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Thanks blade! I appreciate the feedback, but I guess Im having problems building attraction. I can carry a conversation but at times I feel like I'm getting sidetracked during the convo. In other words, how do I keep her interested when I build attraction? I found a couple of times negs do the trick, but I'm searching for something more consistent...
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Negs arn't something to get a girls attention - unless your proficient in it you will get the wrong kind, read the link for more.
Talk about her, I've NEVER had a girl not want to talk about herself; all you have to do is listen to a few sentences and she will build the rapport herself (good topics to ask her about - childhood memories, dream anything (dream dates, cars, houses), fears)
If your running out of convo that means you need to close and leave before you become that boring guy who hovers around her; but try to last in convo 10+ mins before trying.
The secret with girls is even though you've asked every girl you've met the same question, THEY don't know that - asking every girl i meet about her childhood never gets boring to them, even though I've heard it 1000x. If it works use it more often, if it doesn't forget about it.