Me and my friend have been having sex for a while. We are still in high school so when people ask me wassup with me and her, i smile big and say "we're just friends" even though we had sex so many times. I did this as a joke thinking that it would be funny and would be something between me and the girl.
But about a month ago, she out of the blues said that she didnt want to have sex and it "wasnt her". I froze out, and tried to act cool and brushed it off, but she really didnt want anything physical. Now in school, i small talk her, but never get to talk to her for a few mins because i eject or her friends come in and it becomes awkward. I slap her ass playfully still but she still doesnt want to kiss me or let me touch her.
The thing is, during our fling, it was always me that puts in the work, me initiating the conversations, me asking her out, me making the decisions to where to eat.

Now i want to win her back, what should i do?

You say "I had my fun. I didn't respect this girl, so she grew tired of me. Now I need to leave her alone before I do any more damage"

And then you leave her alone. That's what she wants.

yeah man youre probably right... i should just leave her alone miss her so much... we both were Vs when we fked

Respect her wishes. If she no longer wants to be treated like a piece of meat by you, then hands off. Be cordial, don't be mean to her, but rather be a gentleman by treating her with dignity and respect.

Become a better lover lol

From my experience, when you lay the pipe down properly there is nothing the world can do to keep the girl off of you

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yeah you guys are so right, i should respect her wishes and hands off. It was an incredibly physical relationship between me and her. Thanks for the insight guys, appreciate it!

What do yu mean by that? can you explain a little more?

I have similar problems as OP's... I have sex with 2 or 3 girls in the last 2 months, they first "fall in love with me" they want me for a relationship, but I don't, so they doesn't want to be with me anymore.. and I'm a gentleman, I didn't use them.. I prepare them the breakfast every single day they slept with me lol!

The gentleman thing to do would be up front with them from the start...you're not seeking a relationship, you enjoy being single and having friends.


If you don't let that be known...the girl sometimes will assume you want she wants. A relationship....and after she fucks you, and realizes that is not the case...The breakfast is like a slap in the face "here, have some eggs and bacon, thanks for the fuck!"


So next time...tell the girl something along the lines of "look, I have to be honest and warn you..I have a habit of making girls fall deeply in love with me...So to be fair to you, I'm letting you know now that I'm not looking for a relationship"...be playful about it, some humor in it will lighten it up a bit and as long as you're cool, honest, and can make her laugh...theres still good chances you can escalate to sex

Thats my perspective on it

that's a good one, thank you dude!

fuck man, thats exactly like my situation. im going to own up to her and say that im sorry about making her feel like a slut.
Is this a big nono?

Good god, why don't you ask him for a gun too, it'd make the whole process of shooting yourself in the foot all the quicker.

Maybe that works with the ugly chicks you creep, but laying down the pipe well with an attractive woman isn't enough in and of itself.

good stuff mate ! honesty works great it helps cut out congruency problems in your game
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so i shouldnt apologize for the way i treated her?

Ok pap... I see you don't get to have sex often.. That or you don't know what you are doing.

And I never said it was enough, I said it will keep them coming back.

Talk to me when you get some experience buddy...You provide no decent advice, you just comment on what every one else says. And give yourself reputation points..

Once again, I'll add you on facebook so you can see "ugly" for yourself. I'm still waiting for that when you man up and be who you are.


ANd to the OP.. Do not apologize, hell no.. You didnt do anything. Sex takes two, its her fault just as much as its yours. Did you tell anyone though?

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