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Thanks mate, this will help a lot.

great tips! I never even thought about closed circles and stuff like that. Have any tips for commuters? I feel really lucky that my guy friend is pretty cool (not alpha male exactly), and he's introduced me to alot of people. But aside from knowing other commuters that I hang out with in the lounge, and the 20 or so people he's introduced me to, I feel like I'm still a loner. It's almost 2 months into my freshmen year and aside from my friend, I don't really have an inner circle. I think I have a decent outer circle though. maybe i'm just being impatient; i'm probably not the only one without a inner circle, and there are probably dormers who are less social then I am. however this may change with this Halloween weekend, as my fullbody spandex costume is good for peacocking.

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Better than a thousand hollow words, is one word that brings peace.

Do not dwell in the past, do not dream of the future, concentrate the mind on the present moment.

Do not dwell in the past, do not dream of the future, concentrate the mind on the present moment.

I know this post is over three years old, but times have changed a lot since 2008. Thus it might make sense to invent some new ideas. I am treating this question like I would a time capsule I just dug up on the beach. As if it were fresh.

One thing I've often had success with is introducing some form of adrenaline rush. When I was in school, there was an activity center where students could play pool, or some of my favorites, Foosball and air hockey. Playing one on one gets her heart racing, and you can neg and give high fives. The best is giving her a hug after she gets a goal.

Being around lots of other people, even if you don't know them, helps a girl feel more comfortable as well.

Most smartphones have apps that can help you plan a night as well. One that I have on my Android is simply called Where. Once installed, you can click on the Things to Do option. Here you will find art galleries, pool halls, free attractions, and so on. You'll also find coupons for cheaper options, like horseback riding. She doesn't need to know that you only paid 50%!

The biggest thing with college chicks is to realize that you are likely not the first guy to take her out. Be different from the others and do something no one has likely done. We have a ton of examples in our book, in which our journal entries sound out exactly what we said and did with each of the women. Hopefully this info from the year 2011 helps you and anyone else looking for some success in college.

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This is a great question. The best thing to do is slip an imaginary Sherlock Holmes pipe into your mouth and carefully watch those around you.

The first place to start is a roommate or neighbors. Get to know them ASAP, play some games (cards, videogames, drinking) so they know you're fun. You'll learn pretty quick if they are nerds, druggies, etc. If they are not, congrats! You can jump into their network of friends and life is simple.

Another great idea is to join some student organizations you are interested in. Not only will you enjoy participating, but you'll hang out with like minded people. Plus, if it's something you really believe in, you can be a group leader or even present. Women love a guy that is the leader. Meanwhile, invite ALL of the people to hang out while engaging them like Alec Baldwin engages in a game of Words with Friends and you are set. After a few times out, you can weed out any bad eggs and really focus on the cool peeps.

We have all sorts of other idea to meet people in our book The Journal that can really compliment what I've posted above. Check it out for a whole slew of additional ideas.

Best of luck!

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Conquer your campus is a good read for this. I'll upload it if anyone wants it. but it can easily be found on google.

Hey guys,

First post on the site! I've been browsing/reading the material on this site for a while now but only recently have i created an account.

I have an interesting situation. I'm entering my second semester of my third year of college, and I am just coming out of a long term relationship (1.5 years). You see, I was a pure AFC with girls all through high school - i never even kissed a girl until college. even freshman year, i was still relatively AFC (though i still got a several k-closes and even a few f-closes). the summer between freshman & sophomore years, i discovered the PUA community and started doing basic research, which led me to successfully gaming a sexy, sweet HB8.5 during welcome week sophomore year. but we started dating, and have been so until now (we just recently broke up, i needed my space). now im getting back into the PUA world.

Heres my main issue. I am a member of the top fraternity on campus; however, my school isnt a huge greek life school like some schools are (only 7% of students are greek). while it is great (i have access to tons of sick parties with lots and lots of hot girls), i feel a slight disconnect with most of my brothers, since most of them are good looking athletic studs who have lots and lots of game (i am average looking and a bit chubby, though i am 6'1). add to that the fact that ive been wifed up for the past year and a half, and since my girlfriend was very possessive i didnt have much room to become close to my brothers (the main reason why i broke up with her). therefore, i feel a severe inferiority complex whenever i go out with them - i always feel like any girls we meet are always only after them since they are better looking & more athletic than me. most of my successes in college have come from outside my social circle (girls outside the greek system) in which i wasnt competing with my frat brothers, and my frat association served as a major DHV.

So heres my major question: how do you successfully game when you are surrounded by other alphas? I am going to be living in the house next semester so I'm going to have exclusive access to the best pregames/parties on our campus. i want to be able to score with some of the hotties that come to these things, but i need to overcome this pressing obstacle.

Hello guys,

First of, I am glad that I found a thread about university since I just started this week.

Pretty much all my life, I always been amazing when it comes to social circles and all that stuff. Been labeled in the sport guys group and I must admit that I kind of liked the title. I have really closes friends, I have absolutely no problem getting girls when I go out. In fact, I don't remember the last time that I went out and didn't at least get a make out with a decent looking women. During my years in college, pretty much all my close friends were with my so I didn't need to join any other social circle since it was already there...

But... Now I started university.

And I must admit that it is absolutely not what I expected. Maybe universities are different in Canada?

I don't know anyone who goes to that university. So no more social circle anymore. I don't live on the campus and I'm actually 1h30 away from university so I won't just go there to pick up some girls... Like I said earlier, really not what I expected. I was amazed by the amount of old people who goes there, which is a bad thing...

Maybe it is because I started during winter, but I didn't have any initiation, any party or just anything to welcome you aboard. Pretty much all the activities I would register in, such as joining the hockey team, took place last semester so I can't join them now.

So yeah, to me. University sucks. And I just don't get how people even game there. During my classes, absolutely no one talks... Outside of classes, since everyone's basically taking the metro, everyone is in a hurry and no one's talking to anybody. This is awful. Maybe it is just my university that sucks or maybe I just had a bad timing joining during the winter, but I don't really think I will be doing university pick up anything soon. Fraternities? From my personal experience, they are myth, and the only time I witnessed them was probably in some teenage movies such as American Pie.

Thanks God, I know a ton of people back home so I just plan on spending the less time possible at university... I guess I will just attend my classes, and keep on going out during the weekend with my friends, not attending any university parties... Since I don't even know where and when they take place.

Meh... Maybe the next few semesters will be better.

Any personal experiences from Canadian Universities or basically anyone who started during winter?

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Just to let you know that while you guys were arguing about the glass of water...... I drank it!

Sincerely, the Opportunist

It all seems so clear when it is coherently explained to you. It allows you to make sense of the convolution that happens to trying to decipher how to deal with a particularly volotile social situation. Thanks Again!

The thing is, I haven't hit on a single girl yet. It's all innocent, getting to know each other because we're all in the same boat of not knowing anyone. Opening has never been easier, ever. I figure if there's enough rapport, I can work one on one as we get farther into the school year... so for now I'm just loving every minute of it!

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