Hi everyone. I was wondering how I could improve my bar game based on my current attributes. I am 21 and am a medium height but handsome guy, and I usually dress well. Now though I am prone to AA, when I get a few (not too many) drinks in me I can approach most groups. Importantly, I don't slur my words and my game for opening is usually pretty decent if not good. Often mixed sets open me and I get in the zone and am able to just bank on my improv abilities. Either way, though opening is becoming less difficult, closing and especially escalating is becoming a bit troublesome. The worst part is is that opening is the hardest part for my mental game, everything else is just downhill but takes more exact skill. I need to get better at escalating. I've been told I'm an attractive guy by many women (without me asking), and I'm naturally very social. There just seems to be a slight yet vastly important piece of my game that is missing. I can charm groups and make them like me, but I have difficulty capitalizing on the sexual aspect. Ps, it is strangely easier for me to open groups with guys. Guys tend to like me and I've been called a "mans man" in the past. Can anyone help me out?

I can write a long post about how you don't have to worry about the outcome of kino escalation, But i'll keep it short short by saying~

You have nothing to lose.
To gain you have to risk losing.
Women will respond to you when you show that your bold and your not afraid to be a man. Just do it... You'll always regret not closing a girl when you think back to it. But when you DO, do it.. You feel a sense of accomplishment, even if you fail in the end.. You learned something.

~Goodluck

You know I think that was all I needed to hear. I was aware of everything you said, but sometimes hearing someone else say it packs a much stronger punch. Thanks a lot.

Exactly. No problem man.

~Goodluck