Story goes back a year so I will try and make it snappy with bullet points..

* Eastern European girl starts working in my the building I work in.
* She seems keen and we end up going for drinks on couple of occasions
* She is still hung up over ex boyf... nearly goes back to him, but he wont commit to her as his family wouldn't approve
* I behaved like AFC,, treated her to dinner and night out without a kiss, hand hands let alone fuck (2-3 dates)
* She wasnt very forthcoming and after I got back from a few days away, she broke it off
* I deleted her from FB and she got really funny about it. Told her I dont want to be friends.. she found that difficult funnily enough.
* When there was communication over texta month later, I ended up offending with negs that weren't negs of about wrinkles in her face and something else. She stopped speaking to me after going mad. We patched it up eventually.
* About a month went past last year and she saw me chatting to another girl in the building.. before you know it she is texting like mad - assuming that me and girl are getting it on.
* I kind of didnt deny it or admit it.. i kept it ambiguous on purpose. Just said I thought the other girl was fit.
* Month or so later I see her and she tells me she is a seeing some guy.. almost like trying to make me jelous know. I acted cool and wished her luck but was pissed off inside. I know she is dating him. seen the FB proof.
* She soon added me and her ex back to facebook and I accepted this time just to see what would happen.
* Before xmas.. she was offering to help me with something (that I didnt really need help with) almost like to keep the contact
* we spoke on phone when I called her and I was talking about girls in general and I girl I was going on a date on.. She asks me 'if you saw me in a club - would you chat me up?' I said I dont know.possibly lol
* We were texting her just before xmas as she was saying thanks for somethign I helped her with and I replied about 'well how are we going to be without each other?!' but she didnt reply back.. End of Dec...Jan = nothing.
* In jan i see her taggign all these places on facebook she goes to with boyf and amazingly goes back with him to a place I took her on our first date?!?!? wtf?!
* 1st Feb - she start her contact by sending email jokes.. so i gently reply back
* next day i upload a pic on FB and shes commenting and liking it.. quite alot.
Again I am modest in reply.. and dont ask questions.
* Also, when she added me and ex before and comments on my stuff - she delted the evidence. lol
* Then I get a FB message asking how I am.. I reply again and dont ask questions...

ok.. so thats where we are up to..

So

1) I dont think this girl is for me longterm, but I would love to fuck her.
2) Im not stuck on her as I was, but I want to know what her game is as she is still dating this guy
3) I would love some advice, because I feel when I step forward, she steps back.. little bit of cat and string.. She's no fool, but maybe a little crazy..

How would you be?.. sexy cocky?... laid back no interest?... 100% ignore etc.. etc..

I dont know. .................. help!?

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Sounds like too much trouble. Honestly, I fucking loath FB, too much drama starts from using that bloody site. Stop creeping her page as it only prolongs the melodrama.

I'd simply stop communicating with her altogether, and if she contacts you simply tell her you're not into playing games with girls and are interested in somebody mature who you can be direct with, I'll leave it to you to word it. She can take this as a qualifier of sorts, or not. Bottom line is it just sounds like too much work and you're much better off cutting things and finding somebody new who's less ambiguous about everything. Pursuing women who are so aloof and/or ambiguous with their behaviour fucking sucks and is a waste of time; time you can spending pursuing new pussy.

I see what you are saying.. but what do you think her game is?..

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Not worth your time examining, she's all over the map. Free your mental energy up for a girl who's worth your time.

Goodness sake this is why I hate facebook.

Let's get this outta the way, my big PUA peeve: a neg is not an insult. Commenting on "wrinkles" isn't a neg, unless you're into gmilfs, I guess. But here's when I knew this was all bad: "the story goes back a year." A FUCKING YEAR?!!! Dude, move on. Game other girls. You don't have to ignore this chick forever, but enough of this indirect cloak and dagger bullshit. If she talks to you again, you may as well tell her straightup you want to get together for a drink or whatever. No more of this oh, I'll put this pic up on facebook to make her jealous.