I am 20 years old, fairly handsome guy. I moved to a new city a month ago. I am currently in College so I am living with 6 other roommates (2 girls, 3 guys and the landlord).

It’s been about 6 months I have learning PUA stuff. I have done whatever I could to get better with my inner game. For example, if an AFC is 1 and Master PUA is 10 on a scale of 1-10. I would consider myself around 7.5. The story starts the day I move in. As earlier said at that point I had worked enough on myself to be extremely confident (thanks to NLP) in any situation. The girl I am trying to game is 19, she is really nice girl(for as long as I know her). We started talking to each other from the first day. Before I moved to the new place she added me on FB. I assume my landlord told my name. But I didn’t add her until I moved in(I didn’t know who were she). Although on the back of my mind I have everything laid out. On first day after introducing myself to her. She told me that she added me on FB, I replied “oh I though you are one of those high school chicks who like to have 5000 friends, I don’t add random people on Facebook”: neg+ DHV.

She is a kind of girl I would love to date. However I think she is affecting my behavior. She is a boring girl, hard to get type, virgin, tall, think really high of herself. She was really impressed at first before I fucked up really bad, asked me all kind of questions like what kind of girls I like, background, etc. So its was our first Friday out, where she was randomly asking me about other girls if I would date them or not. Then I told her that she is my type, and I would like to date her< my biggest mistake.

So in a week, I told her that I like her and she is my kinda girl. She replied “maybe you can take me out on a date sometime.” I followed her that night like a dog “I really fuck up things when I get drunk, I forgot all Pua stuff ☹”. Next day I asked her if she would like to go out on a date on Sunday. She agreed, then we went on a date(movie + dinner, I paid for everything ☹). I told her that she seemed like she will make a good friend., she agreed. On that day, I asked her to be my gf. But then replied “but we are roommates”. I ignored her that night, because I was really excited, as this was my first date with her.

Two days later, I told the other girl ((roommate) they are friends) that we went on a date but agreed to be friends. Clearly I forgot the female mind. She completely lost it on me and told me of course “she would never date you as you are her roommate”. Then I end up in a fight with other roommate. We (the girl I am trying to game and the other roommate(girl)) didn’t speak for week and a half.

In that time, I convinced myself that it isn’t gonna work out because I fucked up really bad. Then suddenly she tried to be friendly, then we added back each other to BBM, I flirted with her as usual, she flirted back. I again tried to talk to her and asked her that we should date. But she said, “I cant date you, I don’t have feelings for you”. I told her that I don’t want to be single on Valentine day. She replied with I don’t care attitude “we can go out on a date on V day”. I didn’t understand what does she want from me. Clearly she has nothing to offer and everything to get. I still have higher status than her. She tried shit test on me like “he look better than you or so”, but I have dealt with those effectively.

She used to show me the photos of guys who use to like her. Always tell me this guy love me and all that bull shit. I freaked out on other girl as she was being disrespectful. Then I talked to her(TARGET), she said she doesn’t wanna talk about her(she doesn’t like her either). Recently, she is ignoring me and hanging out with her friends.

I told her that there is something going on with her, and she should get back to me when she starts feeling good again. She still treat me with I don’t care attitude. Btw she also told me that she likes me as a friends.

One night when I was drunk I told her “I love her”. We had a long ass convo on bbm. She told me that we have a love friendship love and that is good coming form her to me. She also told me that its only been 2 weeks.

I don’t get along with other chicks. Today its Thursday night, she is gone out with her friends and I am writing this essay like a loveable loser.



I have watched every single video from DAVID D, mystery, Strauss.

P.S. SORRY ABOUT THE LONG READ. I really like her ☹

P.P.S sometime I think she is using me, other time I regret how I lost everything as I told her everything about me(except that I never had a girlfriend, she think I had couple of gfs and I am cool.)

You don't really like her.. you like the idea of her. You like the idea of having a girlfriend who is close in proximity. Convenience factor is huge.. I have to note that telling a girl you love her when all signs have been pointing to friend ship is misguided. I don't know which videos you saw, but those 3 guys would not condone that either.

Definitely move on from this girl.. being around her all the time will drive you psycho.. and that situation is a lot more drama than one should choose to associate with. Keep learning and approach a lot of other girls. You are in the friend zone on this one for good reason.

Goodluck

Cheers

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Not going to lie, you fucked up pretty bad, but the situation is possibly still salvageable. I think first you should understand where you fucked up so you don't make the same mistakes again.

The idea of gaming a roommate is irrelevant. There is no specific reason why you shouldn't. Man fucks Wo-man, the requisite circumstances are infinitesimal. The only thing I would advise against is being in a committed relationship with her, at least for now. When you prematurely move in with a girl you are dating, you acquire all the burdens of marriage without its subliminal benefits.

As for gaming her, you displayed way too much interest, pedestalized her, and essentially created the perfect scenario for a Oneitis to develop. You should've told her she's NOT your type, but still tried to physically escalate. The poon obeys the penis, that is the law of the universe.

DO NOT EVER tell a girl you want to be exclusive with her, let her bring it up. It only conveys your desperation for her, nothing else. Man is never supposed to want to be exclusive. We are polygamous, it's supposed to be HARD for a girl to get us to settle down. When your girlfriend gets you to be in a relationship, she needs to think, "dam, how am I going to get him to settle for only me?" Whoever cares LESS in a relationship has MORE power, and that dynamic must always tilt in your favor. You must be a CHALLENGE, you cannot lay your cards out in front from day 1. When you display interest in a girl, it must be done in a COVERT manner. Display a secksual vibe, constantly escalate, kino, etc. But don't audibly admit "I like you, I want to be your boyfriend." The moment you do, you've stripped yourself of all mystery and power. You want her to think "Does he like me?" She needs to wonder about you, not be sure.

It scares me that you're THIS desperate for her. Sad faces + "I really like her" = a sickening attitude. To keep a girl, you must not be afraid to lose her. So long as you are attached to her like a puppy dog and closed off to the approaches of other women, you will never be able to get her. You need to go out there and approach 10 hotter women and galvanize the masculinity inside of you and stop acting like a bitch basket.

You can watch all the Strauss and David D videos you want, they won't help if you don't internalize the concepts they preach. What's the point of learning how to convey higher status if you're going to do the opposite? What's the point of learning how to be laconic if when it comes down to it, you just blurt out "I love you?"

A girl wants a confident, dominant boyfriend. So far you have displayed emotional instability and desperation. You need to purge your mind of all AFC thoughts, forget this girl, and rebuild yourself from square 1.

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Bro, right on. You are absolutely right. The first week, I had a higher status than her. She use to follow me like a puppy. Then i fucked up. I don't know if there is any way I can fix this up. I can convince myself to move on. But i am 100% sure, after seeing her face everyday, and even if i tried to ignore her. She would defiantly try to push my buttons. I though about moving out. I am sure i can attract more beautiful women than her, but you know what mans brain is hard wired to beg for things he can't get.

I even told her many times that her games aren't going to work on me. Sometime i wonder that i am a loser, rofl.

Thanks bro, Really appreciate your reply.

Game doesn't exist, bro.

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I thought about what you just said. I don't even imagine myself banging her. I just like the idea of talking to someone, and dating a virgin i guess.

thanks, pal.

any way to regain the higher status? Will making her jealous work? I usually stay out all day, and talk to her during night when we all sit down for dinner. Any ideas?

Last night i have read some stuff on oneitis. Im sure that i wont developed that again, but what should be the normal course of actions now.

should I delete her from bbm?>

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Oh my god stop talking about value, read something other than MM.

You fucked up cuz you came off as desperate, it happens. Mistakes aren't bad, but repeating them is one of the worst things you can do. Why worry about salvaging a deal with this girl when you could game other girls with your newfound knowledge on how not to appear desperate? Always game other girls, no matter how nice it may seem to have a steady supply of pussy living in the same building as you.

Oneitis will pretty much cripple you man. I'd suggest going out and sarging to get your status back.

I told her last week that it would be good if we become friends, because it would be amazing to have a good female friend. She agreed, after that convo her behavior toward me has been changed. She is kind of ignoring me. This has happened before for a week and a half, then she initiated the convo by herself.

Thats good man. You just gotta push through and keep on thinking that you are not your feelings. Feelings are bullshit. Don't let yourself be driven by primitive biological drives. You are as much as you let yourself be. Good luck!

Don't shit where you eat

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