So I was out on the weekend testing a bunch of the new techniques i learnt and all is going well, I have already picked up a really cute blondy with the the advice opener the previous night.. So my ex kept blowing up my phone as I was locked in the bar, I saw the bartender giving me signs of interest so I thought i would go for it.. I asked her about advice about what to do if an ex keeps blowing up her phone and you don't want to let her down easy... (except i said this smoother) she started to respond well started talking about all these relationships and then even offered to answer the phone for me. I told her no no because i said i wanted to let her down easy we had a little bit of a laugh and i heard her say some words with toronto slang, so i called her on it and told her i just moved up to halifax... anyway we talked for a bit and then i asked her for a way to contact her so she can give me more good advice... she then playfully laughed from what I remember and said she dosen't give out her number in the club while she works but she did give me her facebook.... Now the only problem is I don't know how to re-initiate a conversation with her and possibly plan a night out?

...no

She doesn't give out her number TO GUYS SHE DOESN'T WANT CALLING HER. I'm sorry dude, but she is a bartender, being social is part of her job. I think she was just being nice, and it is probably in your best interest to game other girls

I guess that is true

Is there a way to try a compliance test over facebook ? She isn't even the greatest looking I would say 7.2 /10 and I am not scrawny 6'0, 195 gym mon- friday and am in the military, but you are still possibly right i just thought i'd throw in all possible variables

If the the test doesn't work I would jus delete her and move on and in no way am I hooked I just thought it was worth a try

Don't give up. I had a bar waitress do the same shit to me. Ended up Facebooking her that night. Got her to grab ihop with me after she got off. Then number closed it in ihop. But sadly I never advanced any farther because I found a better target who took my focus away.

Awesome thanks! What would be a good way to open on facebook?


P.S A day has gone by... I have just started practicing PUA techniques with a huge success... I have caught so many mistakes I use to do and now realize why pick ups back then didn't work.. But the reason I've waited a day is due to the fact of after all these practice pick ups and numbers I'm stuck talking to a bunch of chicks... Don't get me wrong I'm not complaining... but it would be nice to close this bartender just to see if I can use this same technique another time

My favorite is this one:

So lets say I haven't eaten all day (for one reason or another you are taking me to dinner) so I'm freaking starved! You're just getting home from the gym. You're all sweaty so you have to shower and get ready before we go out. How long till we're out the door?

A) 45 minutes and you're smoking hot. I can't keep my hands off you.

B) 20 minutes and you look cute

C) 2 hours and I die of starvation.

Copy and past that. It works every time and it gives you a good place to neg... also after you get an answer you can set up a dare by taking the scenario further saying

Lets say you're taking me out because it's my birthday... where are you taking me?

Blah blah blah

Cool I know where that's at. How about 7 o'clock Tuesday night.

Go from there

Then number close on the date.

Another thing to add. If you don't want to do dinner you can always play off her restaurant.

Oh that place is good but I'm pretty easy (no dirty thoughts ;p) I'm cool with grabbing coffee/ice cream ext. No need to get all fancy on me"

That is awesome! How did most women reply to you ? How did you use the NEG? SPAM I am extremely nervous to use NEGS because I just started studying PUA and am worried it will come out wrong... Or she will be offended... I try here and there but still get anxious..... Would I use this right off the bat? or How should I begin the message?

So "this is my question to you" lets say I haven't eaten all day (for one reason or another you are taking me to dinner) so I'm freaking starved! You're just getting home from the gym. You're all sweaty so you have to shower and get ready before we go out. How long till we're out the etc.....


-" " So would this be okay?

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You need the multiple choice part. I doesn't work without it.

They always choose A. That's when you give them shit. "Damn you take forever! You could at least bring me home a snack... geeeez ;p"

Headline should be "Serious question!"

Good on you for having the courage to approach her! Bartenders get hit on all the time, but don't be discouraged if she gave you her FB just msg her some time, but don't put much stock into it.

Thanks! I usually would not have but she was being playful and kept short but not pointless conversations.. Sometimes she would throw signs of interests from what i remember lol... I was trying some techniques I have been studying... even though I am a newbie I think it was working well... I saw the perfect opportunity at the bar for a situational opener with the ex blowing up my phone and decided to go for it since I was building a comfort here and there with her... I never intended to try n pick her up I just wanted to try a situational opener for the second time.. because the first time it worked like a charm

Haha I will keep you updated on how it goes... or if I get no reply I guess I got the point and will delete her lol