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He isn't saying only he likes variety, he's saying everyone wants more.
Things you can provide, love, sex, interest, fun, money, time, support, commitment (or at least the potential), social networking and probably lot more.
But you only offer one of these things, then say, okay lets try that one thing, a different way, and see if it turns into something else.
The real problem is you don't commit. You say you want advice, but you don't even commit to that. You get plenty of advice then you dismiss it and say, no that's not it, you don't have the information, and I won't give it to you.
People point you in one direction, then you just say, no I'd rather not, and then stay in the same spot.
The solution for you is to spend some money on a fancy sex machine, and I think you'll be okay.
Um, that is a really fucking selective view of all my posts. I most certainly have NOT dismissed ALL the suggestions that have been made and have in fact carefully considered and taken on board the advice that is relevant to me and my situation. I will have you know that I am most definitely approaching my interactions with men differently now as a direct result of some of the insights posted in this thread.
Just because I like casual sex does not mean that I am shallow, have problems committing, have serious emotional problems, am a bitch, am a bad friend, don't care about others, etc. I find it pretty disturbing that it seems a female is not allowed to have the similarly relaxed approach to sex that many men have without being judged so harshly. As I said in my previous post, I really think all these accusations reveal a lot more about the accuser than they do about me.