I'll call this Day 1, though it isn't. There were a few prior hookups, which I will discuss in a later video. Last night, a Thursday night, I had the opportunity to go out so I did.

The night went sort of like this. I invited T-rex out. I needed a wing man, and he talked alot about his game in a more local setting away from Nashville. (In need of a decent wing man).

We strolled to 2nd and Broadway. It had just finished raining so the clubs just weren't havin' it. They were dead. I remembered a new place that was full of Nashville locals, and we so we resigned to making that the last and only stop.

We entered the bar and as I ordered a beer, a girl I call Bob Dylan (which I will also discuss with more posts) was at the bar. I did not recognize her due to her change in dress, and so she had to turn to and acknowledge me. Now at this time, she is in a LDR, but I know there's potential there for another wing man.

We sat, drank and talked. Within minutes I noticed a 9 over her shoulder. I forced eye contact, and she didn't blink or look away. About the time I tried to force an IOI, she was approached by 2 other local guys, and was distracted.

Now I know I should of walked up, pretended I knew her and thus DHV, but this is week 3 and I couldn't bring it to the surface.

A little while later, we had moved from the bar to a table. I didn't like sitting in the same place too long. My 9 sat at a table in my view. I shot her a look, made eye contact and gestured that i liked her scarf. She smiled and returned a silent thank you.

T-rex turns to see what I am looking at, sees her looking in this direction and assumes that means for him, it is on. :/ Now I'm not going to argue over her. Neither would win. So, I turn to "Bob Dylan" and continue our conversation. T-rex manages to move her closer to the table, and she makes eye contact with me again. I invite her to sit down.

She takes the seat across from me, but T-rex continues to chat her up. Dylan wants to go smoke, so I go to join her. Moments later the 9 is walking out to us with T-rex in tow. I'm pretty siked and humored by this.

He holds a conversation for a moment, but then immediately lets leaves a lull. So I chat her up, where she's from what she does etc. In the conversation some DHV's unintentionally slip out. We have a bit in common. She's a neighbor!

T-rex gets desperate and piggy backs my DHV's, expressing that he too has these qualities. Game over T-rex! So I set up a reason for the follow up. She agrees that she could teach me to play piano. Says she does it all the time for 20 every 30 min, but she doesn't own one. BUT I'm lucky enough to get the first lesson free to see if we "work well together". I get her number, she requests to take mine, and then calls my phone. Doesn't that scream IOI??

Now she makes an exit, saying she has to go. We go back in the bar. I sit between T-rex and Dylan, talking to Dylan about her resume skillz. On T-rex's right is a solid 7 and he's complaining that there's noone else to talk to. I turn to the 7 reaching out in front of him and cutting him out, and throw an opener about her dress being 80's. She corrects me with 50's, so i negg her. She gets up and comes around T-rex to me. She's part of a band and wants to promote them to me, but I have more in mind.

I have had a bit to drink and because the bar is loud and we have to be REAL close, I immediately start with the kino. She returns the kino? She gives me a card with a number and writes down show times. SO not going haha. But I had to know if this was just promoting or if I'd gotten her attention.

She goes up for one more show and I pretty much ignore it, talking to Dylan. When she comes down T-rex asks her about her performance. She waves him off and comes to me to talk about it. We share some more playful touching and banter about her band, how I'll come see etc etc. She exits for the night and I have a few more before turning in.

End of night T- rex tells me that Dylan expressed TONS of jealousy. Which is cool, but if she's really in a LDR, not for me.

So you guys comment and let me know what you think. On all 3. Is it on, or am I just imagining things? It's only week 3, and my weakness IS seeing IOI's...

Day 2. Technically night.

TONS of DHV to work with

Doing a promotion for a club down town, and Pretty Ricky is the entertainment. Jesus and I are using the side entrance, walking around with cameras, and chilling in the VIP area with Pretty Ricky's group, and behind the DJ booth.

I hope I get this kind of situation every night after this!

Got to drinking though. Guys, if you want to pick-up well.... dont DRINK TOO MUCH.
Almost wasted a perfect environment.

Got an awesome DHV group shot for social proof. Ran into a very smart and cute girl. Helped her into the VIP area. Went REALLY well. Drinking does make kino easy, but that's about it. So I kiss closed.

But here's where I am frustrated. I went home with her. It was on. I think I left a lull in the action and we made eye contact...she backed off and shut me down, saying she wanted to know me more, and was worried that she wouldn't talk to me again if we DID do something.

A bit into a nice movie and I get another opportunity. This time I asked her in the middle of making out if she wanted this to happen. Fail. Shut down again.

So I know why the 2nd shot failed. Any tips on F-closing smoothly?

Sure, you shouldn't have asked, girls will most likely respond what you don't want to hear lol.

If you're already making out with her it's safe you have her in the bag. What I do is make out, slowly, gently then pick up pace, when you've been doing so for 5 - 10 min then I go for ass grabbing, putting my hand in her back pocket etc etc. After ass grabbing I start exploring her some more, i put my hand up her shirt, behind her back, then near her tits but not on them etc, eventually you work your way to putting your hands down her pants. (Yes all this in the club... once you've got her going there's no way she will say no, then its just a matter of logistics)

Now what if she's rejecting? If its physical ignore it, lay off just a bit.

Example: I go put my hand near her tits (not on it) she grabs my hand and moves it away. No problem I keep touching her everywhere else that she was okay with and then I go again. If she says no rinse and repeat, eventually she will say okay.


If its verbal, address it and smooth her into it.

Example: You have placed her hand on your cock she jerks you off a bit and says "no, we shouldn't do this people can see", you: "no they can't my body is covering you / it" and smile and kiss her.

another response you could use is "do you know any of these people?", she will respond "no..." and again smile and kiss. if she points out her friends you can then isolate her.

Its how I do it atleast. What she looking for is to "resist" tha way later on she could justify it to herself and say "I tried to resist".

Day 3 i think? K so I take out an old friend cause he's all broken up about his ex. It was a date for me, so I just kind of pulled it all together, which worked surprisingly well.

At the start he couldnt even talk to girls, at the end he danced with an 8 and got her and a 10's number (though it might have been fake, it's not my position to judge.)

I kino'd with my girl and we joked about sex "peeling paint off the walls" etc and built at quiet understanding.

SO 2 fuck ups that ruined my night.

1. The friend got super drunk, so he couldn't go home. And my place is a WRECK, due to a falling out with an ex not long ago. I salvage it with the whole "I'm remodeling and she torched the place never home blah blah blah," though i know i also over explained myself.

2. Though I salvaged it and she wanted to f-close, that drunk mother fucker passed out in my room. It was just a wierd situation. She didn't want to call it a night, but I can't perform with hillbilly on my futon snoring.

Lesson to be learned. I'm going to quit trying to make people PUA that aren't PUA. Getting to understand the importance of a good wingman!

BUT we did speak about meeting again and next time at her place, so I won't throw in the towel on that one, just moving on for a few days.

BAD NIGHT. Oh well, tomorrow night the slate is clean!

2/5/12 Met up with Hank Panky tonight

After seeing some of the accusations and questionable posts on this forum for the 1st week of being here, it was refreshing to meet the real deal, someone grasping for mastery that's not out of reach.

He pointed me in some directions, which really helped. I got to see the results of social networking when he was approached by an HB who knew friends of his in multiple ways.

SMALL WORLD

He taught me more or less what a REAL wing man is, and much more. It's good to see creativity through a pickup artists successively working their own material.

This guy has CONFIDENCE. It's great. I started to come off my high that I got from starting this journey, and he refreshed it.

Thanks Hank!

Looking forward to meeting LeDuke and a few others from the community hopefully in the near future!

You're quite welcome, Rusty. I like your attitude. There's not much worse than a beginner who wants to act like a master. I'm glad you got to see me get blown out too! I had to mention it since you didn't

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