Ok, here's my story:

I'm 25 years old, I fclosed some girls in the past year, but my problem is, I don't find the type of girl I want. Maybe I have high standards? not about beauty but an average about beauty and intelligence...
Strangely I feel that I want a woman when I don't have it... it happened a lot of times. I fclosed some girls and I dont care about them, but when they don't want to be with me anymore I want them... thats social dynamics right?
As I read that is what happens to women, they want what they dont have, well that is what is happening to me right now...

I had a girl, and she was really into me, and I didn't care about her until I saw her with another guy... jealousy plotline?

I'm really depressed right now, I dont believe in love... I know such thing is an illusion and all people are looking for the best they can have, and if they find something better than you they will leave, the problem is, I can't be better than the rest of the world, there will be always one better than me, like it or not, that is a fact. and it's not about self-steem.

the current average of couples is about 7 years, then they break up. I used to think that getting into a relationship is like jumping with your couple from the top of a building... sooner or later one will hit the paviment... It's like they are doomed to fail and suffer... I don't know any couple that lasts more than 10 years (and if they last that much is because they are accustomed but they dont really feel attraction anymore)...
So in conclusion, the one that doesnt break the relationship will suffer (never is a mutual agreement, that's a lie)...
What I'm missing here? that it's what life is all about? that kinda suck...

So the best solution is to keep approaching girls like a robot and not feel anything? like eat to satisfy hunger?...


PD: sorry about my english, is not my first language

Sounds to me like your situation is more focused on life/love situations and not game. If your general focus is to game... then read on. If your general focus is to find a life partner, I suggest you log out, and find a new forum that will help you keep your mind on the right track.

Honestly, once you find the right person, it will naturally fall into place... I believe that couples "settle" because of convenience, or comfort. If you truly dont settle, you will find the one without looking, and youll know. In the meantime, remember, there are tons of fish in the sea. If you get jealous when you see one, but you know she isnt the one for you... fuck her best friend, or her sister, or someone hotter then her.

If you seek fun... its just that... fun. Like toys in your toybox growing up. When you get bored with one, pick out another.

Thank you 30AnvZ28, but you make it sound like it's easy...
I'll tell you what happened to me on friday, I was fucking one girl, and she knew I didn't what a relationship, she was making out with other guys (but not in front of me) then she saw me with another girl at the bar, she cried, and then that same night she fucked one of the DJ's, while the girl I was with didn't want to go with me that night... It's not fair isn't it? Being a girl is much more simple... you find a guy, and you fuck... being a man, you have to waint 7hours, or they must know you... if not they will not go with you on the same night... sure you can have luck, but it's just luck, 90% of the time that will be not the case.

So we (men) are at a disadvantage, aren't we?....

obviously she didn't want to be with me anymore since then.

Yes,

Your statement is very true. however... there is also another statement. 10% of the men, fuck 90% of the women. The key, is getting to that 10%. I am by no means in that 10% for the record. ANY chick... and I mean ANY chick, can get laid any night of the week. The same can not be said for men. Im a decent looking guy, with a lot going for me, and less then decent game... and I find it next to impossible to f-close on the same night I meet a chick. Give me a day 2, or get me past the first 24 hours, and I can pretty much guarantee it.

Out of the 36 women I have hooked up with, I can tell you exactly how things went down...

4 were relationships.
26 were met on the internet... most of which were closed the first night of actual meeting them... but usually more work put in prior.
4 were either friends, or we had a mutual friend in common, and ended up hooking up.
2 were same night meet/hook ups. One of those was someone I had spoken to many times over the phone. She was a sales rep for a company I do business with. We met at a convention, and I ended up in her room... so technicially... Ive only had 1 actual first contact/hook up in the same night....

Nice, so in conclusion being a man is the most limiting and boring experience.

Limiting: because you know 90% for sure you will not fuck them in the first night
Boring: becase you have to work a lot to get them into bed

Yeah, I know.. I sound like I'm gay or don't want to be a man but it's not that.. It's like it's not fair... women has always all the power... it's so fucking boring... you game her and you know you have to waint until the next day to fuck her, if your game is REALLY that great...

then she will fall in love with you (it happened to me 99% of time), and you have 2 choices, get into a relationship with her, or be with others girls and loose her, and start over again.

So you are the bad guy, breaking hearts, because you want to satisfy your needs while you're waiting for the right girl...

I had 3 girls in the last months... It was really difficult... now I have 0 again.. why? because they want to be in relationship or nothing... what the fuck is wrong with me?

that's not helping me

Maybe, maybe not.

Ive found that its extremly easy for me to weed out the people that wont put out by resorting to conversations via technology.

On the other hand... I had a buddy I was in the Marines with who would do the following...

He would walk up to a group of girls... look at the one the farthest left. "Wanna fuck?" Pending her response, he would immediatley look to the girl to her immediate left (his right) and say "You wanna fuck?" and continue down the line... even if they were in the same group.

Guess what? Hes had more pussy then you and I could ever hope to have... because he would leave at least once a night, and sometimes 2-3 times a night for a round outside with some chick that would say yes. I however, dont have a set of balls this big.

hmmm I don't think that will work... they will think you're a psycho... I don't know how things works in your country, but here, where I live, girls will freak out... you must have preselection even to say hi... I live in one of the most hysterical countries in the world... Argentina

I know that most of the time... it didnt go over well. Its the law of odds however. If 5 % of women are willing to hook up on the first night, and you only talk to one a night, but your game isnt the greatest, your odds of finding that 5%, and pulling it off are slim.

If you approach 40 women in one night, with that simple line... guess what, youll find that 5% easily.

Again, I dont have the balls to do this, or anything near it. Its just to show you though, that just because it does, or doesnt work for you, doesnt mean it doesnt work at all.

If you overanalyze/overthink the concepts of anything you will always find something depressing about it.

This world is fair. Men and women have their own advantages and disadvantages.

Do you know what sucks about living, you die eventually. You know what sucks about pleasure, it ends. This world is full of pain. You spend 99 percent of your life virtually in pain, thats why people who focus on pain become emo and commit suicide.

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maybe the solution is to move to another country with more open minded people about sex... even USA is more open minded than here...
Europe
Canada
USA

sometimes I think that men are losing their power, women will dominate the world lol just kidding...

Mate at least you can get sex with sexy girls, what are you complaining about?! Sure a relationship might end, but if the sex is good you're laughing! Are you seriously going to turn down a temporary relationship with a sexy girl just because it might not last forever? Would you turn down a temporary job paying £1,000/hour just because it might not last for the rest of your life? You see what I'm getting at here? Just enjoy all the sex you can get whenever you can get it, and be fucking grateful for it because there are plenty of loser guys like me who can't get anything at all, and it's only due to the genetic lottery that you're not in my virgin shoes.

And why the hell do you care about intelligence?! What's that got to do with sex!?

Hi dude, you see, I don't get A LOT of sex... I have some sex here and there, and it's not easy at all, just to much work... and I'm not getting HB10's.. some HB7 or 7.5 sometimes...
Living like that is funny at the beginning, but eventually you feel lonely, and you want some relationship...

Sure if you are like Brad Pitt you can get sex whenever you want without effort, and maybe that's a little more fun... but that's not my case, I have to put so much work and I dont think it worth it...

If you wanna be with the best girls, you must create a cool social circle, be known by all the people, be popular, I've done that, it took me about 1 or 1.5 year, I know everybody at one of my local Bars. And not only have all that, but maintain it... and that's too much work for some simple sex here and there...
Not to mention that if I go to another Bar, I'll need to start all over the beginning...

The game IS funny and great when you see results consistently, if not you'll get pissed of and bored... who wants to play a game when you lose 90% of the time..

I just not get it... I see great alpha males sometimes fclosing ugly chicks, then that same ugly girl thinks she's supper hot because of that..

It's like good looking alpha males are in trouble sometimes too, they don't get that much sex anyways...

so GIRLS, don't need to do anything, they dont need to think, they can be the most stupid human being on the planet, they don't need to put effort (maybe a littly to look good) and thats all there is to it... they have sex whenever they like

Men, well, we are fucked up.

take a look at this:

You are not a virgin, you said that you constantly have sex with hookers.