Ahh Danthedan, let me see if I can put this into words. Your the Shallow blond of men. You know how you rate a women.. How would they rate you... prob low, the reason being is because u think low of yourself and you think too highly of looks SHALLOW!! BAD!

Empathy is something we all sub-communicate and most guys on this forum and girls for that matter have skill with it.

I talk to girls like guys. Because I know first hand that looks is not all there is in life. You have been fooled by the world.

Here is my guess; Your mom was dominating even overwhelming at times. Prob a blond, maybe you come from a divorced family or your father was not a figure so you have no idea how a man should act. So you have modeled your life after you mom... Who happened to be a awful example of a women. This all made your view of chicks... BAD! NO!

This story is somewhat mine too, but I caught it a little earlier before i got nearly choddie as you are acting in this thread.

Here is your mindset dude. Shame, No self-respect, Self loathing, PURE NEEDINESS, lust, lust, lust all = creeper.

Throw out the hand lotion, Never look at a hooker again. Talk to a couple of girls like they are your friends, or like they are dudes. It is all prob overwhelming hua?? How about this, sell the video games. And stop watching so much TV.

Have this mindset as soon as you wake up in the morning. I appreciate... I love.. I like... I am grateful for.. Start the day off right.. Look in the mirror, see the good. Not all this shit we are knocking you for. Not all this shit your just being plain choddie about. And get some game, you can.. wow. Imagine that!!

In fact; read, the game. Read, the secret. Watch, the boys and girls guide to getting down on netflix.

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Yes I am shallow, in that I require a girl to be decent-looking in order to find her sexually attractive, but then we're all like that.
But (to repeat myself yet again!) how do they know I think low of myself when they're just seeing me across a bar or mall? They know nothing about me, I just want them to like my face and want to ogle me. When deciding whether to ogle a stranger, the only relevant consideration is what their face/body looks like, who cares or even knows about their personality or level of self-esteem? Can you please answer me this, and explain why girls never ogle me, when I don't think I even look that bad?
Looks may not be everything, but they are extremely important. You try going out with an ugly fat girl, see how you like it - it won't last long because you need to be sexually attracted to someone in order to have a sexual romantic relationship!
No my mum was fine, not overwhelming at all, and I do know my dad, he is a father figure.
Choddie? :S
Yes I'm ashamed of being a useless loser who can't get any decent-looking girls to like him, kiss him, love him and get in his bed.
Of course I don't respect myself, because I seem incapable of getting sexual action with girls
I loathe myself because I can't get any sexual attention from girls.
I need sexy girl(s) to love me, but I don't get it, so it's no surprise I'm needy.
So just because I lust for girls that makes me a creeper?! But all men lust for girls, maybe girls should get used to that!
I don't watch much TV or play video games though. I do a lot of porn-watching and hooker-visiting though. But then if I didn't do that there'd be no sexual action in my life at all, since real girls in real life just ignore me, especially if they're sexy. That's why I have to do it. If I didn't have porn or hookers I would just have enforced celibacy.
I appreciate being able to kiss pretty girls in bars - oh wait, girls won't let me do that.
I love sexy girls, but they all ignore me because I'm apparently not good enough for them.
I like it when sexy girls get attracted to me, but this never happens so I hate myself and I hate my shit 'life'.
I'll be grateful when I get a sexy girl.
The only real good in life is getting sexy girls attracted to you, and since I don't have that privilege, I have nothing. The only point to life is getting sex with sexy girls and having them want you, everything else is just a means of trying to indirectly acquire sexy girls.
I'd be amazed if I ever had 'game'. I just want to find a sexy girl who likes my face, so we can just fuck each other without having to agonise over whether I have sufficient 'game'. Do girls really sit there with a fucking checklist ticking off things like confidence, charisma, game, social skills, dominance, alpha-ness, social status, what her friends think, what her friends' friends think, what day it is, what his favourite colour is, what his clothing style is, how smooth-talking he is, etc. before they'll even consider kissing a guy?! Surely there are guys that girls see and they think "You know what, I like his face & body so I want to fuck him, and I don't care what game or social skills he has, I want him anyway because he looks nice"? I just need to find a sexy girl who thinks that about me, then I'll be sorted for life, unless she gets bored of me :-O
I've read the game but there isn't much advice in there, just stories.

Dan I challenge you to give up porn and hookers for 2 months and see what happens... I'd bet $1000 dollars that you find someone once you quit.. I'll seriously bet the money. Get SPAM or whatever but give it up for 2 months and watch. I wrote a brilliant article for this seduction website today also, once its published I'd let you have a look, it should help you a lot

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How does my porn & hooker habit affect girls' opinion of how my face physically looks though? Can you just explain that please, because everyone else keeps avoiding this simple question for some reason. :S

It effects your energy and vibe... You have a creeps vibe similar to one of a rapist.. Your actions give you a certain energy that is disgusting to women..

Hell if we can pick it up over what you write over the internet, I could only imagine what the women can pick up in person.

There are guys A LOT uglier than you that get girls and get looked at by women all the time just because they radiate a positive energy an vibe. It attractive even if they're face isn't.. Women don't view looks the way men do.. You're right about a girl having to attractive for you to want to want to be with her but women don't view it this way, because they can get an attractive guy as easy as pie with half the charisma and personality of some ugly men.. No one wants to just have a pretty face for a boyfriend and be unable to have a conversation with them..

Do you believe that if you were the most beautiful guy on earth but you were mute and deaf you could still get women? Well thats how women see you dan, as a mute and deaf because of your mentality. Its disgusting bro, my stomache turns reading your post, I could only imagine what would happen if I hung out with you.

An no i am not trying to be a dick, I'm just speaking the truth and want you to see this picture as vivid as possible.

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So what you're saying is I'm a creepy loser who's rotten to the core? So what's the point in me living?

Ask there mirror that because I have no idea, I don't know you..

I told you what to do, give up the porn and hookers. If this all means something to you you'll do it. If not, you don't care enough about yourself, then do with yourself as you wish.

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But porn, stripclubs & hookers are my whole sex life. If I didn't have them I 'd have literally nothing. Should I also not masturbate or even look at sexy girls?

I'm telling you that your life will change if you give it up, im not debating this with you dude... Take a word from someone that knows something about women.. Give it a try, quit for at least 2 months

If you still feel a need to debate then keep living your pointless life until you find a rooftop or a rope.

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Everyone here are trying to help you but you won't have any of it. Wake up and smell the coffee already. Women don't work the same way as guys. The are looking for a provider on a biological level, not for good looks. In other words if you can provide an image of a successful and confident person then that's all you need, it will trump looks every time.

What exactly do I need to give up? All forms of lust? Am I allowed to masturbate without porn, or even glance at sexy girls?

Look all you will but no ejaculation of any kind for 2 months..

Thats it... NO further questions have to be asked.

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Can I have a play without ejaculating?

If I don't ejaculate for 2 months won't I burst? Or just have a wet dream?

Are you retarded dude?

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I must be, since I can't get sexy girls to have sex with me. But I did go one month without maturbating before, and I still didn't get any girls, so frankly I question the effectiveness of this abstinence theory of yours.