Hi guys.

Basically I have been 'seeing' this girl now for about a month and we have such a laugh together and I know she likes me because she's told me that and we've kissed etc but haven't slept together yet - I have just come out of a 2.5 year relationship and told her I don't want to rush straight into a relationship.

We were out on Friday night with a few friends and my brothers girlfriend went to the bathroom with her and some guy asked her for her number and she said "sorry im seeing somebody" and then she looked to my brothers gf and said "well at least I think i am seeing 'my name'". Anyway I found out about that and was happy and then on the saturday night she invited me around to hers but sadly I couldn't go because I had already made plans. Anyway today (monday) I was just browsing facebook and noticed that her ex boyfriend who she hasn't been with for a year has just left her a facebook message on her wall saying ":-) xxxxxxxx" what the fuck is that about? She has told me that he wants her back and constantly emails her love letters etc but that she isn't interested, and there is another guy that she was seeing a couple of months ago that keeps facebooking her as well. At first it didn't bother me at all but now that I want us to go somewhere it's really beginning to piss me off.

I guess my question to you is what should I do? I am seeing her tonight and really want to say something but don't know the best way to approach it.

Thanks guys (my apologies for the essay).

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Berg!

Stay off Facebook.

I never go on Facebook and always try to avoid staying away from girls im seeing profiles but I went on hers to post this link and then I see that - so now I'm in a predicament as to what to do?!

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Berg!

Step into reality. Girl you talk to other guys, especially if there cute, will have other trying to hook up with them. It's part of the game. Your not the only guy. Because of this women naturally screen guys.

You need to escalate. Sleep with her soon as you get the chance.. Then the ball is in your court. Rolling with a cool social circle also helps.

Act like you never read it. As I already said, forget FB, it's not real life and things are often misconstrued on there.

If you're not dating the girl, you got no right to be mad. And no, you're not dating a girl if you phrase it "seeing" in quotations.