Note to the moderators: I say that this is an SP because it has happened to me several times that I can approach 7s or 8s, but approaching 9s, HB10s and HB11s is consistently giving me a hard time. I portray this one specific situation just to give people a context to work with. I say all of this because I'm aware of the forum rules for the SPs section, so please don't get me banned guys! Now, to my problem:

There’s a girl in my university that I really like, and the big problem is… I’m still a beginner in this whole thing, and I can’t totally get rid of my AA. Before giving you guys a closer insight on my problem, let me say that I go to a very small university. It specializes on politics and international affairs, and it has only one career: International Relations. That means that the number of students is incredibly small: only around 25 people get admitted every 3 years. Why do I mention this? Because as much as I enjoy my studies and my career, it’s a terrible environment for sarging.
Back to the point. The girl that I like is from an earlier promotion and she’s about to graduate, which means that she’s at least 3 years older than I am (another reason, or shall we say excuse for the AA). I’ve already k-closed girls that are 5 years older than I am, but I gotta be honest with something. My last two k-closes have been with an 8 and a 7 (no offense intended), and this girl is an HB11. I’ve never even approached an HB11, but I really need to start approaching this kind of girls, because this is the life that I want.
I usually see this girl in the library, and I have a window of opportunity of about 15-20 mins. What do I do? Note that I could use some step-by-step help, since this would be my first approach to an HB11.
Thanks in advance for any advice.

I got one question first:

Why have you not opened with her?

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WEAPON

Kinesics Expert,Certified Personal Trainer and Aspiring PUA

"Who Dares,Wins" British Special Air Service Motto

You can't reach anything if you won't open to her (or you can magically hope she opens to you but ...)
The might be a 9/10/11 but she is still a girl. She will only act different if you treat her different. Get your game together, stay calm, try to go fora get-together without a 1on1. Go to the same party, try to do something with a group of people ..(all students) then start chatting..

Teh_Weapon: why haven’t I opened… beats me… I guess I still have some left-overs of AA, particularly with 9s, 10s and 11s. I think I’m missing something on inner game or something like that.

Thedutchone: you know what, now that you say it, I do treat girls differently when I think they’re particularly attractive. I guess a part of me still tells me something like “that girl’s out of your league, pal”. Very basic stuff, I know, but I guess I haven’t finished dealing with such things. I need A LOT of practice…

Thanks for the replies guys.

Once when I had a problem with my game, I emailed Style or Neil Strauss as he better known and asked him what my problem was.

I don't want to get into how it all went down but he gave me a good piece of advice I want to pass on:

if a woman is a 9 or a 10 then do this: Picture her older... Or when she was a chubby middle school kid... with braces... Magnify her flaws... Get to a place where you almost feel sorry for her.

His words to me, verbatim,hope that helps.

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WEAPON

Kinesics Expert,Certified Personal Trainer and Aspiring PUA

"Who Dares,Wins" British Special Air Service Motto

There are no HB11's you are pedastalling. Better to under rate a women that over rate imo

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Being a fan of Neil Strauss myself I really appreciate your post man. I'll definitely use that techinique to stay focused on my game instead of being focused on whatever's intimidating about a 9, 10 or 11. Thanks for the advice, I hope to post a FR on a HB soon. And I'll definitely avoid pedestalling from now on.