SO check it, I've been with my fiance for about a year now and things are usually pretty solid but we have been planning our wedding and we recently found out that some stuff at our venue has changed and this of course really got to her, which lead to non-stop crying and just being a wreck, like everyone's after her blah blah...

I was trying to be comforting during her crying/emotional stage telling her everything was gonna be fine and after about 30 mins of her losing her shit she just flat out yelled at me at the top of her lungs "just leave me the fuck alone!"

so I did, didn't say a word just let it go but of course I'm not gonna stand for her flipping out on me screaming, so the next day (yesterday) she comes home doesn't even say a word I asked her "oh so your ready to talk to me now? Are you ready to apologize? she tried flipping the script... I told her that it wasn't that easy and that im not just gonna accept some bullshit fake apology and forgive her for the way she acted which was absolute PSYCHO that easy.

so now we aren't talking really at all and im just wondering if I should hold my ground?
i.e. wait for her to come to me and try and apologize again or what?

Or should I just let it go and just say no big deal we both were pissed off or what...?

Question to you guys is what would the ALPHA do?

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Play the game like poker - theres always ways to improve- always a way to come back after a bad hand, don't show your ACE right away

I couldn't even make it through the first sentence of your post without wanting to smack my head against the wall. Yikes. WHY?

Okay, getting past the extremely quick engagement, read the two links at the bottom of my post. They should shed some light on how to proceed, specifically the one on dealing with bad behavior (but both are worth reading).

-Wolf

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Screening: drama-free-relationships-1-screening-vt124827.html
Bad Behavior: drama-free-relationships-3-the-soft-next-vt125554.html

yeah we definitely moved quite quickly, It just felt right but thanks for the reply and I'll check out those two links

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Play the game like poker - theres always ways to improve- always a way to come back after a bad hand, don't show your ACE right away

Wolf, great posts, great advice from everything I gathered... Anyone else have suggestions on regaining control, getting more respect, etc?

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Play the game like poker - theres always ways to improve- always a way to come back after a bad hand, don't show your ACE right away

where are the links?

EDIT: nevermind. guess I need to be logged in to view them.

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B*tches ain't nothin' but hoes and tricks.