Hi im new here

So i met this HB 7-8 at a lecture, and when i met her she was in a group. I did a totally AFC thing an told her straight up that she was pretty, but didnt say anything else.. So for the next five days I got to know her, and her friends but they were always very close, so it was hard to talk to her, I would neg her about where she lived and her height. On friday i asked her out to lunch, but she said her and her friends were going out to lunch with her mum (Which was true because her mum worked there) And she wrote down her number and facebook.

So this is the problem.. I facebook messaged her twice, the first time i messaged her, i was witty and funny, but the second time i was being an AFC an interrogating her because i was nervous.. But i opened to her while texting once, and we had a great conversation. (Sat - Mon) On tuesday i didnt talk to her, and on wednesday i texted her "Hey there " but no reply and today i texted her "Okay i texted you, what are your next two wishes?" but still no reply, i dont know what to do :/
Her birthdays also in a week or so, and she said before that we should meet up during the holidays or something.
Sorry it was long but...

Don't use online game , that's sad. Prove her that you have balls. You can't approach to a girl and tell her she's attractive and then say... nothing, it doesn't make sense. Right?

You need to gain more confidence, more confidence in your game, more confidence in yourself that's related with your inner game with the way you handle the experiences that you have or in this case that you are going to have.

I'd recommend you to work on your confidence.

This is to get into the right mental state, this is very important before going out sarging.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=V-WCQTlH ... bxgZ5hWo_W


Thi vdeo is about number closing .
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7oga02d8 ... XbE65DvGJu


This video is about aa: This is the key if you really want to get good at this.
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Hope it goes well and good luck

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Winners have simply formed the habit of doing things losers do not like to do 18/03/12

More confidence.

Be bold. If you have known her for a good period of time and she's still acting "Friendly" your prolly in the friendzone.

I say, start gaming , kino, and flirting alot. And make your move.

I get you, its just we dont exactly live near each other, which why im texting

Like, states apart? or just a drive away?

If it's a drive, find a way to get to her, or meet somewhere that you both could enjoy, like a movie, or theme park.

You'll get alot better results in person.

Probably like an hour or more away, ok ill invite her out, but what should i do about her not texting?

Just call her , call her once if she doesn't answer just wait a couple of days and send her a text message IF she doesn't answer just let it go. There are billions of women out there so don't worry abou it

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Winners have simply formed the habit of doing things losers do not like to do 18/03/12

I called her and now answer she texts me 40 mins later saying "why did u ring me?" and i stupidly answered saying "I was gonna ask you something, but its late"

Ugh, why are you FBing her when you've got her digits? You need to call her, take the LESS easy approach and she'll appreciate that more. FB is easy, it's also a few steps back from speaking on the phone as you are missing out on a variety of behavioural cues that enriches the interaction (e.g. tonality of voice, hearing the other person etc.). I suggest you quite lollygagging with the text messages and FB messages and simply call her on the phone and tell her straight up you want to take her for dinner to this really cool place on the weekend. If she is busy, she's busy try again some other time. If the next time she's 'busy' again than simply continue the conversation (don't sound rejected), and keep in text contact with her for a bit to see if you can generate interest and then escalate again.

Is that her text style, or is she just being a total bitch?

She usually doesnt start using faces until she texts a lot, text style i guess,
So should i call her tommorow? What should i say? Thanks for the help lads

I'd back off her a few days if she's not initiating with you.

So just back Off and call again in a couple of days?

She isn't interested dude..

Anytime a girl askes you " why did you call me?" instead of just calling you back thats a no go..

And give up the canned lines, those are for losers.

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Alright cheers, thanks im new to this so im still learning. Thanks for the help!