me and my girl had a massive argument which she started...

she was just shouting all kinds of abuse at me for no reason and got abit personal so i just turned around and said "thats rich coming from you ya sket (slag)"

i am never usually like that but out of nowhere she went mad at me and started talking to me like shit...

but now whenever i try to talk to her she just says "you called me a sket so just fuck off and leave me alone"

how can i try make her forgive i waited a couple days to message her.. but now she just pure angry at me..

First off, don't apologize. You were right to be mad at her, don't apologize for the way you feel. Secondly, when someone is mad at you, no matter how honest your apology is, they will always want more. You apologize now and she'll be saying something like "you don't mean that, PROVE IT!" and you'll get caught up in a vicious cycle of trying to please someone who keeps raising the bar. If you really feel the need to apologize, the most should you do is give a half-assed apology saying something like "my bad" instead of "sorry." It's her choice to accept the apology or continue being mad, but don't apologize any further.

Don't reward her bad behaviour. If she wants to be a bitch, then ignore her for a week or more until she's calmed down and is apologizing to you. You might find that she was simply in a bad mood because of her period, and that's shes returned to normal. If however she's contacting you trying to continue the argument, acknowledge her emotional mind with your own. Get irrationally mad at her the same way she does to you. "Fuck you bitch, I'm tired of this drama, I'm done" and then walk away/hang up. She will either start wondering what she did wrong, rather than what you did wrong, or remove her and her drama from your life. Either way you win.

What did she expect? You'd just stand there and take her insults? Yeah right. I don't remember calling my gf names but on numerous occasions whilst fighting I told her to fuck off back to her mother's pussy where she came from haha. Just send her a message, a sweet one, tell her that she must know you don't think she's a slag and that your reaction was a defense mechanism, ask her if you guys can talk like grown-ups. If she's still pouting, soft next her.

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Is this the same girl that you posted about a few days ago? Was she on her period?

i'd let her cool off. You're not happy or proud of the fact that you called her a slag, but you're not sorry. She was malicious, she hurt you and you reacted to it. Only natural. Whatever frame you decide to go with, make sure you commit to it. Look at it as a big shit test.