| step 1) hit on her, and tease her, flirt in general, every guy will do this in a different way that is congruent to them personally, just get into a good mood, focus on your mood, then randomly blurt out what ever comes out of your mouth to express how you feel, you can tell a girl she is hot in a million ways, you can accuse her of being into you, you can set up role plays, you can verbally corner her and put pressure on her to watch her scramble around and figit, you can talk about sex, you can talk about the first time you saw her and how you wanted to make her your 9th wife, and she could do all the cooking and if she was good at it you might consider upgrading her to 7th wife and letting her clean (if she gets all negative about it, just say I want a divorce), just make fun of her in a way that is not rude (don't over do it), just ammuse yourself in general for fun
the possibilities of flirting are endless, in some way shape or form, improve her mood and demonstrate that you like her, show her your intent, rather then just blandly stating it for no emotional impact, you want to stimulate her emotions while demonstrating intent
-this is the push in the dymanic, or adding value, joking around and flirting, being playful, and not so serious, fun vibe, good energy
step 2) get to know her, find out what you have in common, find out what interests you share, talk about your commonalities, express how awesome it is to find someone that shares things in common with you, touch her, give her hugs and kisses for being so cool when she has things in common don't ask her, just do it, find out if she is the right girl for you (besides looks, trust me it matters once you have spent more then a month with the same girl), think of it like, the more you get to know about her, the more likely she will want to know about you and the less you judge her while doing this, the more comfortable she will become being around you
-this is the pull in the dynamic, vibing, getting comfortable with each other, finding out things about each other
next let her know you want to hang out with her, set some time up to do something with her, outside of school, she either is down, or makes up an excuse, if she has an excuse, meet new girls, and give her less attention
next thing in reguards to being funny, don't try to be funny, just try to be happy, emotions are contagious, turn off your brain, and just blurt out things that ammuse yourself while you are happy, if she catches on to your emotional state and vibes on it with you, you will find alot of what you say she will just laugh at
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