Another theme i've found between myself and women before i discovered pickup. Any input would be appreciated.

So quite simply im gonna examine a universal i've found between men and women.
1. I'm physically attracted to female
2. Said female and i have yet to interact
3. Just looking at this girl makes me wild and i like her energy
4. My energy synchronizes with hers and seems to be fate that I saw her.

Alot of time with these cases when im attracted to the energy she puts off, 9/10 times she's also attracted to my energy. Simplified if you're energy is drawn to hers, more often than not it reciprocates. Girls i had crushes on for years - I later found out they had crushes on me as well. Its an interesting phenomena how our energies interact. Would you guys agree that in most cases it goes both ways?

You can compare this to "soul mates" or what have you. Not in the sense of love, just attraction.

These days if i like a girl's energy its an unspoken ioi for me, i know the attraction will be mutual without even talking to her which makes it all the easier to throw my net around her and drag her back to the man cave for a hardy feast. (LOL)

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...energy?

I totally get what you are saying. Dr.Paul Dubransky, mentioned a little about this in the DYD deep inner game series.

I explain it like this: Have you ever felt like someone is looking at you and you turn around and catch someone looking at you. There is no way you could have known they were there, but somehow you felt it. I have a theory that as humans, we can feel when other humans are intensely emotional toward us, like some kind of left over instinct that we've learned to ignore once we started communicating verbal. Much like how a dog can sense your fear, or mother can sense when her baby is upset even if she cant hear/see them. Something is left over where we can detect each other's emotional states on some kind of instinctual level. Think of it this way, have you ever hated someone from the moment you met them, or knew instantly that a woman wanted to sleep with you, or that you instantly knew you would get a long with someone. Why did you feel that way without more than a simple introduction worth of information?

Women talk all the time about vibing or sexual tension. They aren't talking usually about the verbal or physical flirting either. They might be have a normal conversation with a guy and pick up on a sexual vibe/tension. They might look at a guy and feel an instant connection/attraction they can't explain. Some people just seem to drip sexuality, while others seem dull and bland. I think there may be something to this, that science has yet to explain.

^ Um something of that sortl. If you look into eastern religions you'll discover the phenomena of chi, qi. In western philosophies alot of people refer to it as "aura" or "SPAM"(like in a room). You can also think of it as an extension of your soul.

And i'm glad you mentioned hating a person.

If you strongly hate a person since u first met them its likely that its mutual. Your energy/soul/chi just conflicts with theirs.

If you are extremely attracted to a person since you first met them its likely that its mutual. Its the same here except your energy just bonds with theirs. I think the only way for your souls to bond is to have sex lol. I mean what else could bond two people together like sex, you're inside of her...

These are the only 2 emotions that i've noticed that this happens with. 2 sides of the same coin. Alot of people believe love runs the universe, i believe love or lust is an extension of the soul, as is hate. Good and evil, heaven and hell, light and dark, love and hate - one cannot exist without the other. "Soul mate" has alot to do with spirit in my opinion so i think that's how the two are connected.

Sorry if i confused you or offended your god in this post, it's only my own personal beliefs. I'm currently trying to think of a scientific way to explain all this, a way to measure it, i'll get back to you when i do.

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Yeah, Ive tried to find information on chi or internal energy, but there isn't a lot of information on how to build it. The only thing I've found was Buddhist beliefs about inner peace and stuff like that, but not about strengthening one's chi. I'm not sure how one does that. I've seen videos of shaolin monks doing some amazing feats, which they attribute to chi. But how they strengthen it seems to be a guarded secret, because their is limited information available on the subject.

On another note, I have read some information on beta waves, which are given of by the human brain, apparently some people believe that the human brain gives off certain frequencies when it is in an emotional state. And some people believe that these waves can be perceived by other humans and animals. But if the brain is on a logical (over thinking) or overly relaxed state (drunk/sleepy), these frequencies are not given off. Some people believe that the brain can be trained to increase the "output" of these beta waves to make their effect more potent.

I'll admit this is all pseudo-science with no real research to back it up. But in my experience, there is something to it. Somehow women tend to almost instantly know if you have game or not. They are somehow magnetically drawn to bad boys and real connections can be made without a single word being said. So I dunno.

^ I personally don't buy into "strengthening your chi". Its not about making it stronger or even using it. What im talking about is just sensing another's energy which comes through alot of experience. You first need to learn what this energy feels like and then you need to get accustomed to finding energy you resonate with. Just start by finding people you like and people you dont and then comparing what their life force feels like - yes there is a correlation in what their energys feel like. Go to your office at wprk at do this with people you dont have much or any interaction with, male or female, and see what you feel that they emit and compare until you are used to what these people feel like that you are drawn to. After you get used to this or maybe you were born with the ability, then you can start targetting girls who there is already this connection with and in this case you dont need much game to hook this girl because she'll already feel comfortable with you.

Beta waves. This isn't exactly what the thread is about but i'll delve into it because i'ma nice guy. I believe its real but this is more about harnessing your mind to manifest beliefs. Try this. Meditate and then just think about 1 idea, 1 wish, 1 belief, YOU HAVE TO BELIEVE IT, and it will manifest itself into reality. Perhaps not at this moment but if you think about having a good paying job in this state often, you'll find your way into finding a good job. Same with women. Watch "the secret", it's very similar to this idea you are interested in and it's based around an quantum physical idea called the law of attraction which essentially translates to, if you think about something you'll bring it about and attract it into your life. Its 10x as effective if you are meditating and there is only 1 thought in your brain and no other stimulus.

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I think there's a real bias to what you are discussing that makes it seem more realistic: you are going to know more times about success than failure. Think about how many women you look at in a week, how many look back? Odds are you remember the ones who do a lot more. The reverse is also true, if you're sitting at a table and look around, it's just because you are curious about your environment. But if you happen to catch one girl out of 30 people in your line of sight looking at you, that's the one you zoom in on and think "our energy's were aligned."

^you dont need to make false assumptions because you dont understand

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what false assumptions are you talking about?

He is saying that your so-called felt 'energy', is only there because she is looking at you. And you are going to interpret that as: 'your energies are aligned'. You are now referring to energy, what can also be sexual attraction. (what in itself can be energy ofcourse, who knows)


However, I do agree on the quantum theory part: Everything has possibilities, and at the moment that somebody (consciously) watches, it will choose its possibility. (Superposition until watched)
This is scientifically based, people are getting closer to see that we shouldn't only believe what we see.

Believing is seeing.

Attempting to sound smart and reasonable while in reality just acting like a condescending punk doesn't make you right, either. Fact is this forum is better served addressing real issues, tips, tactics, and skills for self-improvement, not the belief that we are all cosmically linked or capable of being linked by our auras.

awww did i make u mad? im sorry bud, you know it wasnt intended in that way.

i dont believe i ever said i can tell just from how she looks at me. sight has nothing to do with my theory. its about feeling attraction. 1 in a 100 girls are linked to you in such a way and thats alot. 1/5 girls will look at me. your energy goes where u look via your sympathetic nervous system and i suppose there is a connection but thats not where im going with this. not every girl who looks at me has this aural connection. most of the girls who look at me may just be interested in the frame i've set or my body.

everyone is biased dj, you for instance disagreeing with me. i try to be as objective as possible so you can understand the theory. you dont have to agree with me... though maybe you should be open to the idea that there's more than meets the eye because believe it or not, there is

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Nah, there isn't.

I may tend to agree with you on this. Like I said, I have just notice this phenomenon, but I have not been able to explain it or understand it more thoroughly. I do like your perspective though. It's not about strengthening anything, it's simply about embracing it. That makes sense to me. Like I said, I don't know what this phenomenon is, but I do believe there is something to it.

Yes there is an energy, definitely. It's a pity that we don't use our intuition more. I have experienced this thing OP is talking about many times. It's beyond just sexual attraction. And it lasts after the encounter. Have you never experienced this sensation that somebody is thinking about you, like a really strong sensation, only to have them contact you just a minute later? I think these things happen, as the OP said, when the vibration of both of your energies is aligned, but more than that, the energies go into sort of a loop together, forming a closed circle when both sides are giving this energy unselfishly. I've had weirdest things happen with some persons, mind reading and similar stuff. It definitely exists.
I also know it may sound ridiculous to guys that are very down to earth and rational, but it's the way it is, we're different and there's no point in proving anybody wrong or right in these esoteric questions. The rational guy can never ever persuade the intuitive guy it doesn't exist, because the intuitive guy had experienced it. And vice versa.

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I have bursts of being a lady, but it doesn't last long.

I have encountered this "energy" quite a lot in my experience. At some point in my life it had become overwhelming. I actually developed a theory about it quite a long time ago. As a massage therapist, we are trained to be in tuned with energy flow, coupled with my life experience with people in general. It is most certainly real. The theory I developed was to do with peoples "aura's" I have connected with not just women but men. It's almost as though you have known these people( that you just met) for a life time. Here it is in a nut shell.

I believe that everyone has a specific color ( aura) And when two people meet that are of the same color they feel a connection. ( the more intuitive the people, the stronger they feel it) It's kind of like a soul mate theory. But here's the thing. Some people can have 1000 soul mates, some only 1. Let's say two people both are the color blue, bud different shades, they will feel a connection, but not as strong as if they were the exact same shade of blue.

I have had many connections with women ( and men) that I just met. Over powering connections, that seemed to defy logic. These encounters led me to question all of this.

Younger people may not be able to understand what this is about. But I can assure you it's REAL. I strongly advise anyone that has encountered such things, to follow it's lead. It doesn't have to be with pick up, it can be any aspect of your life, if you meet someone that you feel that connection to, explore it. Question it, question them about it. It's a wonder of life, the more in tune you become with it. The better off you will be. I have some dear friends, that are the same color as me. Some i have only known for a year or two, yet I am closer to them then people I have known my entire life.

As far as sex wise, it's a no brainer. I have had instant sex with women that I felt this connection with. The better suited I was at explaining what we were both feeling the easier it was. It was also always better sex, then most.

The only problem is emotions get involved way faster within an energy connection. So if you're a true player. it can become difficult to continue.



A great movie that explains a bit more about energy flow

"What the bleep do we know anyways"

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