So, no idea how I've gotten myself into this situation as I'm relatively new to PUA in general, but tonight I've online/text gamed a 10 to come out tonight to the club with me and a general group of friends (figure I'll need some social proof for this one).

She's a pretty well known girl in Thailand (TV show host, model, what have you), just broke up with her boyfriend, def. a 10, blah blah blah. This girl is hot shit and she knows it.

I like to think of myself as attractive and I'm annoying funny, but honestly, my conversation skills suck. I run out of things to talk about after a few minutes so I end up relying on "What's up?" a lot. It'll be at a club, but I'll still probably get her to sit down and relax at the rooftop lounge for a chat or whatever.

I've dated attractive models and another celebrity (top ten singer) so I'm not new to being around hot women, but that was when I was an overall AFC. I want to break that habit and basically take in as much information as I can, like a crash course, before I go out tonight.

If you've got any suggestions for reading/videos, etc. Post em!

Thanks

Hey!
Don't think that she's a 10 or a 9 or a 15. She's a woman an that's it, if she is as attractive as you say she is don't make it weird, don't compliment her a lot saying she's attractive because she's heard that thousands of times. Try to find out what's behind her "beauty" prove her that you are genuine interested in what she's saying.

If your conversation skills are not the best then use your listening skills, don't ask random questions, ok? I'ts not an interview, if she us "famous" ask her about that, how does it feel to be looked at every time you go out somwhere, don't you wish was it different... is this really what you wanted to do when you were a little kid?

This is what I teach. Check these videos.

This one is about day game but there are some tips that you can use when you go out on a date with someone.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BWeQJmdH ... jdWDRfxft5

This one is about different mental states, you need to be on the right mental state if you want to succeed.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=V-WCQTlH ... 20gNZIRx_F

This is an inspirational video.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AuFcJfOY ... 8e7czWnPMt

Good luck .

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not true.an hb10 need to be held diffrently then a hb7-8 or9....

OP:be extremly cocky,confident(fake it till you make it)and cut her off while talking..like a person you hate listening to ya know?
be the fucking prize,believe you are!
do NOT say she looks good or any of that shit,use the"you're not rear,ther's alot like you out there,what's make you special?" attitude.

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if u are a white guy (i suppose u are) it is already a DHV in thailand.

EVERY ASIAN GIRL DIGS WHITE GUY.

fact.

I am asian so i know it. Just act cocky and funny and confidence, then she is all yours.

Never be something that you are not, girls have a 6th sense and they can feel that.
Most guys think being cocky is easy and it's not, if you try the cocky approach and it doesn't go with your personality you are going to fail... as simple as that either because she's going to put you into some shit test or eventually she's going to find out, this sounds silly but be yourself always, nobody has to change to seduce a woman you just have to find the way to make it work for you.

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Winners have simply formed the habit of doing things losers do not like to do 18/03/12

Being a dick doesn't make you better with women.

i did NOT say be a dick!
i just pointed out that he needs to be diffrent with a girl who's got everybodey kissing her ass(he said she is a fucking 10! do you know what i consider a fucking 10? super model,celebs,actresses and so...)he needs to have mutual respect BEFORE he's being a nice guy! girls like that see you down down in the bottom before you even talk to her!
when she undestand that he is a fucking MAN,and not some other kiss ass,then he can be whoever the fuck he wants...

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look,you're a smart guy,so i'm gonna make it simple for you...

are you a man? an ALPHA MAN? if so,then you must know,that all the other non-alpha males,are not normal,they are insecure and have way below the needed confidence to have the woman they want,or to stand out in the sea of the fucking losers around.
when an ALPHA MAN go near the AFC'S of the world,they see him as a "dick" and a cocky "douchbag" but is he really? no. to the one's who are not alpha sure,but to a fucking man? no got my point? i hope so!

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Cutting someone off midsentence to seem like you do not care what they have to say is a classic perversion of "alpha." You're just another ranting teenager. Go out into the world and learn a bit before giving advice. Acting like an arrogant punk may work while in high school when nobody knows better, but it'll fade away quickly in the real world.

DJ I agree at some point, however my style is adding a slight arrogant touch while still being respectful (e.g. don't cut them off lol, but when they talk don't try so hard to relate to what they say) you can act in a way which seems close to arrogant (being confident about yourself) but still being a respectful guy. Alot of low confidence men and women see any man who believes in himself and doesn't seek approval as very arrogant, just because they don't have that belief in themselves.

Anyway to the OP I want to say good luck with the journey, when in her prescence always look up instead of looking down. She's just another girl, there are millions of her in the world. Some with better personalities than her and some with better looks than her. Just be funny and remember to touch, you'll be fine my man, pretend you're fine and you'll be fine.

i'm 20 years old.

i've been living life with more shit you could have ever take.i can give you lessons,you strike me as an unhappy dick,who speak like the one's you say you hate.

i didnt said anything insulting,and i intended to "ACT" like that only in the first minuets,you are not the one to judge...

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you said you agree with mister looney here,then you EXPLAIND exectly why i am right...wtf are you trying to pull is beyond me.

lead the herd,don't be led by assholes who say they have the true,and only them.

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Awww, the kid can quote intelligent-sounding phrases other people wrote/said.

Anyways, onto relevant matters. A 10 should not be gamed differently than a 7 just because she's hot. That means nothing. Now if she's got a massive ego, then you need to avoid pandering to her. But there are plenty of gorgeous women who aren't shallow, egotistical bitches. Don't go into the date assuming she's one of those. The most important thing for you to do, OP, is to maintain physicality with her. Hold her damn hand, give her a twirl when you first meet her at whatever venue you're going to, and don't stand 5 feet away while talking to her. Fearing physicality is what lands guys in the friendzone.

I, and many other guys here, have scrapped the HB1-10 rating for a simpler binary system. You say a girl is a 1 if you would fuck her, and a 0 if you wouldn't. Now that's not to say you can't acknowledge a girl is hot, but using a number 1-10 leads to silly arguments between guys with different tastes. It's a pain in the ass to have a guy say "I'm chillin with a ten, check out this pic" and a debate ensues because one dude needs to stroke his ego by saying there are so many girls he's hooked up with who are hotter, so clearly that's an 8. Binary, 1-0, because at the end of the day if you are trying to get laid all that matters is if you would want to bang her or not. Anything beyond that is an attempt to show off, and any guy who's decent at this should tell you that girls are far less likely to sleep with you if they think you're going to call up every buddy the next day to give them details.

Discretion is the better part of wisdom, here.

So much ego in the responses around here. Try not to become tied to your opinions, guys, no one will think the same as you, even if you try to make them. We're all trying to help here.

EDIT: DJ_Z, I love the binary system. Except that when I learned it, there's another rating. 2. She broke the fucking scale.

To OP, don't worry yourself about it. Go play basketball, go play music, go meditate. Read a book you're interested in, or the newspaper and highlighting funny things you can make jokes about later. Just enjoy right now, do simple little things that make you happy.

You've already dated hot girls, obviously your personality works for them. Just relax and deal with the club when you get there.

you're right.

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