Hi guys!

I need your advice of my current situation. 3 Month ago I met a girl and we had a good time together in sweden (with sex). However she has left the country (to France) round 5 weeks ago: Therefore the question has always arised how we handle the relationship afterwards. I answered with: We can try this out. She wanted some stable relationship and I answered her three weeks ago that this will be a bit too hard for me. Of course it would be manageable to visit her once a month for 2 days but that is not enough for me. Nevertheless she says several times that she wants to visit me and bla bla bla. I had however a busy time and therefore no time to visit her or her hanging around while I have no time for her. Now its getting a bit relaxed and so I want to talk to her about that but she is somewhat flaking me. DHVs are there (maybe too much) and I somehow feel like I closed the window for her. What would you do in order to get her into a normal conversation again?

Thanks Hejsan