Ok I have been with my gf like 3/4 weeks.


We have dated since the start of November.


She has told me plenty of times that she is super into me, that its great how we havent had any fallings out.


Then boom this weekend...

We get home from a night out drunk, and she tells me plenty of times that she loves me.


She was mega wasted, so was I. In the morning we're talking and she gets a bit teary eyed. She tells me she remembers saying 'it' last night and has never said it first to someone...she then asked if I said it back as she was that drunk she can't remember.


At the time I didn't. I am really really into her and I've never had things this happy. I wouldn't consider being unfaithful to her at all.

But the 'L' word seems a bit premature for what...3 weeks dating/11 or so weeks of contact?


Thoughts on this? I told her I said it back...I'm not sure if this was a mistake or not. Truth be told maybe she was only saying it as she was drunk/we were 'up' still.

Probably more infatuated then love. But a drunk man's words are a sober mans thoughts. Don't tell her you love her if you don't though. If you have to question your feelings of love for her.. then you don't love her. Nothing wrong with that. Just takes time.

If she said it while drunk, she prolly ment it.
I don't think it's to early to bring the L word out... If things are going great and your happier than ever, don't let it effect you.
Have a great relationship my friend ~

Aw diddums. It must be so terrible for you having a sexy girl love you. All that lovely sex you're going to get now, aww my heart bleeds for you. Would you prefer she hated or LJBFed you?

Aw diddums. It must be so terrible for you having a sexy girl love you. All that lovely sex you're going to get now, aww my heart bleeds for you. Would you prefer she hated or LJBFed you?

Act as you both mean it and carry on, it will come out naturally if she was being genuine.

If she remebered saying it but couldn't remeber you saying it back... could have been a shit test.