Ok here's the story beggining of the week I exchanged some texts with a girl, she said something on the lines of I cant go out today but this day is fine.

So the day comes shes at work I say nothing about the meet up all day, then she gets home she drops some hint on a social networking site about the cinema, an hour before I expected to her to get home I see this an hour later (Shes been home for an hour)

So I ring her she dosn't pick up 30 minutes go by I ring her again then boom I've left it now.

The reason why I rang her a second time because I thought she's just got home could be eating, showering e.c.t

So guys the question is what she playing hard to get, shall I move on, have I failed?

- iTwitch

Haved you asked her why she didnt show up?

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Thanks for the response.

I wasn't stood up, I didn't mention the meet all day long. I wanted to make her think I forgot, then when I ring her I could say "How did your day go, what you doing?" (Her knowing in the back of her mind that we were going out and I didn't mention it all day at all)

By this time I knew she would have asked me the same, I would have said something cheeky along the lines of "Oh just taking this gorgeous girl to the cinema just waiting for her to get off the phone and put her shoes on so I can pick her up"

I know for a fact she wouldn't be able to resist on something like that and the conversation would have gone from there.

But I think it was just the fact she posted something on a social networking site dropping a hint, and I checked an hour later I thought im an hour late by then I think she was maybe a little pissed off.

How can I recover from this I'm not ringing her again I was thinking of sending her a text in the morning saying something or I might just leave it until she texts me or calls me what to do?

- iTwitch

Why would you not mention your plans?? Frankly, pulling stuff like this is what assholes do. Unless you want this to happen again , I wouldn't do this anymore because you could have quite possibly killed whatever attraction she had toward you.
Don't wait until she contacts you, thats like punching someone in the face for no reason and waiting for them to apologise to you. I would definitely be the one to contact her first, try to figure out what happen, if she's mad at you apologise or come up with an excuse, and try to re-schedule

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"The bird sets itself on fire… and in the embers is an egg. In order to do great things, you've got to recreate yourself again ,and you can’t do that holding to a glory or a failure from yesterday. "

I really didn't meen to come off as an asshole texting her saying "Look sorry I thought you were home an hour later" something on the lines of that or saying something like this "I shouldn't have kept quiet just wanted to suprise you" or just say "Look I shouldn't of done that, that's what assholes do"?

I know im gonna have to take blame for this in someway but what approach sounds good?

Call or text?

- iTwitch

Well with a text she is probably less likely to ignore you, but if you call her you could come of as more sincere. Call her, if she doesn't answer then text her. If she doesn't answer, you might wanna wait a few days and try again. And after that last time, cut your losses and move on.

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"The bird sets itself on fire… and in the embers is an egg. In order to do great things, you've got to recreate yourself again ,and you can’t do that holding to a glory or a failure from yesterday. "

Thanks you for the advice I tried to rep you but its seems to say I'm giving you zero???? Have no idea but thank you.

Your welcome . Try to put in like 0.3, or however much, if you really want to give me rep haha.

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"The bird sets itself on fire… and in the embers is an egg. In order to do great things, you've got to recreate yourself again ,and you can’t do that holding to a glory or a failure from yesterday. "