| Hi guys, basically, I'm a 19 y.o university student that's a 'contextual' PUA within my friend group, sleeping with 3 girls in my first semester, however, while still aware of the PUA methods I still consider myself quite AFC. Since the first lecture a girl on my course sort of struck me straight away as beautiful and unique, and have been dying to score with her for quite a while.
Over around 3 months (of seeing her around once or twice a week) I've been making what I think is 'steady' progress, as the large intervals didn't really allow me to work in a good way, this is as the modules she takes only appear on my schedule once a week. We have a great chemistry and rapport, and she obviously enjoys my company. She has a few unique implications:
-She reacts heavily to negs, and applies them as aspects of my character, e.g "Oh my god, you're so judgemental!' etc (even following mitigation of a neg)
-She's obviously a heavy thinker, and a decisively enigmatic/elusive person, rarely using social networking sites, and using a fairly out of date/old mobile phone.
-Sexual hints are often deemed as sorely serious.
On a night out once, I found her in the smoking area hanging with some friends, we pretty much talked until it was over, with many of the things I said being sexual implications, or PUAesque material, with the hope of a kiss-close, but that didn't even materialise. Similarly to the statements listed above, some of my actions were seen as overtly sexual, even if they were just light hints. These days, she constantly reminds of this evening, and asks me if I'm going to the same event on a later date (I haven't done this yet). One person on the course has wrongly labelled me as a 'player' to her, stating also that I'm some sort of misogynist.
You could say it's oneitis, but it's very rare I feel that I want a relationship with a girl, and she's one of the those girls, where with other females I find I'd just enjoy sleeping with them, and their company is secondary. The big factor seems to be that she was privately educated in the past, and has many actions that make her seem like a virgin, for example, she's constantly complaining about other guys that hit on her, even if they aren't, she seems paranoid about her sexual being.
So how do I move this 'thing' into a relationship? Are there specific techniques for scoring virgins, making them more comfortable with sexual subjects?
Thanks for reading, and if you would help me, I'd be ultimately grateful. I'm willing to provide further detail on request.
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