Ok so been with my girl for just under 6 months now and she is really in love with me, I know this, as she always tells me, hates being away from me blah blah. Anyway the issue is she told me the other night she has this male friend from Europe who always greets his female friends with a peck on the lips. She told me cause she wanted to make sure I was ok with it. She said she thought it was a bit weird but didn't think anything of it as he does it to all his female friends. I didn't really know what to say or how to respond when she told me. Truthfully it really pissed me off to hear this cause I think kiss on the lips of any sort should be an action reserved for me only as her boyfriend. She put me on the spot with this so I just asked her how she'd feel if a girl did this to me as a greeting every time she saw me. My girl said the thought of it made her feel sick. This is pretty much where I left the convo at, was it ok to tell her it's not on? Or is it a bit of an overreaction considering he does it to everyone???

I live in Europe and tbh that male friend is a weirdo. Good thing she doens't do it if it makes you feel uncomfy. You talked to her about it the right way (a way she will understand) what if it happens the other way around.

Yeah I would put her in check ASAP. She isn't European is she? I didn't think so. Tell her that you have a friend in Brazil that likes to go down on you when you visit and see how she feels. Unless you want to share her lips with another man I would lay down the law. But that's just me.

Girl: "I have a guy friend who [blah blah blah] to me."
Guy: "Well, how would you feel if [blah blah blah] to me?"
Girl: "Oh, okay."

When you have to get into conversations like that, you're not really on the same level, are you? Why are you even worried? Not confident?


A couple who are confident:

Girl: "I have a guy friend who [blah blah blah] to me."
Guy: "I can see it bothers you. Just tell him to stop, if you haven't already."
Girl: "Oh, okay."

Simple. No?

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Nope You did the right thing. That's good she told you about him

That guy has however developed a good method for getting a freebie very sneaky he' knows exactly what he's doing.

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