| here is a checklist of things that can help you get this sorted out, field test these in order to build up some reference points, (these ideas should be done in field, via night game at a club)
mission 1-do 4 days in a row, of appocolypse opener, if you can open easy and actually hook, it shouldn't be too hard to just appocolypse open, your goal should be 20 opens a night
once you have completed that, soi'ing a girl home shouldn't feel weird, you will just think, fuck it, I have opened with that shit a million times, why not try to close with it
mission 2-next for 4 days in a row, open sets (aim for 20 sets a night) with soi's (statements of intent aka compliments), just drop a pre-frame and soi, then hook or no hook, leave the set shortly after open, and go open another set with an soi, continue doing this all night, once you got all the girls soi'd that you like in the club (or around 20), start re-approaching and trying to qualify, if any girls re-approach you, try to make out with them (if you suck shit at physical compliance testing *physical escalation*, just drop that gay mystery method would you like to kiss me routine on them do this for the girls that re-approach)
mission 3-after that, the next 4 day mission, is aim for blowouts off opener, use retarded muscle jokes to open or other silly things
-hey girls, you got your tickets?... TOO THE GUN SHOW *flexes* ohhhh yahhhhhh
-hey girls, you hear about that horrible escape at the zoo?.... THE PYTHONS HAVE ESCAPED!! *flexes* ohhhhhh yahhhhhhhhhh
-hey girls, did you hear about that horrible mixup at the hosipital?..... THEY ARE LOOKING FOR THESE BABIES!!! *flexes* ohhhhh yeahhhhhhh
-hey girls, could you please call a plumber.... CAUSE MY PIPES ARE CRACKIN *flexes* OHHHHH YEAHHHHH
-excuse me could you please blow me out
-*lift up shirt and rub stomach* YOU LIKEY, YEAH GIRL, YOU LIKEY!!!??!!
after blowout open, try to qualify fast and request a number in under 5 minutes, no matter how it goes the object of these missions are to get blown out on the open, or at the number close, be normal in between, you want to close too fast, or get blown out off the open, when girls try to give objections for the number close, try to find ways around their objections
mission 4-go out for you guessed it.. 4 days, with a goal of opening 20 a night, open with soi and touch her arm/shoulder to get her attention, all sets that hook, qualify, every single time a girl qualifies, just say wow I love you, and escalate in this linnear order
-wow I love you *open your arms and go for a hug*
-wow I love you, now give me a kiss on the cheek *point to cheek and turn it towards her*
-wow I love you, *kiss her on the cheek*
-wow I love you, hug her and go in slow for a makeout while holding eye contact
no matter what every time you get stuck and she rejects escalation, drop a false time constraint, tell her she seems kinda cool, you should hang out some time, pull out your phone and say, what is your number?
if you've been going out for 2 years, these things should be pretty easy to pull off, and you will probably gain some good reference points from doing all the missions, combine what you learned and when you start asking girls home that are horny, just keep going for a makeout, and every time she stops you take off one piece of clothing, every time she asks you why, just say, this is how I get comfortable, talk to her for a bit (focusing on sexual frames and raising her buying temp), then try again, every time you are met with resistance, get closer to being naked
worst case senario she goes home and you learned something to do better next time
after you are comfortable with this, you can focus on more solid sexual frames, and establishing some good tension with eye contact and some meaningful kino meant to turn her on, getting close to her fast and stuff like that, but certainly do the above missions and get a few lays out, before shifting your focus, it will most likely be easier to ease into it, then just think go full blast, right away
GOOD LUCK
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