There is a girl that I really like/d and we dated for a period of time but between our schedules we ended up drifting apart. I eventually got frustrated and forgot everything that I learned that attracted her to me and totally acted like an AFC and DLV'd myself by acting too needy. She eventually told me she didn't have time to date anyone at that moment but the attraction was definitely still there and I believe is still there because we continually kept in contact and hung out sometimes even having sex.

We haven't spoke in over a month and I was just wondering what is the best thing to say to her to break the ice? She never answers her phone something that she told me at the very beginning when she met me. She just prefers to text. Partly because where she lives is a terrible cell reception area and when we did talk on the phone we would get cut off like 3 or 4 times in a period of 45 mins.

So my question is should I give it more time? I'm not waiting for this girl to come around more so want the challenge of getting this girl back. I feel like if I can get this girl back that it would be a great accomplishment. Should I text her? Should I call her even though I know she won't answer and leave a message?

What is the best thing to do in this situation? Prefer not to just not talk to her again because like I said , I would like the challenge.

Please advise AMOGS!!!!!!

Find an activity and invite her out to catch up. Have her bring a friend or something. I think a month is a good amount of time without being needy. Just send a simple text and go from there. Don't leave a message. Don't try to plan too far in advance.

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You wouldn't like the challenge... You just are on a drought and have no other pussy to fuck so your going back to something you've already had.. She will be able to sense this my friend.

I'd take my chances at a bar if I were you

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Haha, I am on a drought I guess. It's been 2 months.. So Fuze your suggesting I ask her to a bar? or you are just saying I should go to a bar to get some pussy ahaha.

lol yea dude.. Go to a bar alone and bring something home.

If I could sense your drought over the internet, what do you think she'll sense? Womens intuition is 5x better than mens

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You admitted to not doing your PUA with this girl, said you regret it, then ask for PUA advice. But you ask if you should text or call her even if she wont reply... She aint replying because you keep fucking texting and calling her. You are still acting needy...

Give some space bro, your a level 5 clinger.

Do you actually like this girl, or like Fuze says, you just running to the closest pussy or most recent pussy you had.

Seriously, if you care about this girl let her go, sometimes you gotta lose something before you actually appreciate it and get it back.

Give her space an let her realize how much she misses you.

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