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PostPosted: Tue Jan 31, 2012 1:46 am 
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There is HB8, the same one that friendzoned me a few months ago, so I freezed her out, new situation.

This all happened on campus. She called me and told her to visit her (she locked her keys in her car) so I did when I was on my way to the gym. She was with all her friends (all HB's) so I entered the set but ignored her abit and chatted and joked with the others about the entire mishap. Her friend took my cap and put it on her, and then teased her about how well it fit.

As I turned to HB8 I set a time-constraint: friends were waiting at gym. She commented about how different my hair looks (she tells me that I look different alot lately). She then invited me to sit next to her on the bench, but I preferred to stand and talk. At this point her two friends were talking with each other giving me and HB time. I left, and when she reached home she msgd me saying she reached home and that she'd see me tomorrow .Do you respond to these messages - and if you do, how?

What do you guys think of this situation. I am just interested to see how these techniques work out.


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PostPosted: Tue Jan 31, 2012 6:35 am 
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You may not look different but she sees you different. Maybe more confidence... maybe less needy... maybe you made her laugh...maybe you saved her from having a bad day.
I say respond to the message with something like I'm glad you're home safe andthen have a reason you can't talk more like having to go to sleep.
Follow up on this... she's into you.

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PostPosted: Wed Feb 01, 2012 8:56 pm 
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UPDATE:

backarch, I think you're right. She invited me to a study session she had and she flirte d a little with me.

However a new situation I never faced arose. So HB6 called me and came to see me in the library, then left. HB8 saw this (didn't introduce them though). I was actually feeling tired and wanted to leave early to get sleep. So HB8 asked me if I was going to hang out with my friend, to which I said no.

However HB6 actually caught me on my way out and dragged me to get coffee with her, and we ended up in a kind of dark secluded area under a bench (I felt guilty lol). HB8 passed and saw us.

Does HB8 think I'm full of shit? Is this negative points for me?

Today I mentioned it in a brief convo.. "yeah i got trapped by this girl bla bla..." to which she just replied "sure." The light from her eyes was gone.

Do I just keep doing what I did before?


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PostPosted: Wed Feb 01, 2012 9:01 pm 
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I say at this point your best chance is to just directly ask her out for drinks. Use that jealousy to your advantage. If she says no then freeze her shit.


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PostPosted: Wed Feb 01, 2012 9:15 pm 
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I say at this point your best chance is to just directly ask her out for drinks. Use that jealousy to your advantage. If she says no then freeze her shit.
This girl has only ever partied twice in her life. And with all her friends (all girls) there.

So you think she got jealous? I thought she was just more disgusted because it seemed like I lied.


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What is the end result you want from this? Is it just to get lucky or what?
It probably is a negative on the surface that she saw you with the other girl when you said you were going home but deeper it probably is creating some jealous feelings. It isn't something that youncan t work through though.
Needlz is right ask her out. In college the sentence... do you want to come over and watch a movie is gold. Or at least it was 10 years ago.
not sure about another freeze though. You have to show some interest unless you just want a one nightnthing. And that might confirm to her some of the things she's thinking about hb6. Not that you did anything wrong but who knows what she's thinking... just play it cool and don't bring it up. The feelings and attraction that she feels when she's with you are far more important than what she is thnking imho.
Keep us posted.

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PostPosted: Fri Feb 03, 2012 12:19 am 
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What is the end result you want from this? Is it just to get lucky or what?
It probably is a negative on the surface that she saw you with the other girl when you said you were going home but deeper it probably is creating some jealous feelings. It isn't something that youncan t work through though.
Needlz is right ask her out. In college the sentence... do you want to come over and watch a movie is gold. Or at least it was 10 years ago.
not sure about another freeze though. You have to show some interest unless you just want a one nightnthing. And that might confirm to her some of the things she's thinking about hb6. Not that you did anything wrong but who knows what she's thinking... just play it cool and don't bring it up. The feelings and attraction that she feels when she's with you are far more important than what she is thnking imho.
Keep us posted.
Dude well I'm leaving and I highly doubt I'll get a one night stand with this girl. She's extremely conservative (looking for mr. right already!). I'm just interested in practising some mind games that pua's use to build attraction and comfort.

UPDATE:
Today was super shitty. Hardly any interaction at all with HB8, I thought by ignoring her I was building attraction (showing her I had a life and my time was important?) but maybe I was wrong. For example on lunch break she was a few feet away with her friends and I was with mine and I didn't really give her any attention, except said bye when she left. She also stopped studying in the library after school. Strange.

Aside from this, HB7.5 called me from like two storeys up as I returned from a field trip (had hard hats etc looked official). Ran an inside joke with her from afar and then left with my group. After I organised my equipment I texted her asking where she was..she had left and gone to her class. Should have stopped and chatted her up when I had the chance. :x


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PostPosted: Sat Feb 04, 2012 1:27 am 
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So I think HB8 is either still mad or annoyed that I 'lied.' She doesn't talk to me unless I approach her, at which point there is barely any conversation. I tried to have some laughs with her after class but she always seems to have something else (like her phone) distracting her. Her friends have also stopped waving at me.


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PostPosted: Sun Feb 05, 2012 10:13 pm 
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UPDATE:

Whoa horsey so HB8 called me out of the blue this evening and asked me to come on SPAM (we use SPAM chat alot). So a few hours later I did and the jist of the conversation went like this:

Her: what u doin?
Me: nun much u
Her:blabla schoolwork blabl
Me: So what did you want?
Her: So I can't just call you?
Me: lol yeah u can ;)
Her: blablabla
Me: k well im feeling sleepy gonna nap laters
Her: no wait..what parties are you going to for Carnival?
Me: not sure yet when i know i'll tell you ;)
Her: oh ok well go sleep see u tmr bye.

Carnival is like mardi gras or carnival in brazil. What do you guys think? She got over her jealousy?


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PostPosted: Sat Feb 11, 2012 3:15 am 
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Thinks this girl is just interested in getting help with school lately. She calls very enthusiastically about setting up times to get together to study or finish assignment, but is unwilling to even have lunch together.

People who knew her prior also confirmed that she only talks to other people when she wants something. Its a shame she's so cute.

I sort of lost it a bit when she came up to me one evening and asked me to help her with an assignment. I asked her 'Is that the reason you came her?" She didn't even seem to understand the insult.


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