I might be wrong because i am a noob, but from the little experience i have had, I have realized within the first 10 seconds you should know if you are clicking with someone. If you are not, dont force it (dont force a shoe that doesnt fit? what is that expression)
am I right?

It takes longer than 10 seconds to know if you are clicking with the person. Its more like a couple of minutes as you can't make much conversation in 10 seconds. I will more say within 5 or so minutes you know if you are clicking as by then the conversation is either flowing or not.

If you are cold approaching the first 5 mins you are just an interruption to her day, her plans, her schedule. You should expect her to be short with you. So stick around and wait out the first 5 mins of her being short with you using conversation.

In direct game, 10-30 seconds. Your body language / tone / the way you approached has already spiked her interest in you.

With indirect game, about 5 minutes usually.

And there's no such thing as "forcing" yourself to click. If the girl is hot enough, click or die trying.

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He's got it basically right, when the guy infront of you in a line at the store turns to you and says "nice game yesterday" do you start a whole conversation with him? or just say "yea" - same thing with girls, if they really like you they will be shy and talk even less; most PUA isn't based on love at first sight, thats a false reality and rarely works

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Thanks.

i think of it like this. In her mind she will have her first impression thoughts. Not about you but about you talking to her. Pretty girls are per-conditioned to attention so they don't jump for joy that you are talking to them. Unless you are on the Hollywood movie screen, a singer, a professional sports figure etc. Why jump for joy, its same old same old for a hottie.

First thoughts will likely be negative. Thinking down about you for getting in the way of her plans, shopping, girlfriend time or the leaving or heading to a guy who isn't you.

Pretty fast she will thinking about the guys thats been working for her attention and compare you to her. Pretty fast she will think of the guy shes got her eye on and it may not be the guy working for her attention. Already you are getting compared with two other dudes who have rapport with her already. In addition to that. What girl only likes one guy. They like several. What hottie only has one guy working for her. They have several. That is your worth. You will be lucky as an interruption to be in the top 10 lol.

Its supposed to be cold. You are approaching someone and trying to open the door so over the next few conversations you can go from non ranked option to top 3.

Hang in there. Get past 5 or 6 minutes of what seems like a woman with no personality. A woman mad you started talking to her. A woman that seems busy ad intent on sticking with her schedule cause after all no matter your attractiveness or politeness you are an interruption to her plans.


Every 10-30 second rejection you took thinking it was over, re-approach if they are in your daily passing. get your 6 minutes in.

Even with direct game it takes longer than that to see if you click.

Usually when I get a boner that's indication enough that things are going well. I call it the Boner Frame. Use it you like, that goes for the rest of you.