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Yes, I completely agree, stop feeding the troll.
I'm not a troll, I am genuinely this virginal, depressed and hopeless.
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And if you're not a troll, stop watching pornography, stop calling up escorts, and go see a therapist or something. You seem like you're in some downward cycle of self-degrading behavior, AND on top of that it seems like you view women as, some sort of 'item', so to say. Seems like you value them only for their sex and that's. Now the irony in that statement is that I'm posting this in a PUA forum and most men on this forum simply want to get women in bed. But with that attitude you aren't going to get anywhere. Years will pass by and you would've made no progress whatsoever.
But I'm
already seeing a therapist, and it's not made any difference. I don't think there's any amount of psychiatry that can actually help me, I just need sexy girl(s). It's nice of you to suggest a therapist but I've tried that and it hasn't helped at all. :S
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I don't know what exactly you're asking for when it comes to advice, because this thread has a plethora of it. But if you want my point of view, which I doubt matters to you, because you're in a depressive shithole; hear this. The cessation of watching pornography will probably get you to stop dating your hand. There's been studies that show that not masturbating will help your testosterone production steadily increase (which is seems like you have none of, because all I've seen in this thread is bitch bitch bitch bitch bitch). Perhaps your hormones will help you get horny enough to actually go out and try to do something...since its obvious you only want to socialize with women for the sake of getting them in bed. But, like I mentioned, I doubt you will heed this advice. As for the escorts? You're fucking destroying your confidence bro. You're throwing that shit into the negative values. (Negative confidence. Haha.) How the fuck will you ever score some sweet pussy and a wife if you don't even have self respect? You obviously believe you are a sack of shit, based off everything you've replied on this thread. So, simply put, as many other users have said on this thread, forget about women for a bit. And work on self-improvement. It might be hard with that severe pessimistic, infectious attitude of yours but just TRY IT FOR A MONTH. A MONTH should be enough to get you at least some IOIs from a poor soul who decided to give a piece of scum like you a chance.
Thanks for the advice, and I'd like to try that, but I have already gone without masturbating for a month in the past, and it did nothing. I did get horny, but that didn't make me any better with girls, it just made me want porn more. See the thing is, I have literally no connection in my mind between feeling horny and talking to a girl, because I see absolutely no chance of sex coming from talking to any girl. Basically, if I want to waste time talking to a girl and getting my hopes up, only to inevitably be rejected no matter how hard I try, I'll talk to a girl. On the other hand, if my hormones are raging and I want sexual relief, my first automatic thoughts are always 'porn', 'hooker' or just masturbating while thinking of a hot girl I saw earlier that day/week. I have zero experience of any conversation with a decent-looking girl ever leading to me having sex (or anything physical) with her, so there is just not that connection in my mind at all.
Seriously, when I see a sexy girl my first thought is not "Hey maybe she might like me", it's "Oh look, another sexy girl who's ignoring me because I'm obviously not good enough for her". I automatically assume that if a girl looks decent enough for me to be attracted to her, there's no way she'd waste her time with a guy as useless, ugly & geeky as me. How can I break this thought process and start to believe that I actually have a chance with any girl, without some positive past experience of a decent-looking girl showing interest in me?
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I'm sorry for the harshness, but I simply can't believe that someone actually has a thought process like you. Have you considered getting evaluated for some sort of psychological disorder? -_-
Well you'd better believe it, because I am being 100% genuine & honest about exactly what I'm feeling (there's no reason not be on here). I'm probably clinically depressed, but that's purely because I have zero confidence that a decent-looking girl will ever want me, and this is further reinforced by every girl who ignores me.
It actually depresses me to think of any of my positive points, as I feel that things like my intelligence, money and healthy muscular body are just wasted on me because I'm fundamentally worthless, due to me being an (evidently) ugly fucktard incapable of getting sex with any girl who isn't one of the following:
- horrifically ugly
- obese
- a hooker
Seriously, all I ask for is to be sexually desired by
any decent-looking girl (beggars can't be choosers, which is why I don't bother even thinking about a girl's personality - as long as she looks decent that's good enough for me). But this life seems endlessly devoid of this simple component for some reason, so I do'nt see any point in it tbh. :S
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