Girl at tanning place I usually talk to her every time I go in there for a couple of minutes. She gives off a lot of IOI's and we flirt. Today we were talking about the weekend and I said I had to be up early on Saturday because I'm an assistant coach for a high school wrestling team.

Her: Did you wrestle?

Me: Sure did.

Her: ooo so you like to cuddle with other guys and what not.

Me: (I was taken back because I haven't heard something like this since like 3rd grade.) What noooo its not like that at all. (Said with a smile).

Her: Oh ya thats what wrestling is for.

Me: pfff whatever.

Her: Did you ever wrestle a girl.

Conversation goes on for a couple more minutes. I might be over analyzing this, but how do I recover from this if I'm not? Normally I wouldn't care but this would be my best lay as she is smoking hot with a great body.

I like to whoop their asses, along with any sassy little girls.

I am going to throw a few very general tips your way that are not only applicable to your situation, but simple.

1. Don't analyze conversations, you'll only drive yourself nuts. Going word by word through an exchange is a headache to you and everybody who wants to help.

2. Always game other girls. Don't fall into the trap of thinking one girl is your best option. Any one girl is only your best option at that moment, because you should go out as frequently as possible and meet new people.

3. It ain't just about looks. Yes, we all want a megahottie as a notch in the proverbial belt, but your energy is best spent screening women who are into you, too.

4. The purpose of a shit test is to try to get a reaction out of you. The best response you can have is to just let it slide. You can make a joke of it, or even just say "okay" and keep gaming. Don't change your mood drastically, positively or negatively.

Sorry been out of town, but thanks for the advice. Normally, I do fine on shit tests but I'm a perfectionist and when things do go poorly not because of the girl but because I think of life as a game and all the little parts in it are a game.

Recently, I don't get to go out as much with school getting harder. I am interested in learning more how to approach girls on campus? Is this even a viable option? A girl sitting in the cafeteria for instance.

Thanks for that quick advice though. Its all appreciated.