So I had dated this girl a while ago, but because our schedules were so busy we ended up drfiting apart. Through drifiting apart we had a heated arguement about it and haven't talked since. That was over a month ago. Lately I have been thinking about her a lot and want to talk to her but don't know how I should go about it or what I should say.

Any help would be great,

Thanks.

bumppppppppp

just tell her what you just said here.
it's perfect.

No, go out and meet other women.

also good ..

you can now either follow your heart/desire with the flaws that come with it.

or be a PUA robot going by the book/programming.

the first option is obviously more nutricious for your soul.
the second? who knows!

the first don't mean you're AFC the second doesn't make you a PUA.

better allow contrasts to enrich your life.
like push and pull, DHV and DLV is contrasting
be the contrast..masculine/feminine..weak/strong..up/down..dim/bright..
just enjoy the dynamics of yin and yang.
I wouldn't get stuck on that mindfuck idea of being a PUA..
stop and smell her flower..
just like Style the "black-belt-PUA-master" went back to "white belt" by the end of "the game"..

Text her, or email. Whatever you do, and say that you want to get together to have coffee this weekend. Catch up and see what happens. I wouldn't use PU material on someone you have already known a while. Just let her know you miss her, by trying to spend more time with her... She'll get the idea and either she'll want to spend time with you also, or she's over you now.

~Goodluck

Dude, I'm sure she's moved on with her life and is probably dating someone, which will effect the response you get back no matter what you say.. If she's still single and looking she'll respond warmly to whatever you write, if she has someone or doesn't want anyone right now the response will be cold.

I would go with " If you not still not mad about me owning you in that argument a while back I'll take you for coffee on______ " (leave it blank)

That's just my personality though.. see what you come up with

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