me and this girl have history... her bf recenlty broke from her and he was such a douche to her...and me and her got together and we have been so happy she tells me how happy she is and how much she misses me all the time... she did say once that she wasnt used to a guy being soo nice to her...
but all i hear from her is how happy she is with me, she texts me saying she cant wait to be in my arms all the time!!

things have been great we seen eachover alot in this week and a half one day she didnt even want to get out of bed just wanted to cuddle me all day long...

she invited me out to her friends for a party saying how much she wanted to see me and couldnt wait.. i got there was awesome all her friends say how happy she is since me.. and then BANG!!!! she got a text on her phone dissapeared off and when she came back she was so off with me wouldnt even kiss me or talk to me anything...she just said she was only tired..... i then went home that night we didnt talk untill the next day she starts me sending me abuse saying im every name under the sun i should fuck off out of her life i was nothing to her and i never was... ans then i found out she went cinema with another guy last night too... etc.....PLEASE HELP THIS IS CRAZYY!!! i dont understand whats happend...i want her back but i dont know how to get the nice giggly girl back i dont want this dirty mouth horrible girl that had just come out....

Read my post on screening (linked below). Now ask yourself, "what category does this girl fall into?" Yeah, she's a freak. Okay, now tell me WHY you want this girl back?

Unfortunately, you were the rebound until she found somebody else who was able to give her more intense emotional states (like her ex). I can tell this just by the way she interacted with you. When she liked you, she REALLY LIKED you. When she decided that she didn't like you, then she REALLY DISLIKED you. Intense emotional states, she clearly thrives on them.

-Wolf

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Screening: drama-free-relationships-1-screening-vt124827.html
Bad Behavior: drama-free-relationships-3-the-soft-next-vt125554.html

ask her what the text was?
Perhaps someone told her you were cheating?
seems the most obvious reason for her flipping out

she said the text was none of my buisness and she can talk to whoever she wants... and yeah i get what your saying she has some seriously high emotional state...


she was so nice when we got together though i dont get why she would just go off me randomly and then hate me :/

Take a step back, sit down and ask yourself..."why would I want to be with a girl like that?"

You deserve better man! Don't think of it as a loss think of it as if you have had a close call! You would have such a shit time with this freak! And if you find out that another guy is dating her then just get the mentality of "damn that guy doesn't know what he's got himself into"!

yes i guess what you say is very true... shame that everything was soo good between us before she just snapped ?

its bad though because now its gone from " i miss seeing you and want wait to be in your arms etc" now too "i fucking hate you and you never had nothing i wanted your shit in bed etc things like that (even though i know i wasnt) thats one thing im quite sure of? i just dont really understand it :/

She went out with another guy? Oh hell no. Stop being a bitch, call her out on it, and move on.

i did and she said im aloud to hang out with whoever i want and told me to stop being clingy.. but we are over now she just turned crazy bitchy and even got attacked me on a personal level... fuck this bitch!

you have my respect sir! you did the right thing

its hard coz i liked her alot.. but for yer to go from the nicest little bubbly thing ever to this really nasty peace of work in the space of one night its just not right... and then getting as personal as she did was out of line seeing as i treated her like a princess tbh....

You may have treated her like a princess, what ofcourse you shouldn't have.

But some girls are just mentally retarded. There's even one upstairs SPAM.

You are blessed by a normal way of thinking, but some girls (and even guys) aren't.
These people don't care about you, they are insanely selfish. And you can't do a THING about it.

What you can do, and it's actually a bit hard to do, because we know what we can do to another person.
But nonetheless, send her funny small inside jokes texts, and DON'T BE CLINGY. Respond in more than an hour, no questions, just (funny) statements. Like you're just having fun, and if she reacts badly, then stop it immediately. (I think she already responded badly) Set your principles/lines. If she crosses it, it stops.

I know what you're going through, you like her alot, and you're thinking: if she's calmed down and gets less emotional she'll realise that with you she'd be happy. But that's not going to happen, and she certainly ain't gonna admit it. So until that almost-impossibility is going to happen, FUCK HER.

You sure have the crazy part right.

kudos brother. Her craziness is now that other guy's problem, and you get to walk away with your sanity.

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Pretty little girls, so used to getting your way. Along comes a man who challenges you, and suddenly you don't know what to say.