if anyone has had any similar experiences or any thoughts you may have.

Thanks for reading

This is the most ignorant post ever, no often fuze... there is NO CORRELATION between masturbation and pick up, that makes no sense...


some dudes(skills) masturbate and get hornier..
some dudes masturbate and they lose sex drive
some dudes masturbate and does not make a different(skills again)


is all in your head, another limiting belief... there is NO CORRELATION what soever in you masturbating and losing the 4 girls, but i have a theory of what really happened, you with your stupid ass obsession of being horny and no masturbating started harassing, and calling the 4 girls and acting needy in order for them to come to your crip that is why you probably lost them... But that is my guess...The only masturbation you should avoid is the MENTAL masturbation of the community... omg! out!
I second Skills360.

It's just a mental thing, placebo if you wish. I'm a wanker. I love wanking and porn so much. I'm proud of it. Scientists even argue that it's healthy. So why coming up with these limiting believes that masturbating is bad?

I am less horny when I don't masturbate and more horny when I jerk everyday. Thus, I want to fuck girls badly when I masturbate much, and I have a cooler laidback attitude when I don't do it that often. Or that's how I think it is. It's all arguable. Maybe you put the wrong links. Sure that you just were not simple in the mood or were too tired the days after because of other reasons?
lol thats cool, just note that you and skills are out numbered 20-2 here :)

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