| Last night i went out for a birthday party, bit stressed as i have an exam 2 days after, but was a big obligation, so after watching alot of PUA bootcamp footage i was filled with confidence for the approach and takedown of anyone above a 7/10.
at the first houseparty there was a HB9 that id met before and apparently argued with, when she told me this i denied knowing who she was to her face and got her to explain it to me (my attempt of a DHV) *how could i forget such a hottie*
later i sat on the couch with her and had a chat, stated with the nice guy approach, "you now i can see that behind your shield your a really nice girl" worked a treat, we effectively came to the realisation that were so similar, and as such "like magnets repel". she starts to lose interest i think, after i probably made myslef a bit too open, so i ejected and moved to the kitchen, demonstrating DHV's by placating every man in the room. Later HB9 comes in and i ask her to play a game....that game was of course....the cube. Amazing. That game is a dangerous weapon to be used carefully. the connection it creates is unreal, she was batting off all distractions, including a PUF (persistent ugly friend) who tried her best for 5-10 mins to pull her away. After that the connection was so deep with her i felt the same emotions and warmth emanating from her like i do with a girl after sex. She is engagedhowever, to a really nice guy, which is fine, i wasnt trying to fuck her.
next was into town, at a club. this is where i got destroyed. Not by alcohol. but by average women.
on the dancefloor id approach groups of 3's and 4's offering fun and chatting to women, i met one group with a 7 in it (maybe a 6) english girls arent that pretty. anyway i wanted to practise so i started to try and cold read someone, (i didnt realise how into things like that girls are when its about them) i said to her...i bet its science...your so factual.....she said no but close....eventually she told me she was studying history.....anyway midway through this my shourt 5"5 AFC friend comes into the set im fixing and literally stands there looking at me without saying a word. expecting an introduction. i cant tell u how much this embarrased me and fucked up my game after introducing him to two girls either side in the loud club, he didnt say anything. pulled me off my element and within a few minutes, girl talk ensued and set was blown.
later i move to another two set. on the dancefloor,im dancing confidently, alone, with a smile see two girls looking at me critically (2 7/10's) i move over to one of the and say to her "i know what your thinking....why is this guy so awesome" pull away and smile, she replies "no, im thinking why is this guy such a dick". BOOM. shattered. i didnt even bother trying to recover. ejected.
went to the bar, saw a guy with cool hair, so i thought id tell him...and the girl he was with. said i love his confidence started talking to the girl hes with. broken from the last set i didnt use game, i left the set still reeling from the last blowoff.
at the bar i met a 7/10 girl game recovered a bit had a chat told her shes a nice person got her number, not gonna call
at the bar met another girl who worked at the club before, got her to order me 3 waters for my "friends" which i consequently drank. after chatting and flirting i ejected and kissed her on the cheek while doing so. she failed compliance and moved away a bit as i went in. i wasnt bothered tho. the earlier blowout fucked me up.
went to a club i used to work at after...annoyed on the dancefloor i bumped into a girl that i genuinely thought was great and had met a few months before on the bus (day game), shes a student(8/10) and im a bit of an authority figure in the student area we live. anyway it was amazing to see her energy for me on the dancefloor. especially after such a blowout earlier. so i was dancing with her, told her i like her new haircut...its almost as good as the old one. she said i was arrogant with a smile. then i told her she was in my top 3 girls id met this year...i think i was playing a bit too arrogant. she left to get a drink with her friends, and i passed her going to the toilet, i said to her "stop following me" with a wink. i like the playfulness but im not sure how much arrogance i need to show. anyway i kissed her cheek on the dancefloor and she said "im not sure i want to take advantage of you when your like this" WEIRD THING FOR A GIRL TO SAY. Anyway shortly after she moved away from me started dancing with a tall guy, then one of he male friends started chatting to me, in order to maintain a semblance of HV that i might have left i won him over in front of her chatting for 10 mins got his no. with my back to her. At this time, i felt id expended too much energy and i said bye to him turned around gave this girl a hug and without saying a word i left.
said bye to friends, got my coat, and decided to walk home in the cold for 40 minutes so i could deliberate over the night. that one big blowout affected my entire evening. i hope that i can fix that in the future. any advice or anything you guys have, its all appreciated.
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