I find myself often being attracted to shy girls, and I often find that these girls give me IOIs. They aren't the types of girls you find out at clubs on a Saturday; you see them at school every day or at coffee shops or museums. Girls like this will often stare at me from far away and then look down at the ground and smile as they walk by me. The other day I started talking with a shy girl at school. It wasn't awkward, she just didn't have much to say, and so I found that I ended up not having much to say. She would do things like look at me, look away, and then smile to herself. We parted after just a couple of minutes of talking. What I want to know is how to escalate with a girl like this. Keep in mind that I'm at school or some other public place when I meet a girl like this. I find that there is a lot that isn't said and therefore a lot to read in the body language of a girl like this. Sometimes the shyness even creates sexual tension. But I need to find a way of making her feel like she knows me, and I need to suggest a place for us to go to that won't make her feel embarrassed.

I find the answer for this comes from me watching the hour of 21 Con involving AFC adam... the 21 con one. In it he said that the best way to connect with them is through finding a common interest. find out her favourite band or where she likes to eat and if you like the same you have something to talk about. If she likes a similar band to you then you can then suggest going to a venue that plays that band or singer...

any help?

danage is perfectly right,get her talking about things that she really like,thus forgetting you're trying to pick her up,and later revealing her "temple"to you

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