| Maybe this will help some of you become more sexy in your interactions. I think the biggest part of pick up is being able to create a sexual tension.. through eye contact, touch, etc. Its like a ball of emotion that both of you are sharing, and adding to. Once that ball gets so big, someone has to give in (make the move) and the ball 'explodes' finally.
I have not slept with or kissed this girl, she is from one of my classes last semester. Light flirting, mid-20's.. i'm used to 20-22 age
(we are texting for half an hour, building rapport, she keeps asking lots of questions trying to learn all about me. Earlier in convo we talk about our dress and what exactly she'd dress me in, which was a long list of expensive designer clothing)
Her: You know your greatest asset? Any guy could have it, they just don't often make the effort...
Her: It's what I find very attractive in you...
Her: I would guess you do know... Because its intentional, not just natural
Me: What, that i'm sexy?
Her: Nope, its the reason you are sexy
Me: Maybe you shouldn't tell me
Me: I really wanna know though!
Her: It's the way you focus and listen to girls... or at least seem to.
Her: like zero in on their eyes and not get distracted by everything around you.
Her: Its the hottest thing in the book
Her: And i'm pretty sure you already knew that
Her: But people should be reminded of great things about themselves
Her: Mind you, it can be overdone, but mostly, its great.
Her: Many older men have that down, but few younger ones
Ok... I knew about this, but rarely consciously thought about it because it has just become a habit. It's all about creating the "sexual bubble" that you are both inside of, as if time stops and you don't notice anything around you. I typically like to hold strong EC and allow her to look away first, but then i'll go random and become slightly shy and vulnerable by looking away first, downward, and smiling at the same time.
Oh and bedroom eyes is awesome.. after you've been talking for a few minutes, slightly lower your eyelids like you do in the bedroom. It makes it much more sexual.
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