I recently met a guy who is one of the most charismatic alpha males I've ever met. He's tall (about 6'4"), very muscular (obvious six-pack), has a traditionally handsome movie-star face, excels in many sports, is intelligent, witty, charming and well-spoken, is privately educated with a degree from Oxford University and a well-paid job, and has a very confident aura about him, with excellent social skills and banter. I assumed from this that he could get any girl he wanted, but then I met his girlfriend and she was surprisingly average, only about 5/10! She doesn't even have a particularly charming personality.

How on Earth did this guy end up with her? :S I feel sure he could get a 9 or 10, as he must be about a 9 or 10 himself, and yet he's with a girl who is actually borderline ugly, and has been with her for a long time! This makes no sense, and it's kind of scary that despite having all his qualities, that was the best he could do! PUAs would class him as a 'natural', and if that girl is the best he can get, what hope is there for the rest of us?!

What do you think is going on here? :S

Probably the love factor of the situation, sure he can go out and get someone 20x better but if he's happy with "The One" then he's happy
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You reckon she somehow was/is his oneitis?

Here's your problem. First of all he's not a 10..there's no such thing as 10's. Stop talking about this guy as if he's a god. First of all an alpha male is not somebody who went to a good school and who is good looking. There are 6 characteristics of an alpha male. All the things you said about him except being well groomed does not enter the alpha male definition. You think he should get 10's?? Why do you put this guy on a peddlestone I'm pretty sure all my wings can kick his ass in a bar pretty easily. Going to school, having a job and being smart are not really tools to fuck hot girls..they help..if you have game. If you dont have game you end up like this guy..being good looking with shitty girlfriends what can I tell you? Stop posting about someone elses's greatness when they're not even great and start thinking about what you can do to become better

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my cousin dated a 9.5 girl, she was fucking hot and 16 years old, he was 20.
One day she breaks up, he gets heartbroken.
Now he's with a 1. a fucking 1 on 10. She has a mustache visible at least 10 or 15 meters away, her face looks like a witch, she's dumb, etc.
I figure since he got so heartbroken he went for a 1 that wouldn't leave him because he's the only guy that even acccepted looking at her.

For the rest of us?

So the 10's 9's 8's 7's 6's are just not having sex right?

Just remember, there is a lot more to a person than there looks, I've known girls that were 6's upon me first meeting them and then they became 9's after getting to know them.. If you actually got to know a women on an intimate level you would know this.

Also, just a note, I've fucked a large number of 9's and 10's but my last girlfriend was a 8(upon first meeting).. I could of done better than her physically, but mentally and spiritually she had something I hadn't come across in some time.

A pimple becomes a dimple when you're in love.

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100% right. The thing with the 8 becoming suddenly more on the scale happens to me with almost each girl I meet who's above a 7..

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Well one thing you need to know is physiologically women gain fat much faster than guys when they age.

So i suggest you look at the facial features and basic body shape of the girl and see that she possibly was hot when they first met and eventually let themselves go.

It is one of the terrible things in life. Landing a hot chick doesnt mean she will stay that way for the rest of your relationship.

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Maby he really liked the girl?
When I see a mediocre girl that I like, I really don't care what others think of her.

So true. There are a few girls in my class who I didn't really notice at first because they aren't physically very attractive, however after I've gotten to know them their attractiveness has gone up a few pegs because they are awesome.

OP, you simply do not understand people.. You overestimate looks.

Take your another thread:
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and your quote:
"But personality in an attractive girl is very unimportant"

Not only that, but reading these 2 topics of yours... You need to understand the fundamentals, you get everything pretty wrong. Thats why you do not understand these 2 situations you created 2 threads about

No sane guy is ever going to turn down sex with an attractive girll, regardless of her personality - that's why personality in an attractive girl is very unimportant. Also, if you have no other options with girls, and you suddenly had a chance with a sexy girl with a terrible personality (whatever the hell this means), then you'd obviously take her as your girlfriend.

Crazy dirty sex.

I turn down attractive women all the time dude... What the fuck are you talking about?

You wouldn't turn them down and thats exactly why you can't have them.. You'll sleep with anything that looks good and thats repulsive to women... I see theres going to be a 40 year old virgin part 2.. I loved that movie anyway, keep it up dan!

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Man, you really seem to have the gift to create controversy with your threads My opinion about this, answer to your last thread as well, where you claim that "women personality is very unimportant". Well this case brought by yourself shows that it is not and i think you havent had the chance to experience a relationship with a beautiful but empty head woman to realize that even beauty gets boring, specially of course in a long term relationship.

Maybe what happened to this "ALPHA" dude is that he knows he might have a beautiful girl whenever he wants (or probably he has had already lots of them) and he needed in this stage of his life a person that fulfilled other needs like: intelectual, social and/or personal affinity. Sure you will probably say: "Well, why he didnt looked then a HB9 or 10 with those characterisitcs"! ?) Well first of all because we would like it to be that easy and its not, second, simply because he crossed paths with this girl first and found her special. A strong bond between them was created and period!.

Note: We cannot fail either to point out the classic phenomenon: When you know you can have something anytime you want, its not that interesting anymore. So you can afford to look for something different.