Basically in a club, girl actually approaches me hit it off pretty well then her friends come in and take her away.

Anything I can do to stop this? When it happens normally pretty close to k close and nothing I can do to overcome the obstacle first as her friends aren't there. Didn't really think this was a big deal, just some unlucky obstacle until the other night where happened three times in a row and I didn't even get a k-close (sad face ).

Thanks in advance for the replies guys


Ok advice so far is pretty solid but how would you deal with this situation (just copied from another post of mine lower down) do you just sometimes get unlucky?


Queuing up to get into a club and girl behind starts talking to me. Shes on her own since all her friends are way out ahead. Eventually get to the front pay to go in etc. Kinda forced to get out the way inside as soon as you've paid so had to leave her for a lil bit. During that time her friends come up to me and say "Are you trying to sleep with our friend [ - ]" I simply reply "not really - just being a sociable person". Then I get told to literally fuck off by her friends.

Fairly certain it wasn't the whole girl code thing from the girl I was chatting with since I was getting fair few IOIs and a bit of kino etc etc. So yeh kinda confused on that one

Hey! That happens all the time, specially at thing, how many girls go out alone? You need to be aware that you have to like to her friends or this is gonna happen. When talking to her ask her to introduce to her friends once you have created comfort try to isolate your girl, this is the key to succeed in these cases.

Handling cock blocks isnot easy, it requires a lot of practice. What I said before is what you can do if you don't have much experiece, try to prove to her friends that you are nice-cool guy. IF one of her friends comes and cock blocks you DO NOT MATCH her anger, try to be calm at all time remember she's HER friend and there is no way she's gonna choose you over her friends.

Other thing that you can do - this is if you have a little bit more experience- when the cock blocker approaches you can introduce yourself and say something nice about your "target" hey I'm here talking to .... she's really funny is she always like or or is it becasue she's flirting with me?

As always, it's up to you. What you feel comfortable saying or doing.
Good luck

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here are some ideas for you in the future man,

-soi the group as a whole (compliment all of the group, friends and target)
-lock the target in either with a prop or physically when friends are trying to pull her away, just block them with your back
-kiss mega friend ass big time, and re-assure them you are a safe trust worthy guy
-you can also use qualification on a girl to help you stop it/qualify friends not to do it or qualify target to help you stop friends (you're not going to cockblock your friend are you?'' ''you're not going to let your friend cockblock you are you?'', ''I like how you seem so confident and sure of yourself, I hate sheep that just do what their friends tell them too, you know what I mean?'' *drop this early in set, if she qualifies to it, just recall it, with, you're not going to just do what your friends tell you are you?''*

I've simply realized

it's best to just ignore the friends

if the girl likes you enough, she will introduce you to her friends

Thanks guys - advice here would help me deal with most of the situations I've been in recently - think I'm most likely to go for qualifying her.

One thing though - is there anyway to deal with this or sometimes do you just get unlucky:

Queuing up to get into a club and girl behind starts talking to me. Shes on her own since all her friends are way out ahead. Eventually get to the front pay to go in etc. Kinda forced to get out the way inside as soon as you've paid so had to leave her for a lil bit. During that time her friends come up to me and say "Are you trying to sleep with our friend [ - ]" I simply reply "not really - just being a sociable person". Then I get told to literally fuck off by her friends.

Fairly certain it wasn't the whole girl code thing from the girl I was chatting with since I was getting fair few IOIs and a bit of kino etc etc. So yeh kinda confused on that one

I would befriend all her friends first, you want to isolate the girl, shes already showed interest, so taking the time to get to know her friends will DHV spike massively. I like befriending the fat/ugliest friend first, don't hit on them, just be friendly, the hot girls will be BEGGING for your approval when you do this.

Oh and in reply to your post matleh, I had a similar thing happen to me last night, I got offered sex, and I said 'I dont think you can afford to sleep with this' or something along those lines. She threatened to punch me in the face, said she fell in love with me then I crashed and burned!! I would still use the same reply again and again, if they dont get your sense of humour, whats the point in talking to them?