So my friends introduced me to this HB7.5 . We were in a small party group, I went C&F with her, she IOId. Everything went well. A couple of weeks later, we met up in a club, we danced, we kissed, lots of kino. Im 18, she is 22.

Ok everything is fine, until I tell my one of my friends that we kissed... He told that to his gf, who is HB's close friend and co-worker. HB told my friend's gf too, but of course, they are women hehe.

Ok so HB finds out that I told that to my friend and automatically sent a txt(bbm) saying "OHHH nice, telling your friend what we did. I dont wanna talk to you anymore"

My friend grabbed my BB and wrote "well he's my friend, I naturally tell him about it, just like you told your friend"... I was pissed cause I just wanted to reply "ok", but he screwed it. Next she replies with a "dont talk to me" emoticon. Then I replied "ok".

I freezed out, it has been a week since then, no contact from here, but she didnt erase me from bbm.

So what should I do next??
P.S.: Im dont really care if she talks to me anymore... BUT I DO want to learn how to handle situations hehe.
BTW: English is not my native language so if you see any mistakes, feel free to correct me.

your english is fine, just stop saying "hehe"


Neither "ok" nor what your friend said was a proper response; and your friend has 0 game. His response was wrong because it both activated her anti-slut defense (women are averse to that heinous label) AND made you seem "defensive," like you were backpedaling when she confronted you about it. "Ok" is a bad response because it responds with TOO MUCH indifference. While you somewhat retain state control, she is still likely to break off contact with you because she doesn't feel comfortable.

In general, avoid telling people about your love life. Not out of morality, it's just the practical thing to do. Think about it this way, you stand to gain NOTHING, there is only the possibility that you might lose out on Poon in case it gets back to her. The ego assuaging feedback you get from bragging is never worth poon gone missing. And women talk, you don't want a reputation like that.

But in case you ARE ever caught in a situation like that again, I've found that acting completely oblivious works wonders. I know it sounds stupid but just go:

Her: "thanks for telling you friends?"
You: "Huh?"
Her: "you told your friends we hooked up?"
You: "I only have 2 1/2 friends, and why would I tell them?"
Her: "then how do people know...?"
You: "How do people know what...?

and so forth. Just act COMPLETELY oblivious about the whole debacle. And then end it with "wanna come over and talk about it?"

DO NOT try and justify it, apologize, or act too uncaring. If you wanna PTP (preserve the poon), Evade, evade, evade.

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This is the best part; when you "kiss and tell" that's one of the worst things you can do in a girl eyes. You made a big deal out of something (the kiss) and she made a big deal out of it too; they will copy you - make a big deal out of something, they will too, don't make a big deal and they wouln't either.
I wouldn't evade her, that makes you look suspicious (like running from the cops before they charge you). This is one of the rare times where you can tell her the truth and say your friend wrote the text XD
I'd also kill your friend, or put a password on your phone; whatever works best for you

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Well the first thing I told to myself was (right after this happened):
"Note to self: no more telling your friends about your pickups, it just screws you over, and if you mention anything, no names"
So lesson learned.

OK so how do I fix this? I mean, if its possible. If you say moving on is better, Ill move on. But if there is a way to going back to comfortable, which way would it be?

Again, I wanna learn how to handle this.

heheh

If you want to tell your friends (which is normal) be as vague as possible about her. No names, no personal info about her. Use descriptive names: blonde, nurse, etc. And blaming it on booze also helps ('I was drunk when I met this girl - "do I know her?" - "hmmz I don't know she was a blonde, quite hot, but I don't remember her too well." - "cool.")

Yup I learned a lesson with that. So basically this is what I'm picking up here:
Screw up.... act normal. Right:?: