so last night i went to my ex's birthday party. up until lately we have barely even talked but she has been txting me a little more frequently and when i called her asking if the party was still going (i was late due to work) she was pretty bubbly sounding telling me i should definately go and i could sleep on the couch.
so i go to the party. we flirt all night to the point that friends are sending me texts saying i should make a move which i brushed off...
we get high, shes leaning on my shoulder, i give her a piggy back and we head back to the house where we ended up kissing (oddly almost exactly 2 years after our first kiss to the minute) holding each other etc etc and then her brother walks in, we push each other away and go to bed.
now this is some delicate shit because i have old feelings for sure and i can tell it was more than a kiss for her. i broke up with my girlfriend today and am going to a wedding on friday where i will be on the same table as my ex who i kissed last night.
my mind is doing backflips. part of me really wants to be with this girl but part of me is scared that i could ruin the chance for something more permanent down the line (we are only twenty) she is basically the girl alot of my daily thinking is taken up by...

have at me guys, should i slow dance with her and go for it? should i ask if the kiss meant something? what would you do?
and pumpington if you are reading this i am keen to hear what you have to say.

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just because my name is safety doesn't mean i like condoms

I've been there... thi is a really hard question I don't think nobody here can help you with that, you know your situation better than any of us I just want to tell you something, when you get old you don't regret the things that you did... you regret the things that you didn't so ask yourself if in the future you would regret not kissing your ex or if you would regret kissing her and there you have your answer.
Good luck man, I mean it.

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Winners have simply formed the habit of doing things losers do not like to do 18/03/12

ok, well how about this...
Do you think it could just be because she was drunk? like i am a firm believer in the saying "the drunk tongue speaks the sobre mind" so there has to be a part of her that is willing right?

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just because my name is safety doesn't mean i like condoms

Yes, in vino veritas. I don't know her, she might use it as an excuse, but there is definitely something there. If you want her, go for it. Why did you break up in the first place?

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rAFC and yes, I'm a chick.

I have bursts of being a lady, but it doesn't last long.

The reason we broke up is a very long story. But to cut it short the relationship had been so good that I didn't want it to go sour at all and so ended it thinking I would have a lot of good memories and no bad ones. Terrible idea I don't advocate it at all hah

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just because my name is safety doesn't mean i like condoms

If you feel you're ready for a committed relationship, definitely go for it! If you wanna play the field a little longer, keep her as a flirt buddy, don't see her too often, but keep things flirty and light. You'll always be "the one that got away". However, if she meets someone special you have to wait it out till they break up which could last years.

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rAFC and yes, I'm a chick.

I have bursts of being a lady, but it doesn't last long.

Well, the wedding was last night. I got way too drunk and we ended up arguing and I drove home drunk. It was so bad. I was saying shit about my feelings and she was yelling ah fuck. I don't really remember it at all but I ended up driving home very drunk. Sent her a MSG in the morning but I have a feeling we won't be friends for a while.

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just because my name is safety doesn't mean i like condoms

damn, brutal, well, you could always try to finish the 5 days you have left of approaching and try to see if you can actually make day 7 without hooking up with a new chick first

can i pm you pump?

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just because my name is safety doesn't mean i like condoms

sure