It seems to me everything we discussing is psychology and everyones respectfull enough so im gonna use you guys as my psychologists ha

My games fairly good i've got cocky funny and some good stories and manage to apply the theory of Alpha Malism and being Mr sociable.
The problem as i wrote in an earlier post is i wasn't gaming for sex i just like being really sociable and building new relationships and i've been kiss closing and getting numbers but never following it up sexually, either because it will hurt my ego and reputation or i lack the sexual confidence to do so.... which for me wasn't an issue i liked being a nice guy with great social skills, almost septerated me from the players who are fucking the girls over but with this girl SPAM i dont think im displaying enough sexuality perhaps as a result of that. Should you look at each other and be like rahhh i want to fuck that or do some relationships work on a more friendship basis...... and if i decide that i want a very sexual relationship and to become alot more dominant in that area how can i go about it?

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the title of this thread reminds me of Chris Hansen of Dateline NBC...That's not really a good thing..lol You might wana call yourself something other than a "sexual predator" lol

Why don't you have a seat over there?

Jokes aside, you may have used a poor term there with "predator" but I think I get what you are aiming at. You never express yourself sexually with a woman, and aren't sure if that's the best thing to do. Honestly? If you are attracted to a woman sexually, at some point you gotta convey that. How you do it best usually varies, but end of the day there are a few things that we all gotta do. The combination is best dependent on your personality.

1. Verbal: this is obvious. You just tell a girl her ass looks amazing or something. You state clearly that she has your attention in a physical way.

2. Eye contact: I'm still not great at this. Basically you just send out a vibe that you are turned on. Some suggest looking at her while imagining yourself fucking her, something along those lines. I'm not an expert with this but it should be easy enough to find posts on the forum about it.

3. Kino: If you never touch a girl, it will be a lot tougher to get anywhere sexually. I like Vin DiCarlo's escalation ladder on this, and it's free.

I'd also like to ask one question: What do you mean when you said that following up sexually could hurt your ego or reputation?

I suggest changing the title.

Anyways i dont have that problem. I think you need to work on being alpha in way that you dont let fear guide your actions, also mental, and physical teasing.

The reason i say mental teasing is because when you tease verbally, thats when you become labeled a pervert aka "sexual predator." Use subtext and subtle innuendos to make her think of sex. I believe in my case its not putting sex into her head but letting her express her sexuality to me as i express my sexuality to her in a none creepy way.

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haha ye excuse the title, didn't really think about how that would be percieved..... i think it is an alpha male thing after reading what you guys have had to say...... but i wouldn't say im a natural alpha male more his sidekick that is the key to his success!
But thanks ill have a think about it and try and work on that area

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