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PostPosted: Mon Jan 30, 2012 11:11 pm 
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You guys say approach, if it doesnt work, analyze the situation and find out what you did wrong, learn, move on to the next chick.
but the problem is, I can't tell if I did something wrong or if she is just a bitch.
For example, today I started taking to this chick at the library (i know library is a weird place for pick up)
she had some GMAT materials and i asked "oh you are studying for GMAT?" she said I already took it I said what did you get? she said I think I did alright. I said "dont they give you your score right there?" she said "yes" I said "how did you do?" she said "I think ok" I said "what percentile?" she said "I think 80th" so I said "wow that's pretty good" then she said "ok, good luck, take care." wtf?

I THINK I stick around for too long. Like I won't go away, I try to stay there and continue the conversation. Yeah, I think that's it. should I pretend I am in a hurry? I dont know, again, how do you tell if you did something wrong or if she is just a bitch?


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PostPosted: Mon Jan 30, 2012 11:33 pm 
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WHO GIVES A FUCK ABOUT HER TEST SCORE

That's what you did, you asked her about the same damn thing 5 times.


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PostPosted: Mon Jan 30, 2012 11:40 pm 
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WHO GIVES A FUCK ABOUT HER TEST SCORE

That's what you did, you asked her about the same damn thing 5 times.
you are right, but I just wanted to continue the conversation. I had nothing else to say.


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You guys say approach, if it doesnt work, analyze the situation and find out what you did wrong, learn, move on to the next chick.
but the problem is, I can't tell if I did something wrong or if she is just a bitch.
For example, today I started taking to this chick at the library (i know library is a weird place for pick up)
she had some GMAT materials and i asked "oh you are studying for GMAT?" she said I already took it I said what did you get? she said I think I did alright. I said "dont they give you your score right there?" she said "yes" I said "how did you do?" she said "I think ok" I said "what percentile?" she said "I think 80th" so I said "wow that's pretty good" then she said "ok, good luck, take care." wtf?

I THINK I stick around for too long. Like I won't go away, I try to stay there and continue the conversation. Yeah, I think that's it. should I pretend I am in a hurry? I dont know, again, how do you tell if you did something wrong or if she is just a bitch?
What were you expecting? Something like this?

You> "what percentile did you place on the GMAT?"
HB>"80th percentile I think..."
You>"wow that's pretty good!"
HB> drops panties and bends over for you waiting to be mounted


Good god dude, get over yourself.


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PostPosted: Tue Jan 31, 2012 8:12 am 
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What were you expecting? Something like this?

You> "what percentile did you place on the GMAT?"
HB>"80th percentile I think..."
You>"wow that's pretty good!"
HB> drops panties and bends over for you waiting to be mounted


Good god dude, get over yourself.
ROFLLL, agreed try saying/doing something WORTHY of #closing or whatever you wanted

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PostPosted: Tue Jan 31, 2012 10:03 am 
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you see this is the tricky part, you must put in effort to get serveral approaches done, so you can reflect and improve, one approach is not a good metric for a sticking point, approach, approach, approach, until you see a negative pattern, try to find the cause, correct the sticking point and practise implementing the fix until it becomes habit,

for your specific situation, just be more honest, have more confidence in yourself, be more honest, you did not start talking to her to find out her test scores, and she knows this, you know it too

you were being ''nice'' to get something from her (sex), you were not being yourself and expressing yourself, and if you are not going to be yourself then you have to bring value instead of trying to take it at the very least, at least that way she can see you are at least valuable while being ''nice'', interviewing her on boring mundane shit is in no way emotionally stimulating, it is an action based on need to get something at it's core, at least try to give something if you want something in return, sure it is manipulation, but it will serve you better then only trying to get something with nothing to offer in return, you can rely on this until you have the confidence and courage just to be yourself and have faith in your own assests and authority over your own life


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PostPosted: Tue Jan 31, 2012 10:20 am 
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What he said.

Sometimes shit happens. And you shouldn't care too much and let it get to your head. You shouldnt be overthinking your past aproaches unless you have a good number of them and you keep seeing the same sticking point. A good number would be around 10 approaches with similar results. Thats the time you need to reflect on your mistakes from an objective stand-point.

P.S. 80%? Tell her since she sucks might as well suck ur dick.

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