There’s this hot ass specimen in one of my classes...

She sits next to some AFC that’s also trying to hit on her. We had to work with the person we were sitting next to and I noticed he was leaning in towards her really close and she just leaned back in a really awkward looking position. There's a group of 4 of us including the HB and the AFC that always talks to each other. I noticed she always laughed whenever I laughed at something or told a stupid joke. It's just difficult for me to talk to her since she sits next to the afc. He talks to her during class and after class so it’s hard for me to intervene without seeming hostile. I'm pretty sure I got some IOI's from her though.

I spotted her waiting for the train and we talked for a bit. She transferred over from a party school. I told her I think I saw her eating lunch by herself, but I wasn't sure. She responded by saying I should come say hi next time, since she doesn't really know anyone.

I'm hoping I can catch her in the cafe during lunch again. What should I be saying to build attraction during lunch? This is the first time I’m eating with a complete stranger that I just met. I’m not sure how common this is for most people here, but it’s completely new for me since my school's small as balls. I plan to ask for her number even though there’s a risk of awkwardness the rest of the semester if she rejects me for some reason.

It really depends on the girl. Can you tell us something more about her?

Act as if you're already friends. If she seems bothered by you're lack of inhibiton then say that you're very friendly and keep it to that.

I usually go telling a DHV story. Something about my swimming classes or anything interesting that comes to mind.

Or something that works like a charm for me is asking her advice on other girls. Make her qualify for you by giving good advice while showing preselection from other girls. Just be sure you to keep a positive energy in the conversation.

Start as "You'll never believe what just happened to me !" or "Hey, can I ask your opinion on something ?" or "Come on give me your opinion on something !"

Then follow up with routines, DHV stories (something real works best) or advices. Be sure to kino an K-close within the week else you might end up friendzoned.

I didn't know for a college environment I was supposed to K-close that quickly. I don't know what else to say about her though. She's really friendly and she's smiling most of the time. She's also blonde so there are some easy negs for that I guess.

As for DHV stories and routines. I have none. I always just try to wing it. A lot of the DHV routines that I've read on these forums are tacky and just don't fit my personality. It'll be too obvious that it's fake. Asking for her opinion on something sounds like something I could pull off quite well. Maybe someone can provide me some good DHV stories that are fitting for a college environment?

Try not to neg that much because it might backfire. And if you really must then make sure to do it in a joking manner.

Now about Dhv stories, well you don't need anything like how you handled a life threatening situation or how you saved a little girl from drowning.

Just say something average from which to imply that you :

->have (had) a girlfriend("My ex..." just make sure to say nice things about her)

->have female friends("I have a friend who is a stylist. She told me I should try this new haircut. What do you think ?")

->practice sports ("I like swimming. I was horrible at it a year back, 6 year old's would swim faster, but recently I won a local competition . So I say it's never too late to start swimming, but you got to have a good attitude.")

->have good grades

->have a positive atitude

->have a plan in life(just don't bore her with the details)

->are mature enough to admit you were mistaken("Took me a while but I realised I was wrong back then.")

->like going out(tell her how you went hiking/camping/whatever with some friends)

->etc.

Just keep in mind to maintain good body language(good posture, eye contact etc.) and to be enthusiastic(more like "It's great !" not like "I can't believe I am actually talking to you")

^Thanks a lot I'll keep that stuff in mind.

Also, I don't have a car. I feel like it's a huge set back, but I've also heard of some very successful guys that don't have a car. I'm just not sure how they pull it off. I was wondering what kind of "dates" could be setup without having a car. How would a meet up work? I mean normally the guy would just pick up the girl from her house or whatever.

The only huge setback you have is believing you have a huge setback. You are a bit insecure and that (not the lack of a car or anything else) might hurt your game.

There are a couple of facts to be considered here.
->Does she live far from you ?
->Does she live far from a coffee shop, bar, lounge, club, mall or whatever else works as a location for a date ?

If you don't have a car, and can't afford to rent one or a driver(with a car) then you will have to settle with any dating locations in her vicinity. If she's not living in the middle of nowhere, out of town, that shouldn't be a problem.

You set a up a meeting location and you walk from there.

That is why I suggest to K-close her as soon as possible, so that you can cut short the whole dating thing.

I agree with the first reply, assume that you're already close friends. A girl I met yesterday I chatting to her for like 10 minutes, left the set, and when I came back to say bye, I grabbed her by the hips to startle her and she responded positively. That's just my technique and it depends on the girl.

Just make her feel like you're not intimidated by her, like you have many pretty friends and she's just another one. I'm not saying go up and grab her like I did, but just act enthusiastic as if you may with another friend. All that AFC is doing is making you look like a way better guy to sit next to and be around if he's always doing the typical juvenile way of trying to attract a girl... she sees right through that.

The key is to make her think you're the shit by telling her aspects of your life that stand-out and distinguishes you from the rest.

So I got her number the other day. She started giving me her number before I even got my phone out. How long should I wait before texting? Normally, I wait 3 days, but I'm not sure if it's different for a girl I've met in class. Me and a couple of my friends might be grabbing coffee together this Friday and I was wondering if I should invite her or not.

I'm gonna comment about the OP first,

If You've read anything related to ''the game'', dismiss it completely and dont think about it in college.

There is an enormous gap between night life & day life.. and especially college. Girls are not there to search for a relationship, but I do must admit college is the ideal place to create a stronger connection and slowly move towards that goal.

Something I've learnt what is really important is make sure that You befriend everyone as good as possible, if there's something a college girl likes to see is a guy that is very social, very confident and has a wide sheet of social contacts, it's possibly the most important rule.
Do not focus on her solely, if You see her having a drink with a friend, make sure You greet both, talk to both and keep it like that, if you focus 100% on her, especially if You're in the same class, You'll become much more of a burden eventually since You're seeing eachother for a long time.
Try to take a good range from her in class, it's important because You will end up in the friend-zone.
It's also easier to talk with her after class like ''Wow, that was so annoying, did you notice how the professor was licking hes lips 24/7'' or whatever, it's material You can use afterwards.

If You see her go to the cafetaria or anything, do not just walk along with her, just go like ''Hey, You heading to the cafetaria'' , if she says yes, just invite yourself along, dont wait for approval unless she gives u so.

There's also the jealousy technique which I think is very effective if You use it right, talk to alot of girls and show her that You are populair amongst them, but please, do not ignore her and pretend to see her as just ''another'' girl, make sure that she feels special, but not as if she's riding your mind 24/7.

Populair + Funny + Nice in college = Good game.


You got her number, there's no need to wait for 3 days, it's good to text her towards the night so she leaves with You in her memory, but do not text her every day for hours, keep it straight forward with viable information.
Definatly invite her for coffee, You got her number, she's interested, use it.

Give her a text saying ''Hey, my friend and I are heading over for coffee, do You wanna join along?'' Texting needs to be done indirect.