Might sound like a silly question.. but I would have always said that a girl who is happy to talk about sex on a first date and then fuck on a first date is a no-goer, but according to most of you lot on here it doesnt matter.. so what exactly does matter or put you off?

I was at some event a while back and this girl was there and she looked a bit flirtatious. Someone at the event said he wouldn't bother with her as he thinks she is a girl who can 'smell sex'.. I didn't full understand what he meant so I suppose that is another question..

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What puts me off? Well there are internal and external things. Appearence wise it has to be teeth. I had a brace as a teen and i'm so glad I did, I just think its a massive shame that really attractive women who look amazing let themselves down when they smile. I feel bad for judging someone on their looks but teeth are a factor.

But internal its a bit weird, like I was speaking to a girl a few days back in a club and she brought up how she loves cats and how she collects clothes for her cat, kinda like a mothering complex. I K closed her but I wouldn't of gone any further because she was a no go. I mean I collect stuff heck i've seen every episode of stargate but I wouldn't tell someone that if I was attracted, I'd let them find out after a few months

As for a girl wanting sex on a first date well it depends how I was, if I really wanted to bonk then I wouldn't care but if I was trying to find my sole mate and I had a bang a few days before I would probably back away... unless she was a big 10, then i'd just slip on my rubber and do the deed regardless.

That's my opinion anyway.

If a girl is fat or ugly then she's not dating material. Any other girl is automatically dating material, provided you're lucky enough to have a chance with her that is!

no, that in my opinion would actually be a good thing, it is no indication of if a girl would cheat on you or not, you can only find that out once you are actually seeing her, that is just an indication that she is sexually open and normal, without sexual hangups and is not insecure

you can find prudes that are cheaters, and prudes that are not cheaters, you can find loose girls that are cheaters and loose girls that are not cheaters, but if you find out a girl has cheated on you, dump her ass once a cheater always a cheater

as for reasons why I would not date a girl
1) she treats me like shit
2) she is not fun to be around
3) I don't find her physically attractive and don't want to sleep with her
4) she is crazy
5) nothing in common
6) she cheats when committed
7) low sex drive

If her stomach touches the wall before her boobs.

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Reasons I would not date a girl:
1) She doesn't make my dick hard
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Damn right.

1. Rank breath
2. Mental Retardation(blonde syndrome)
3. Smelly vagina
4. Watching shows like The Kardashians or anything else for idiots
5. And not being all that other crap like a nice person, caring, blah blah blah

The exact same.

Here's a fairly good post I wrote about screening girls for long term relationships: drama-free-relationships-1-screening-vt124827.html

Hopefully, that helps.

-Wolf

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Screening: drama-free-relationships-1-screening-vt124827.html
Bad Behavior: drama-free-relationships-3-the-soft-next-vt125554.html

just had a read.. nice post.

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I go by how a woman dresses day to day. Any woman can clean up when she wants, but if she dresses like a slob normally, then she is only pretending to be classy when she needs to be. I think that a woman should take some pride in her appearance, and that makes her classy.
Also, her choices of words and level of understanding determines if she's classy. If she seems simple or uneducated, that's a real problem. Because nothing is a bigger indicator of class than your speech patterns. If she uses vulgar language in public or low brow slang, or proceeds to converse solely about celebrity gossip then she's not classy.
But what's easiest for me, is I know some classy women, and I can tell if a woman is similar to them or not. Knowing classy women is the easiest way to gauge if a woman is classy or not. I simply think, "Would this girl get along with my classy friends?". And, one way or the other, I have my answer.