So i meet this girl in my class and she is very easy to talk too, i opened her fine. Only thing is, shes giving me IOI's left to right but has been in a relationship for a year and a half now.

She mimicked my body language
whenever i talked she would play with her hair constantly
she commented on my cologne i was wearing
Smiles consistently and laughs at all of my jokes
changes her opinion to match mine

i emailed her when i was drunk last night, playing that whole "hey i need your number in case we don't know when somethings due" and got it about 4 hours after sending it.

I texted her today with smileys (setting that subconscious hint that i'm interested) and she does them back. like every other message.

Any clue on what to do next? I'm thinking of doing the 5 question game or the cube to built rammport but what should i do since shes in a serious relationship?

Thanks for the help everyone!

Sure, build that comfort and when you and the guys go out or even just you see if she wants to tag along. Make it put out there that you are just "Hanging out" or "Having fun", don't make it sound sexual or anything, being she is in a relationship. She's obviously interested. Girls will deny it that they are directly interested in sexual encounters yet when you are face to face with them, things change. I would do the cube but I'm not sure if it would work as effectively over text... relate with her and point out your similarities with her, it will subconsciously also set a tone and setting for her.

It looks like there is attraction but I never like to come between a couple so I always stay out of such situations. Even if I know that she likes me I wouldn't even consider telling her anything that would plant the seed of doubt in her relationship but that is just me and my karma mentality....

That's understandable but at the same time, she is obviously hitting on others then she will be hitting on other guys, it's not just a one kind of guy thing if she is in a relationship and doing that. I would actually prefer it be me who won't try and tear their relationship apart, more of a have sexual encounter and leave her be, instead of pursuing a relationship to break her and her bf up like most others would do.

i see your point...guess we'll see how it plays out. Thanks for the tips!

So to follow up from the previous post, we had class today and we were talking about the summer and how were both going to stay here.

I jokingly said, "I'll keep you company while your here!" and she laughed and said that'd be great.

Then she asked "when do you turn 21"? I said in July. She all goes well ill have to show you around the bars once you do! I said i'd love that and she all goes "Well it's a date then"

she said all of this while supposedly having a boyfriend...now she personally hasn't told me that she has a boyfriend yet, i just saw on her Facebook that shes in a relationship.

You think i'm playing with fire or should i tread carefully and continue pursuing her?

So where are those mixed signals? So far I saw only straightforward signals of interest in the original post.

Exactly, she is IOI'ing you left and right. Whether or not your playing with fire is completely her decision, continue it... She probably knows her relationship is bound to fail if she is making future plans in her mind with you. Continue.

so next steps?

i didn't see her on wednesday as she was sick so i decided to text her saying to feel better and all, we text for a few hours and then i stopped cuz it was late and i didnt want to see desperate

we had class on friday together again and low and behold she was IOIig like crazy again...she still has not mentioned one thing about her BF(even though she does, see above)

So...do i continue to text her? she has next texted me first. Or should i wait it out as i dont want to give her the attention i believe she is after? I also dont want to come off as desperate or needy, so i am thinking to just wait until class again until we talk next.

Any insight would be greatly appreciated!

isolate, escalate, close,

if you want to fuck a girl with a boyfriend that choice of morality is dependant on you,

girls say yes, girls say no,

alot of girls cheat on their boyfriends, alot of girls just want attention and flirt but have no intention of sleeping with you, even if they are attracted to you, especially so when they are in a relationship, no matter how tight the game

if you want to fuck her, get her alone, and try to fuck her, just realize she has not said anything about the boyfriend yet, so it is not your fault for trying in her mind, now if she tells you she has a boyfriend, just ignore it, treat it like a shit test and continue make yourself responsible for what happens so she can say it was your fault and it ''just happened'' don't try to get her logical approval for sex, just try to make out with her in private and proceed, realize that past that point, you have to be willing to lose her to get her, it is a risk, but if you want to fuck her, it is one you have to be willing to take