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PostPosted: Sat Jan 28, 2012 7:17 am 
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I have been working on my social skills by forcing myself to go out at least one hour every night. I went out to the local bar with my roommate. As soon as we walked in started talking to some guy about our motorcycles. (he has a Harley and I have a Kawasaki). That took longer that I would've liked but then afterwards approached the bar and ordered a coke. Immediately after getting that we went towards three older girls at the west side of the bar. Started some random conversation by just saying hi. They were really responsive and we ended up talking for like 10 min. This whole time the target is sitting at the east side of the bar with her girlfriend. I wanted her to see my buddy ( Harley) and I being cool, laughing and having a good time and a good topic of conversation with random strangers, which they did. I kept my back turned to the target but every now and then would casually check her out with a quick brush of my hair or something. I did catch her and specially her friend looking at me from across the bar. But now what? I had attracted the attention of the target within 5-10 min of getting there, however she was at the other side of the bar and I had no fucking clue how I was going to get there. Walking towards them and introducing myself would have been extremely needy. So I just kinda lingered at the same spot looking like I was laughing and just having a good time with my buddy harley. After pussing out for like 30 min I saw the target go to the bathroom and subtly check us out. After she came back and sat next to her friend for like 2-3 min her friend went to the bathroom and this one gave me the look from head to toe. Like she checked the fuck out of me. So every minute that goes by I am loosing value by not coming with something clever to approach them. Well after doing nothing for the next like 7 min I told Harley it was better if we just left since I felt like I had fucked up and there was no coming back. So on the way out I just stopped by them and said "so who are you" they looked at each other to see and then the target goes "I am me and she is she" to which I replied - " oh, well I am I" and then we all giggled for a second. Then I said "well I am on my way out but had to stop and see about you girls, I just have to leave bcuz this place sucks"
Target-"no, this place is pretty cool actually"
me-"yeah, your right, it's just a little slow tonight"
Target-"we are about to head to south beach"
Target's friend-"that's if some shit goes down"
me-"when you go to the beach, which club do you go to"
Target-"Clevelander"
me"you know what the thing with the clevelander is, too many tourists"
Target-"there is tourists all over miami"
me- "yeah you are right"
then at this point I kinda hesitated to follow any further. I felt like I could have mention something about going out together to the clevelander or I felt like I could have asked for a number so that we could hand out some other time but instead I said
"well me and she, It has been a pleasure, have a good night"
they laughed and said good night
btw the target was a 6 and her friend was a 4.5


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PostPosted: Sat Jan 28, 2012 7:29 am 
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so afterwards I got home and a girl that works at a restaurant near by and lives at my apartment complex arrived home at the same time I did. so as she is walking by the parking lot I said "hey, its the girl from such and such restaurant" and we started talking and she said "well you should give me your number, lets exchange numbers" and I am like "sure" without even pulling my phone out of my pocket I just said "just dial mine would you"
her-"sure"
me" digits of my number"
her" is that your phone ringing in your pocket
me-"yeap, that's the crickets" (crickets is my ringtone)
then we chatted for a bit more and it looked like she was more that willing to keep chatting but I told her
"listen I am starving and immediately gave her the cheek against cheek kiss and walked home.
so there, I guess I got number closed


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PostPosted: Sat Jan 28, 2012 7:42 am 
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Congrats man! Your gettin there! :D

I think you could have done alot more if you guys were all alone in the parking lot. ;)
I hope your skills improve!

~Goodluck


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PostPosted: Sat Jan 28, 2012 3:40 pm 
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Thanx bro, all I am going to do now is continue to work on my game and not call her just yet until I have completely internalized the thought that she is as anxious, curious, excited and whatever else to get physical as I am. Also working on the detachment of outcome which is just fucking run game from within and not worry about shit. No need to convey any value whatsoever and then I'll call her. If I get to that point today then I get there and thats that, if it takes a few days, then she is going to have to wait on me. I'm not allowing her to put pressure on me. And if she gets too anxious well then she can try calling me.


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