I recently met a guy who is one of the most charismatic alpha males I've ever met. He's tall (about 6'4"), very muscular (obvious six-pack), has a traditionally handsome movie-star face, excels in many sports, is intelligent, witty, charming and well-spoken, is privately educated with a degree from Oxford University and a well-paid job, and has a very confident aura about him, with excellent social skills and banter. I assumed from this that he could get any girl he wanted, but then I met his girlfriend and she was surprisingly average, only about 5/10! She doesn't even have a particularly charming personality.

How on Earth did this guy end up with her? :S I feel sure he could get a 9 or 10, as he must be about a 9 or 10 himself, and yet he's with a girl who is actually borderline ugly, and has been with her for a long time! This makes no sense, and it's kind of scary that despite having all his qualities, that was the best he could do! PUAs would class him as a 'natural', and if that girl is the best he can get, what hope is there for the rest of us?!

What do you think is going on here? :S

Man, you really seem to have the gift to create controversy with your threads My opinion about this, answer to your last thread as well, where you claim that "women personality is very unimportant". Well this case brought by yourself shows that it is not and i think you havent had the chance to experience a relationship with a beautiful but empty head woman to realize that even beauty gets boring, specially of course in a long term relationship.

Maybe what happened to this "ALPHA" dude is that he knows he might have a beautiful girl whenever he wants (or probably he has had already lots of them) and he needed in this stage of his life a person that fulfilled other needs like: intelectual, social and/or personal affinity. Sure you will probably say: "Well, why he didnt looked then a HB9 or 10 with those characterisitcs"! ?) Well first of all because we would like it to be that easy and its not, second, simply because he crossed paths with this girl first and found her special. A strong bond between them was created and period!.

Note: We cannot fail either to point out the classic phenomenon: When you know you can have something anytime you want, its not that interesting anymore. So you can afford to look for something different.