Just a quick question.

This isn't about wanting to fuck your best friend's sister, or accidently hooking up with her and not knowing how to tell him.

No, this is about actually truly being interested in your best friend's sister, and her showing signs of interest in you. Has anyone been in this situation before, and if so, what have you done? Did you just avoid it in respect of your friend? Or did you actually bring it up with your friend and explain that you don't want to ruin your friendship, but at the same time you really do care for his sister and promise you wouldn't fuck it up?

That's my situation right now, I don't know if I should try and bring it up with my friend or if I should just forget about her altogether. They're pretty tight, but at the same time so are my buddy and I, and we've always been true bros and haven't backstabbed each other or anything like that.

She's just an awesome girl and I know if it was any other girl with her personality, I wouldn't even hesitate to ask her out.

That's a tough one. I can't speak from personal experience but to me it would only be a problem if you started using your friend just as an excuse to see her.

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Firstly, going ahead with this WILL change the dynamics of your friendship and may end it.

One of my mates is no longer friends with my buddy for dating his sister. Another mate of mine is currently dating my buddies sister and they are still friends but dont talk as much.

My advice is to make a judgement of how mature your friend is. If hes not the jealous/immature type he will understand BUT if you only want to casually date her, then your showing him no respect. Only go through with it if your ready to enter a LTR.

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Thanks for your opinions guys.

He's definitely not immature or jealous (he's actually a couple years older than me), but I'm still hesitant to risk our friendship, just because he's a true bro (and one of few I have; I've had some shitty friends throughout my life).

I know that at the end of the day though, he's still my bro. I'm still not sure what I'm gonna do. I asked one of my other bros who I've known longer if he would have a problem with me dating his sister. We were just discussing my current situation, so he knew I wasn't serious. But he said he'd have no problem because he knows I'm a great guy. I guess different guys have different opinions of it.

Forgot to mention that they aren't just close like a typical brother and sister, but they have actually went to the same parties and what not before and have a few mutual friends. Also, I see her as a potential long term relationship, not just a casual date.

Thanks for your opinions!

I also forgot to add that my buddy and I no longer live in the same city, but his sister and I do. Also, we're all mature university students.

So, it's not like I'd be cutting back on the bro time by spending time with her. I still talk to my buddy a few times a week, but we only see each other maybe twice during the school year then over the summer.