Hey bro! Based on your story i'd say she's telling the truth. I think you handled this like a man, going straight for the point and not fucking around.

About the "Wow ur bf sure is jealous isnt he" part, Hassan might just be a prick when he is bored and likes to provoce other people for attention. I also think its good that you basically told the "Take care of it or i will" part. Chapeau!

It's pretty simple from here on actually, if he keeps bothering your woman he is in for some serious ass kicking as i see it, you warned him, what more can you do?

Like my grandfather always says "Listening to a friendly melody is always better than listening to raging thunder" He truly is a great man!

Thanks, lol'd at hassan btw


Anyway i hope this will settle the matter, if not i will pay a visit and let u guys know how it went.

Thanks a lot!

Damn man, difficult situation.

So your problem is that: You can't physically beat him, without consequences.

Then you have two choices:
1. You and your girlfriend go to her school together. When you see him, with your girlfriend clinging onto you, talk to him or just let him notice you watching him. Say that you wanted to see the guy that is desperately trying to get a girlfriend who already has a boyfriend, while half laughing.
Eye contact is important, but never give in to/start a fight, unless he begins to touch you and you have a chance of winning.
2. (what I would do but I understand your 'dutch' situation): Go to his school, search for him, then tell him to not touch your girlfriend anymore. 'What are you, pathetic? Can't find your own girl? If he still acts tough, FUCK him UP if necessary with a bat. TOTALLY. (But I know that you will have to be more careful in the future as he will want 10.vs.1 revenge probably, I'm guessing that is your problem. In that case, carry a knife)

Or you could tell your girlfriend that if he's that touchy and all she could've just really tell him to stop, which will lead to him not liking her, because she is now acting mean and ignoring towards him.
If she really meant it when she said stop to him, he would probably really stop. I can't see how someone can massage someone while one person pushes arms away and moves their shoulders.
Maybe she wants a bit of his social attention because he's popular, else her social value would lower a lot. I think that these kind of girls have to grow up and start getting more confidence.

Don't... do this....
1) What purpose does this serve? He will now look at this as a real challenge and will start pushing even harder.
2) The dude will tell your girlfriend you beat him, and she will NOT like it.
3) Sure... tell your teenage girlfriend how to handle a douchebag, assuming she's immature to do it on her own. That will help. /sarcasm off/ I agree with your last paragraph though.

It's a hard problem, because we don't know what the girl REALLY thinks.

If your girlfriend tells you that someone is bothering her, it is your JOB to protect her.
If she really does not like what he is doing and is not trying to make you jealous, you should.

And emperically I can say that the guy that's bothering her, will be touchy and aggressive. (regarding ethnicity) And you won't be glad if he wants to get you, imo.