Friday Night out with THE JACKAL.

Arrived at the bar and met THE JACKAL. THE JACKAL opened two women sitting outside and called me over we chatted to them for a while and then left with the excuse of going to get a drink as I wanted to get my first approach out the way. I approached three women two of them really hot one of them not very hot. I opened the hottest one saying you are really hot I just had to meet you and got talking to her and then introduced my self to her friends and got chatting to the other hot one. Then another of her friends (not very hot) came in and I introduced myself to her and then a guy came in talking to one of the ugly ones as I carried on talking to the hot one. THE JACKAL then came in with a guy and introduced me to him and explained what I was doing and I said I would introduce him to the group of girls. He said no but I introduced him and THE JACKAL anyway to them and they left after a few minutes. I then started talkin g to the hot women who approached it was quite an easy group as they were all talking between themselves so I could just talk to the hot girls. I tried to number close the hot women ( the one I didn't open), but got the boyfriend shit.

Then THE JACKAL introduced me to another group of three women which I talked to for a while and then THE JACKAL said we are leaving. I number closed one of the women but I wasn't particularly attracted to her. She gave me the I have a boyfriend shit but I got the number with some persistence.

We then move to another bar were THE JACKAL opened one group and I opend another. None of them were really hot but carried on and tried to number close one of them for practise but didn't get it. I contiued talking to them for the rest of the night with THE JACKAL coming in and out in between other approaches. We then left at about eleven. I need to talk to both women instead of just the one.

Saturday night out with DON JUAN and THE JACKAL.

Met the guys in a bar on broad street and went out side in the beer garden to talk to DON JUAN. After a few minutes I decided it was time to open the first set which was three women sitting down which I opened with " you look like you are having your own little party" I then sat down and started talking they made it clear they had boyfriends quite early on DON JUAN and THE JACKAL came and joined me and then left. They were taking photos of me as they said that I looked like Ralph Fiennes. One of them was trying to get the other two to leave, but I kept talking over her, but eventually they left.

Saturday night out with DON JUAN and THE JACKAL.

Met the guys in a bar on broad street and went out side in the beer garden to talk to DON JUAN. After a few minutes I decided it was time to open the first set which was three women sitting down which I opened with " you look like you are having your own little party" I then sat down and started talking they made it clear they had boyfriends quite early on DON JUAN and THE JACKAL came and joined me and then left. They were taking photos of me as they said that I looked like Ralph Fiennes. One of them was trying to get the other two to leave.

THE JACKAL then introduced me to two women who were sisters and told me to go and sit down which I did and DON JUAN then sat next to me. ( DON JUAN you should of sat by the other girl instead of sitting next to me because 1 how can you get into the conversation if you are sitting next to me as I have to either turn to talk to you and the women will lose interest or talk to the women and then you can't get into the conversation. 2 how can you start kinoing them unless you are going to reach over me to touch her. Move a chair if necessary, the groupl of three women THE JACKAL introduced me to last night I had to lean over a group of women to get a chair.) We chatted for a while and then we had to go as we had to meet CASANOVA as we left they went outside for a cigarrette I followed them and number closed one of them and tried to kiss close but her sister kept on pulling her away.

THE JACKAL then left and me and DON JUAN wnet to another bar I approached a group of three really hot women and DON JUAN came in after about five minutes and I introduced him to them. We chatted to them for a while and I was getting physical with them quite early on but DON JUAN didn't, then two of them left to go and get a drink and I carried on chatting to her for a while and she said she was going to the bar to get a drink with her friends. I said we have got to go now and tried to get her number but she said she had a boyfriend. I told her she had broken my heart and then we left and DON JUAN approached a group of three women and left after a few minutes and complained that I had not joined him in set, but it is something I do on purposes as I understand why it is good to have a wing but the reason you want me to wing you is not to join in the conversation but to take over it. DON JUAN you should be able to stay in set on your own.

Saturday night continued.

I tried to get DON JUAN to re-engage the group but he wouldn't so I went in with him and re approached and got chatting and started to tease them. We left after a while as the conversation died.

On the way to the club I approached a woman on crouches in a big group and asked her what had happened expecting some funny story. But she just said she has a back problem in a very rude voice, which went down like a lead balloon. I managed to change the subject and left the group on a high note and high fived them all.

I nside the club me and DON JUAN took it in turn pointing sets out for each other. DON JUAN did nearly all the sets that I asked him but he hesitates too much and stands around for about five minutes before approaching and some times the women leave before he approaches. Twice when I went to the toilet and told DON JUAN to approach any set before I came back he went to the bar both times without approaching. DON JUAN asked me too appraoch a group of four women and then said not to bother as it was too hard, but I approached anyway and managed to pull the hottest woman out of the group and isolate her but her friends came in after a few minutes and pulled her away. DON JUAN also asked me too approach a group of four women with a guy in it and then again changed his mind and told me not to bother as it had a guy in it. Again I went anyway and stopped in for a few minutes as neither of them were really hot.

I came close to getting two makeouts the first was a hot blonde who I approached with " Hello" she replied " Why are you so tall" I said " you mean why the fuck am I so beautiful " she said " I was actually thinking that ". By this time I had wrapped her arms around me and had my hands on her arse. I went for the kiss and got the lips but she pulled away after half a second and said I have a boyfriend I said " fuck that " and went for the kiss again and got the lips but she pulled away again. her friend then dragged her away. As she was leaving I was trying to pull her back but should of pulled harder. I bumped into her again later on in the night and went for the kiss again but got the boyfriend shit again and she left with her friends.

I opened this really hot brunnete and went for the kiss and nearly got the make out but she pulled away. Before I went for the kiss I her friend came over and tried to drag her away but I managed to get rid of her by talking to her while holding onto the hottie. I was telling her I was going to buy a frizzy wig as she had frizzy hair, but she came back later and dragged her friend away.

I opened a group of four women and talked to the group for a while and then started talking to the hottest one and all of her friends left and the hottie stopped with me and I started to kino her. DON JUAN then came in and started telling her he was going to guess her star sign, which really pissed me off. DON JUAN don't come in when I have managed to isolate the women, it is hard enough trying to isolate when the womens friends are pulling her away. I don't need you to come into set when I have isolated unless you want to compete for girls which to me seems lame. Go and talk to her friends. I spoke to you about this afterwards.

I then approached a hot blonde and her friend dragged her away I managed to talk to her firend for a while as she was trying to drag her away but she really started to pull her away.

I approached a woman and isolated her from her friend and then all of a sudden she said I havbe to go and dance and shot off. I should of followed her to the dance floor but was getting too tired to dance and a little frustrated. Shit excuses.

Just read your reply JACKAL that you posted last week that seems like a challenge for me next weekend to try and steal a girl from a guy. Next weekend my mission is too appraoch five guy girl sets and try and take the girl off the guy. This will be hard but I like a challenge.

DON JUAN please read my report from saturday night, you make too many excuses about not approaching no set is too hard to approach. I don't understand how TRYING to talk to a group of people can be hard. Nobody expects you to perform any fantastic miracle and pull a women away from a group of ten guys but you can at least try. You are doing well by approaching but you need to be less picky and go in strait away without waiting around.

I leave you in set on your own on purpose as you expect me to take over the main part of the conversation. If you ever get in trouble I promise I will help you out but you need to trust in oyurself more.

Don Juan look at the link below.

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Romeo next time Don Juan amogs u by mistake, in a loud voice "hey this girl is mine get your own". This is funny and he will get the picture. Tough love.

Don Juan it not punishment to approach. Next time if u take over 5 mins u give me a pound. 10 mins 2 pounds and so forth. Agree to this mission or be a chicken. U can approach guy or girl set. U will be timing yourself I'll be busy approaching.

To not approach is more shameful than not to. Start thinking like a PUA. In your FR write bout the real reasons about the sets u did not approach. U know the reasons are all illogical.

Romeo u can practice amog stuff with me. I'll show u some funny stuff next time

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The Jackal an Introduction.
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The Field Reports.
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The Lay Reports.
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SATURDAY NIGHT SARGE WITH JACKAL : 100 POUNDS FOR 5 SETS
I had a really good night sarging on saturday. Firstly I paid JACKAL 100 pounds. I told him, I would do 5 approaches to get back the money.


1) SINGLE HB7 blonde ON STREET: I went up to her and said stop for a minute from 5 feet away. She said yes and I said "just wanted to say that you look really beautiful". She said "Thanks" in a disappointed voice and walked away.

2)SINGLE SET HB6 BLONDE ON THE STREET : I calmly walked up to her and said "hi there stop there for a minute. My name is don . What is your name?" She said " sorry i have to go and walked away. "

3) 2 SET NUMBER CLOSE (HB8 brunette HB6 blonde): We were in Slug. JACKAL asked me to go inside and open a set and come back. I went in and waited for a while to check the sets. A two set standing in the corner showed positive body language and gave me eye contact. I opened the set with compliment. Gave my self intro, said I was from India. Immediately the blonde started showing IOI's and said she had been to Goa. Then I asked them their opinion about the best place to go out nearby. Then I shook hands for compliance. Then went into zodiac sign coldreading which went really bad. I ejected from the set. JACKAL asked me to reengage and number close. I went in , said I was going to broad street and asked them to join me. Then I asked for the HB8's number which she gave me. I called the number today and seems like it is a genuine number. Will try to call her again tomorrow.

4) 2 set MILFs HB8 and HB3 NOT A GOOD RECEPTION. We went to Figure of Eight broad street. JACKAL asked me to open a 2 set. I went to them and did the compliment. It was not taken well. I did self intro. It wasnt taken well. Then I asked where she was from. She didnt want to talk and walked away.

5) 2 SET HB9 SISTERS : I opened them with compliment (gorgeous). They were so happy to hear that. They were only 19. I did self intro. and handshake. I went into zodiac bullshit. Then Jackal came in and introduced himself. Then Jackal brought Romeo in who overpowered the set and took control. He took a seat next to the blonde. Then JACKAL asked me to sit down next to ROMEO. There were no chairs next to the other chick. It was a bit weird to sit there saying nothing. They went out for a smoke and ROMEO went out and number closed one of them.

I did an extra set.

6) 2 set HB7's on the street. I did compliment and they said they had to rush.

I got my 100 pounds back. A number close out of 5 sets is not bad at all.

My energy is still low key and my voice is emotionless. I still can't stop getting nervous in public. I still have anxiety in public not only from approaching but generally from people walking around.

BLIND CONVERSATIONS REALLY HELPED ME. EVERYTIME I APPROACH A SET, I PRETEND TO BE BLIND AND TRY TO IGNORE EVERYTHING MY EYES SEE. THIS HAS MADE A GREAT CHANGE IN MY APPROACH ANXIETY. THE IDEA IS TO NOT LOOK AT THE SETS AT ALL BEFORE APPROACHING.

I had an F-close on Friday night. Here is a complete history of the case.

INITIAL VERY STRONG EYE CONTACT
She is an undergrad in my Uni. The girl used to give me very strong eye contact for a long time. But I just didn't approach her. She seemed like a HB 6.5 to me as her face is quite androgynous and initially I thought she was a german or something.

APPROACH - SHE APPROACHED ME
I was at the rail station one evening when she came up to me and said hi. Unfortunately, my train had come just at the same moment. I apologized and went to catch the train which arrives every 10 minutes. What a dumbass I was.

I APPROACHED IN UNI - DHV and FACEBOOK close
The next week, when I saw her sitting in university with her laptop as usual, I approached her and said down in front of her. I was a bit nervous to approach someone in my workplace though. I talked some fluff with her. Thought my convo had very little humour in it or she was a bit nervous talking to me, I couldn't tell. I DHVed her a lot, she is a painter who sold paintings and she came accross as quite an intellectual person(geek). I added her on facebook and ejected.

NUMBER CLOSE ON FACEBOOK
Almost a month later, I saw her online on facebook. I chatted with her for a while. DHVed her a bit again. She asked me if I wanted to meet for a coffee. I asked her phone number.

NEXT WEEK - COFFEE DATE
On monday, I asked her if she wanted to meet for coffee on Wednesday. She didnt reply initially because she saw me with a beard the previous week. She probably didn't like my beard. I saw her again on Tuesday when I had completely shaven and just smiled at her. She sent me the reply immediately saying she would be free for coffee on Friday.

FRIDAY

DINNER - WEIRDED ME OUT A BIT
I met her for coffee. I shook her hand when I met her. She smelled of whiskey. She said she had whiskey because she was very nervous because of her university course stress. I took her to a restaurant on campus. She said she had no money to pay for dinner. I said she could order anything she wanted. I had a pizza, a cafe latte, she had seafood platter and a starter of wasabi vegetables with espresso. During dinner, she told me she had lived on the edge of society in Scotland for a couple of years. I parted with 30 pounds with that meal.

PUB AND HOME- SHIT TESTS POUR IN
She said she was having periods and went back to her house for a short while to change something. I felt really weird that she was telling me this. she told me a lot of weird things like she had an abortion. We went to a pub, had a beer. She said if we could go back to mine and then we took a cab home. At home I had an f-close without penetration as I did not have condoms. She had a nice modellesque body. She had a tampon on but there was no blood detected which I realized later as another shit test. She asked me if she should stop seeing another guy. I just smiled and kept quiet. I just enjoyed the experience although I did not cum and I did not want to cum. I paid her 20 pounds in the morning for her cab. She went home at 7:30 in the morning.

TEXT AFTER TWO DAYS
I asked her if she wanted to meet the next day(as out f-close was technically incomplete). After two days I get a text saying she was now in a relationship and she didnt want to meet again. So this could be another shit test to make her value higher.

I felt good after all this. Was my first f-close in a while and happened so smoothly without any neediness or clinging. But I am quite suspicious that I have met a complete nutcase.

Some mild shit tests she gave me :
1) When was the last time you had sex ?
2) Why aren't you married ?
3) I am actually seeing another guy. Do you want me to stop seeing him ?
4) I am having periods. (fake. also wears a tampon just to prove it)
5) I guess we are on a romantic date. Are you single and looking for a girlfriend ?

Dudes, love your togetherness but a few things:

1) stop bitching at each other, if you like one another's company and game then go with it, if not, don't hang around with one another and certainly don't bitch about one another on the internet, JFC!

2) you cannot 'F Close without penetration' - check Amazon for plenty of decent how to have sex guides and basic biology textbooks.

3) You are shelling out a lot for this menstruating german(!?) - you make it sound more like a business deal than a seduction... are you sure she is a 'student'?

4) She didn't get back to you because you had a beard?! what the absolute fuck... NO, it is because she wasn't attracted enough until she was bored, feeling low or feeling hungry and and broke - anyone can see that- focus on the fundamentals dude, you are obviously getting way wrapped up in the detail. Start again, get learning, this is a bit embarrassing. I feel for you. No offence intended.

Dude the online, bitching is a measure of last resort. Face to face communication has been done. I like a challenge. I support honesty when it is specific, the alternative will be to disassociate from the person concerned. However I do not like to give up someone until I have tried everything. Don Juan is a fully grown man and does not need sympathy, he is slowly getting there. The online criticism was what prompted him to think of the 100 pounds for 5 approaches. Personal conversations have happened and failed to motivate to a decent level. Not approaching causes negativity, its my job to control this using all creative options available. Anyone else would not be so patient.

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The Jackal an Introduction.
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The Field Reports.
[link]

The Lay Reports.
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On Saturday, after street and pub sarging with JACKAL, I went sarging with ROMEO.

First we went to Bar room bar. We decided to open set alternatively and had to pick a set for the other to open.

1)2 BLACK HB5'S AND ONE BLONDE HB 7

I opened them with compliment which went ok from the reactions. I then intro'ed my self.
I asked them their opinion about the best club to go to for trance and cool music.
They said gatecrashers. The Blonde went to the other side to get a chair.
I mistakenly thought she was trying to get the others to move away and I ejected.
ROMEO went back into the set continuing the conversation on best place to go clubbing.
Then we both ejected.

SARGING IN SNOBS : Later we went to Snobs.

2)AMOGGED BY A CHICK : I opened a 3 set(HB7,5(sister) and 4(fatty)) with compliment which made them smile. I introduced myself. I asked them their zodiac signs and started analysing their friendships based on that. It was going quite well. Then a fat HB7 came into set and they started to huddle around her and I was slightly out of the group for a second. I didnt feel like talking to the new chick and decided to stand there silently for a while. That was a mistake. I didnt reengage and ejected. The fat chick got a bit hurt by this and called a guy and kissed him in front of me to show that she is the boss. Later the fat chick was looking at me in an angry way after about an hour of this happening.

3)GIRL WHO LOST HER PHONE
I opened a 3 set(Hb7,6 and 5) with compliment. I started self-intro when one of the girls told me it was not the right time as she had lost her phone. I said sorry and ejected.


4)EXTREMELY RUDE SHORT GIRL
I opened a 4 set of girls 3 were Hb7 and one was a short HB6 that I didnt notice when I opened them with a compliment. As I was introducing myself, the short bitchy girl said "Walk away". I couldnt understand what she was saying. She repeated it three times. Then I got what she was saying. I got a bit offended but touched her on the shoulder and ejected. Later she was looking at me if I was hurt by her rejection. Yeah I was hurt. But that's what I am here for. If you don't get rejected, you don't get laid.

5) WEIRD 2 set HB8's: I opened them. But they started to move away from each other and she asked me to open the other one saying she had a boyfriend and the other one was single. The other one was shaking her head not to send me to her. Then it became so weird they were moving away from me and I ejected.

6) REJECTED BY 3 set(2 HB6's and one HB4) : As I opened this set with compliment and self intro and asked for their zodiac signs. The ugly one in the set said they were having a ladies' night out and I asked the other one for her zodiac sign. I said enjoy your night and ejected.

7) SHE STARTED TAKING PICTURES WITH ME. HB9 and HB8 : I opened a two set with compliment. They were drunk. The blonde hottie immediately asked the other one to take pictures of both of us. This is a great IOI. Then ROMEO entered the set and started gaming the blonde one while I talked to the other HB8. Then we all started taking group pictures. Don't know what happened later but we ejected.

8 ) 1 set IGNORED ME: HB7 was texting on the phone. I opened her but she didnt respond. I just stood there for a minute silently and she just walked away after texting.


9)WELSH HB8 : I went upto this chick who was texting. I put my hands on her shoulder and said she was the most gorgeous girl in the club. She said thanks. I introduced myself. She said she had a boyfriend and that I am good looking too and should go ask other girls who would be interested. I asked her zodiac sign and shook her hands and allowed her to walk away.

10)HB7 STANDING ALONE : I opened this set and she was quite friendly. I did compliment, handshake and then started talking about her job. I asked her which club is open after 4 am. She told me Subside would be open. I asked her phone number but she said she had 2 jobs and was very busy. I ejected.

11) 2 CANADIAN BLONDE HB8'S : Opened them with compliment. Gave self intro and shook hands. Tried to guess which country they were from. I thought they were Swedish or European. They seemed to be with 2 guys at the moment who were staning nearby but not talking to them. ROMEO entered but we ejected a while later. Later the two guys were talking to them and probably were going to get laid that night.

LATER AT SUBSIDE ALTERNATIVE BAR

12) DRUNK HB6.5 OPENED ME AT: I went to subside at about 4:30. It is an alternative bar. Lots of people with beards, leather jackets and rock music lovers. It has a nice friendly SPAM. I went upto a couch and sat very near to a 2 set HB7 and HB6.5. HB7 was passed out. HB6.5 started talking to me after a few minutes and I asked her to come sit next to me as I could not hear her. She later talked a lot. She was a fine arts student in BCU. She said she smoked weed a lot and she showed me her weed joint in her pocket. I asked her if we could smoke it later. She said yes. She added me on facebook and I number closed her. Later when the club was going to close, I went to the toilet. I lost her but texted her. She said she was smoking weed but I could not locate her. Hopefully I will meet her next time.

Conclusion : I had a great night because I opened so many sets without the aid of alcohol.

Friday night out with THE JACKAL and DON JUAN

Met THE JACKAL and DON JUAN in a bar THE JACKAL immediately gave me a challenge of going up to two women and saying to one of them something along the lines of " Your so fucking hot" and then wispering in her ear " I want to fuck you right now ". After a few minutes DON JUAN came into the group. THE JACKAL came over to me pulled me away from the group and told me to say something else sexual to her which I can't remember what it was. I went back into the group and started talking to them again and after a few minutes told her what THE JACKAL had told me to say. THE JACKAL pulled me out of the group again and told me to grab one of them by the face and try and kiss her, which I did but she turned away. DON JUAN then left the group and I carried on talking to them until THE JACKAL told me that we were going in two minutes and they left to go to the toilet.

THE JACKAL then told me to go over to one of the four women DON JUAN was talking to and try and pull her out of the bar into another. I went over and struck up a converstaion with them and after a few minutes I said to her "lets go next door". She said "were going in a bit" I said lets go now and grabbed her hand and started toi pull her towards the door. She kept saying we will all go together and I kept saying come on lets go as I was pulling her towards the door I got her half way across the room when she managed to lose my my grip and move back towards the group. I then noticed that the whole group had started to follow me out of the bar but they all went back as I let go. I should of gone back and grabbed her and pulled her out.

I then opened two women sitting down I can't remember what I opened with or what we were talking about but after a few minutes one of them said I just have to have a quick word with my friend so I went and talked to THE JACKAL and he told me not to bother going back in.

We thenwent over to the next bar with the group DON JUAN was with. After a while I left the groupl to go and find some hot women to talk to. I walked round the bar and their was no hot women on their own just one group four of women sitting down who were not too hot so I decided to open a group with guys in it. The group had two guys and three women ( only one was hot). I opened the hot one got talking to her for a few minutes and then quickly introduced myself to her friends. I then pulled her away from her friends and took her outside for a cigarette. I tired to kiss her but it was too soon and then one of her friends ( female) came out and sat next to me. We sat talking for a while and then they left to go to another bar, i number closed her.

We then went to a nightclub where THE JACKAL told me to approach two women sitting down and try and get them to stand up which I did immediately I then sat down and talked to them for a while and then left. THE JACKAL then told me to approach a group of about five women and one guy dancing on the dance floor and dance with them all. I went in span them all around and then physically moved one of them out of the group and started talking and dancing with her should of closed her even though she wasn't too hot. I then went and opend a single women on her own dancing crazily on the dance floor. I opened with hey crazy dancer and started talking to her I then moved her on to a step as she was really short and I am tall so we was the same height ( it makes it easier for the kiss). We talked for and danced for a while and and then we both left. THE JACKAL then told me to open a group of women dancing went in opened and danced with them picked on of them up span her around and spilt one of her friends drinks over her. Bye Bye. It was funny though.

I then opened a group of two women sitting down and tried to get one of them to dance I kept pulling her up from the seat but she wouldn't go so I sat down next to them and talked to them for about ten minutes. I say I talked to them because thats what it was they were only giving me one word answers, so I gave up after ten minutes.

To be conitinued

FRIDAY SARGING 3 FEB 2012

KISS CLOSE WITH DATE
I met JACKAL and DOLPHIN(who left in a minute) at SLUG. I had a kiss close with a chick(HB8) i have been meeting a couple of times in the pubs, dates etc. I met her 4 other friends as well. I was not very talkative but I tried to have a bit of conversation with them. JACKAL asked me to take her to Pitcher and Piano which I did. All her friends came along. She began to become very touch feely with me and then we sat next to each other and she started kissing my cheek. Then we went for a full blown kiss. She is really hot and after the kiss, I think I lost my interest to open other chicks.

SNOBS WITH ROMEO
I went to snobs at around 11:30. JACKAL hung around for a bit but left soon after. Romeo and I were taking turns to open sets. I had a bit of approach anxiety.

1) 2 SET HB3 chubbies: I opened them with compliment, introduced myself. Asked their zodiac signs. One of them said that they were not interested. So I ejected.

2) 2 SET HB5 short girls: I opened a 2 set of HB6's dancing. I went with general fluff talk like hi how are u doing and stuff. They were too eager to dance than talk and so I ejected.

3) 2 SET OPENED WITH KINO BUT WALKED AWAY : Two chicks were dancing and I went over from behind and tried to talk. But they moved away.

APPROACH ANXIETY SILLY EXCUSES
After these three sets, I could not open sets because my mind was a bit out of its state. ROMEO pointed me to almost 6 different sets which were so easy to open but I did not open them because of many stupid excuses as below :
1)CLUB WAS NOT BUSY: The club was not so crowded and there were limited number of sets.
2)SAUSAGE FEST : There were too many guys compared to girls and I could not open a two set in front of so many guys who were also staring at them.
3)AMOGING BARTENDER: A bartender was staring at me when I was preparing my mind to open the set.
4)SOCIAL ANXIETY: I was worried about what others may think about me.
5)WING WAS OPENING HIS OWN SETS: ROMEO was opening his own sets while he pointed me to sets. I feel a bit let down if he shows me a set and goes to open a set by himself. I would need a wing if I have to stay in the set longer. Of course this is bullshit and I will have to learn to solo sarge from next week on without anyone pushing me.

SAT ALONE FROM 2 TO 4 IN SNOBS
After 2 AM, ROMEO went home. I sat on a couch next to the dance floor watching people for the next two hours.

SUBSIDE FROM 4 TO 6.
After 4, I went to SUBSIDE where I was sitting alone looking at all the chicks.

SLUG BABES RECOGNIZED ME BUT I DIDNT OPEN
There was a two set who frequently visits Slug who recognize me but still I didnt open them. One of them is Pat who already knows that we are trying to pick up girls. Pat pointed her finger at me at some point but I didn't know what she was saying to the other chick. I thought she was probably making fun of me. Later they came and sat close to me on the couch (Invitation to approach) but I didnt respond so they immediately went away.

TEASE FROM A BLONDE HB6
I got eye contact from a blonde. She was with a couple of guys. She came and sat very close to me as if an invitation to approach but I didn't respond. One guy came upto her and took her back to the group. I don't know if the girl was with them or they had just met.

CONCLUSION : After the kiss close, I may have slipped back into AFC mode. I should do solo sarging from now onwards.
Although I was very disappointed by my lack of sociability, I was feeling a bit too happy within myself and didnt want to talk to anyone. I hope I can do better next week.

SATURDAY
On saturday I met JACKAL, ROMEO and VOLCANO. We went to Slug. I didnt open any sets. Everybody went back home after 11 pm.,

Hi DON JUAN, please decribe the girls in a nice fashion, everyone one is nice. U have to bring the niceness out of them. Looks like u had a lot of opportunity, remember some people are just as nervous as u r. Girls will never go out alone, so just by that fact u are more confident then them.

Talk to the random guys next time, tell them u r afraid, they will help u. Every guy in the place is a potential wing, just ask them for help man.

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The Jackal an Introduction.
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The Field Reports.
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The Lay Reports.
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A JOURNAL OF APPROACH ANXIETY
Today, I went to town to buy some stuff. I thought I would do my homework of 2 sets per day.
But my approach anxiety had gone so bad that I could not open any sets.
I thought of opening a few sets but this is what happened in my mind.

SETS I COULD HAVE OPENED BUT I DIDNT

MILF IN BUS : A MILF sat right in front of me. I could have easily opened her. But I got scared although the bus was quite empty.
In this case, probably I was scared of the MILF herself. She smelled of a strange perfume and I thought of asking her what brand it was.

JAPANESE 4 set in BUS : 4 Japanese chicks gave me friendly eyecontact but I did not open them. My excuse was that it was too big a set or that 4 set is too hard for me to handle.

ASIAN HB6 at bus stop : I looked at her and she immediately showed signs of flirtation like flicking her hair etc.But I was way too scared to go upto her and talk because of the people around and what would they think.
This is why drinking helps because it completely blocks the world around you.

RUSSIAN HB7 on BUS : I could have easily walked upto her and talked to her. I thought that I would surely open her if she came to the last seat in the bus but she stood in the front of the bus and I was scared to go upto her and talk to her.

BLACK woman HB 6 on Bus : I could have easily talked to her. But I didnt find her attractive enough to risk that.

European looking Blonde HB7 came sat right in front of me : But my bus stop came and I immediately got down. I was thinking what would the japanese chicks think if I opened this set. They would get jealous that I didnt open them and I opened this chick.

I really appreciate ROMEO in approaching. He goes anywhere and opens any fucking set he is shown, even in the middle of the dance floor. I should emulate him.
But I am a master of overthinking.

Saturday 4.2.2011

Got back with JACKAL and the guys after three months of being ubsy with other things. Finally met VOLCANO, he seems a cool, fun guy.

Did a couple of sets on the street (the usual run to the set thing that works really well). Almost no AA, cheeky conversations went really good.

Did a spin on a HB8, went back after to my original pub set - the approach went ok but wan't going anywhere - typical woman with a boyfriend but that loves attention.JACKAL showed me some awesome bodylanguage thing-how to put pressure on your kino so it's dominant. Makes the biggest difference, got to tell you.

Did my homework for monday 6.2 2011 - two sets
Again, really cool that I follow through: see woman-approach woman, etc

To improve:

- More imposing, less smiling.
- More kino, being a bit more aggresive
- Taking it one step at a time.

Awesome, I'm back in the game baby!!! YEAH!!

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